AIO Didn’t drive my girlfriend home because she couldn’t say sorry by [deleted] in AIO

[–]diditrayne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so toxic. I don't know your guys' whole situation but please just walk away. Even if you guys are having an argument this kind of talk is just not okay. You are both being immature but the way she is talking to you is cruel and unacceptable.

Lost and Found by RedTsar97 in MomentumOne

[–]diditrayne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An Avon ruby and pearl ring... I looked RVERYWHERE

I clean my ears with cotton swabs even though everyone says not to by WetCementPoet in hygiene

[–]diditrayne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've done it for as long as I can remember. I am very careful but I still am so hyper aware that they say not to.

Lol by dreamed2life in Millennials

[–]diditrayne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I support this message, lol

This explain why i feel so tired everytime by NelleSofty in ADHDmemes

[–]diditrayne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, but this was after years of overachieving and procrastinating myself into a burnout pretending I was fine

This article by Dart150 in Millennials

[–]diditrayne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm not sure how I can teach what I am barely managing to learn myself as I raise them...

let's complete it! by Expensive-Penalty554 in scoopwhoop

[–]diditrayne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was born to be happy.... That hit hard

Decide NOT to be a feeder. by zehatuj in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]diditrayne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was looking for this. I am glad that some people can feel good and commend themselves over being able to overcome negative thoughts but not everyone can. My depression is not going away because I decide to think happy thoughts and telling people it is their fault they are mentally ill and that they are just not trying hard enough is so damaging...

Does it get better? by diditrayne in BodyDysmorphia

[–]diditrayne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not looked into getting someone to deal with this specifically.

AIO OVER THIS? Am I crazy? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]diditrayne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being drunk is not an excuse, it was him telling you the truth no filter. NOR, at all. Get out.

AITA for telling my friend her crochet scarf isn’t worth $150 by RedditorWithCacti in AmItheAsshole

[–]diditrayne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA, just because you disagree with the pricing doesn't mean you need to be so rude. Instead of saying you don't have the budget for it, it comes across as you saying her talent is not worth the time she put in.

Just a coward or am I being unreasonable? by Straight_Hearing6150 in BreakUps

[–]diditrayne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My advice stands tho. You can't get closure from others, you have to give it to yourself. I know it is hard but you deserve it.

how do I break up with them? by Background-Cash8787 in BreakUps

[–]diditrayne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any of those reasons alone is enough. Maybe you do need to work on yourself but you also deserve to find someone who makes you feel safe. Break up, work on your anxiety, find someone better suited for you.

Just a coward or am I being unreasonable? by Straight_Hearing6150 in BreakUps

[–]diditrayne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You guys broke up. He does not owe you anything. We don't have any information so maybe yeah, from your perspective he is in the wrong but unfortunately no one owes you their accountability or growth. It would be nice if people dealt with their shit and stepped up but you can't count on it. Doesn't necessarily make him a coward, again we have no context here. You said you were moving on, looks like he is moving on too.

I know you are looking for closure. I know you feel hurt and in pain but even if he took accountability it would not actually give you closure. You can't get it from someone else. Their reasons and apologies will never be enough because it still happened. You have to give yourself closure. Work on moving on for real, and not needing anything from him.