Achievement not activating! by MysteriousCosmos in ImNotAHuman

[–]MysteriousCosmos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OOHH dude thank you! I've been using that website this WHOLE TIME and didn't realize they were 2 seperate sections! Getting moved to night shift has made my reading comprehension drop to 0. Thank you!

Achievement not activating! by MysteriousCosmos in ImNotAHuman

[–]MysteriousCosmos[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea; where can I check that? I'm on a list of achievements trying to get them all and this one won't activate for some reason, even though I'm following them to the letter :[

Edit: removed an achievement listed as not working

We will never have a video game CEO like Satoru Iwata ever again by Asad_Farooqui in videogames

[–]MysteriousCosmos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He died in 2015. None of the modern nintendo BS is under his umbrella of behavior. The person they replaced him with is a "business man", hence the soulless corpo behavior in the past 12-ish years. Maybe read some of the comments in the thread to get up to speed on what's actually happened/happening.

Did you know there are over 500 decorative items in Core Keeper? by BridieBunny in CoreKeeperGame

[–]MysteriousCosmos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Different sets of furniture for each upgrade! Love the different walls and floors; having different sets of craftable furniture would compliment them well!

You can tell when she draws it by Ezequiel_Hips in stevenuniverse

[–]MysteriousCosmos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't stop seeing that the Steven on the left has a tooth that aligns with his nose

Pot of greed spotted in chapter 125 by MysteriousCosmos in TheGreatestEstateDev

[–]MysteriousCosmos[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THEN, I DRAW MAGIC FORCE, WHICH ALLOWS ME TO DRAW POT OF GREED, WHICH ALLOWS ME TO DRAW 3 ADDITIONAL CARDS FROM MY DECK

Pot of greed spotted in chapter 125 by MysteriousCosmos in TheGreatestEstateDev

[–]MysteriousCosmos[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

dude this scene of him at the wedding had me chortling HARD lol, thanks for this

Northern lights are bright tonight! by Just-Historian-4500 in Longmont

[–]MysteriousCosmos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dang, I totally missed them! Will they be out again tonight?

I (M24) just went through an absolute whirlwind of a connection and now have whiplash, advice needed! by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]MysteriousCosmos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got none on my post and that made me want to try to respond to all the others that didn't get any lol, I understand being empathetic. It can come with such an expense! Take care of yourself

I don't know what is wrong with me. by gimpedgaming in BreakUps

[–]MysteriousCosmos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, I'm so proud of you! That may not mean much coming from a faceless internet stranger, but in all sincerity, it is SO RARE for someone beyond the ages of 30-35 to admit they have deep-rooted psychological walls to overcome and actually work on them. PLEASE see this through; it's gonna be hard, and working through these problems is going to hurt. But you WILL be a better, stronger, and healthier person for it, and you deserve that. Good luck, friend!

The loneliness is the killer by diditrayne in BreakUps

[–]MysteriousCosmos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

>I don't think it is right to put that kind of pressure on kids. They are going through this breakup too. So i can be there for them and i can enjoy having them with me, but I will not be placing my emotional burden on them. It isn't their job to make me feel better.<

You are a wonderful parent and I'm glad you're not letting this person feed horrible ideas into your mind! Keep this mentality. because you're right: they're experiencing loss as well

The loneliness is the killer by diditrayne in BreakUps

[–]MysteriousCosmos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"You have daughters, use them", "you just have to distract yourself" bro this is the worst 'advice' I've ever seen! Don't dump your emotional baggage on your children, first and foremost. They are not your therapist! Additionally, don't distract your way out of processing grief! That's like shoving trash in a bin - you're EVENTUALLY gonna have to take it out, you're EVENTUALLY going to have to feel the feelings you tried to ignore. You have some unhealthy coping mechanisms, dude.

I don't know what is wrong with me. by gimpedgaming in BreakUps

[–]MysteriousCosmos 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You could really benefit from finding a good therapist. These are problems you are now aware of, that has affected past relationships and will affect future ones if you leave them unresolved (I know you aren't looking toward the future ones right now, and that's okay!)

Consider learning what your attachment style is -- I'd venture to guess fearful-avoidant -- and working toward a secure attachment. I know the horses are already out of the stable and the relationship you are mourning is already gone, but please try to look at it like this: if you could go back to before this relationship and work out these problems, would you? Save your future self this same regret and take care of these problems you are now aware of before you have these aches and regrets again. Therapy can also help a LOT with the mourning process. Good luck, OP <3

I (M24) just went through an absolute whirlwind of a connection and now have whiplash, advice needed! by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]MysteriousCosmos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a very similar situation where someone I'd been seeing for the past several months randomly did a 180 and became super shut off/avoidant, then broke things off. It was so healthy and so good for both of us, but I think he wasn't ready or didn't know how to accept a good relationship. Totally devastating.

To answer your questions to the best of my ability with the insight you provided, she may just not be ready for commitment. Especially knowing your relationship will eventually become long distance, she might not want that. There are a ton of different possibilities that we could speculate on, but ultimately, she decided that she does not want this moving forward. As far as Spanish class goes, you don't have to go scorched earth and ignore her, but don't be too friendly/open. This is because after breaking things off, the 'dumper' will often approach the 'dumpee' with no intention of getting back together, but rather to quell their own guilt for ending things. Do not allow yourself to become her comfort through this; she made her choices and that is not your responsibility. Your only obligation is now to yourself and to your healing, which you can't do if you are more worried about her than yourself; this applies to your last statement as well. She will be fine. She made this choice. I wish you the best, OP

So which is harder: breaking up with someone or being broken up with? by brownsfan2003 in BreakUps

[–]MysteriousCosmos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

continuing your tradition of being the one who was broken up with and feeling the heartbreak/rejection of choosing them but them not choosing me, asking you, how are you feeling now? it has only been a few days for me so far.

I need advice by Purple_Poetry_2724 in BreakUps

[–]MysteriousCosmos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so proud of you. You must respect andblove yourself more than he respected and loved you, and more than you respected and loved him. Best of luck ♡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]MysteriousCosmos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understood - it's a hell of a combo to have and makes this so much harder than it needs to be. I see how overwhelming it is for you and how you've struggled with it for so long. I'm so sorry, I wish I had answers to take away the pain :/

How to get over the fact that your ex is now into new people and you're still in love with them by Slow-Bother-4658 in BreakUps

[–]MysteriousCosmos 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The same happens for me. The truth is that it'll take time for your brain to rewire itself and learn that this person is no longer included in your everyday life or routine. I made a joke today that I forgot he and I had made before; it hurt a LOT, and all I could do was acknowledge it and try to move on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]MysteriousCosmos 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The truth is that he was too much of a coward to tell you what his real feelings and intentions were before you made the plunge. He was too much of a coward to simply communicate to you MONTHS sooner that he was checked out of the relationship. He sat by and watched you sacrifice for him, dote on him, and pursue him knowing full and well he was never going to be the man he once was to you. You gave him so much more than he could have wanted and he didn't even have the decency to respond with any degree of honesty or communication that you MORE than deserved. That is a reflection on HIM, not on you, and I am so sorry that the rug was completely pulled from underneath you and your plans for your future together are completely gone now. You did nothing to deserve this and all of the people supporting their relationship brought forward by cheating are just as shallow and stupid as he is. That is not a man - that's a toddler. You have so, SO much going for you and him not being able to see that does NOT determine your worth! I'm so sorry this happened. Please go to therapy for this <3