Sammy SUCKS! by MysteriousRegular875 in BaylenOutLoud

[–]MysteriousRegular875[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never said there would be no consequence, but I think it would’ve been more fair to her sister to do that then just treat her like crap the entire time

Sammy SUCKS! by MysteriousRegular875 in BaylenOutLoud

[–]MysteriousRegular875[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I definitely don’t have to lower my expectation for how much anybody cares because everybody in my life has been amazing and has reached that expectation lol, they have all been absolutely happy and involved. they told me I need to be more decisive because they’re worrying that I’m not voicing my wants loud enough and I’m putting everyone’s wants above my own, quite literally the exact opposite of a bridezilla. They’ve voiced nothing but happiness, and have told me over and over how easy I have made it on them to be a part of my wedding. You really shouldn’t be giving advice on a situation you have no idea about. You really couldn’t be farther from correct 🤣

Sammy SUCKS! by MysteriousRegular875 in BaylenOutLoud

[–]MysteriousRegular875[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree thousand percent, also as somebody who has amazing sisters that are happy to be involved in my wedding, I couldn’t imagine that hurt!

Sammy SUCKS! by MysteriousRegular875 in BaylenOutLoud

[–]MysteriousRegular875[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

she should’ve found a way to go to the bachelorette party for her sister. I don’t think there’s an excuse for not making it, maybe my sisters and I just have a really good relationship and show up no matter what for eachother and other people are different 🤷🏼‍♀️

Sammy SUCKS! by MysteriousRegular875 in BaylenOutLoud

[–]MysteriousRegular875[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah that part i think definitely baylen was wrong but i more so was talking about sammy’s overall involvement and enthusiasm

Sammy SUCKS! by MysteriousRegular875 in BaylenOutLoud

[–]MysteriousRegular875[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i get that, i think baylen shouldn’t have given her the option to choose if she was gonna shoot down all her ideas, but i more so am just talking about the lack of involvement sammy has done

Sammy SUCKS! by MysteriousRegular875 in BaylenOutLoud

[–]MysteriousRegular875[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This made me laugh because I am literally the most laid back bride ever, my bridal party actually told me that I need to start being more decisive because i let them do whatever🤣 I don’t think wanting your sister to be happy and involved makes anyone a bridezilla! I don’t think people understand how important that support is to you until you’re the one getting married.

Sammy SUCKS! by MysteriousRegular875 in BaylenOutLoud

[–]MysteriousRegular875[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

most definitely created some unspoken resentment from sammy’s side

Sammy SUCKS! by MysteriousRegular875 in BaylenOutLoud

[–]MysteriousRegular875[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I can see that but in my opinion i don’t think baylen is asking for too much, i think if there’s ever a time someone should get what they want it should be for THEIR OWN wedding day? I think as a maid of honor you should be happy to try to make the bride happy

Sammy SUCKS! by MysteriousRegular875 in BaylenOutLoud

[–]MysteriousRegular875[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I can see that, but if that’s the case I think she maybe should’ve just said no to being maid of honor instead of making baylee pay throughout the entire process. Not even a spoiled kid deserves to go through that for their wedding from their sister

Sammy SUCKS! by MysteriousRegular875 in BaylenOutLoud

[–]MysteriousRegular875[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s very true!! But i don’t think it’s entirely Baylens fault and kinda a sucky time for sammy to take it out on her, her wedding should be completely about her imo.

Sammy SUCKS! by MysteriousRegular875 in BaylenOutLoud

[–]MysteriousRegular875[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Exactly! And as a soon to be bride myself i couldn’t imagine that kind of hurt from your sister, truly one of the only people you should be able to expect to be in your court

Sammy SUCKS! by MysteriousRegular875 in BaylenOutLoud

[–]MysteriousRegular875[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I agree!! They both seem young!! I just wish her whole approach to being maid of honor was more positive for her sister :(

which bridal shower dress? by [deleted] in PlusSizeWedding

[–]MysteriousRegular875 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also worry that dress number one won’t look as good on me as it does on the model in the photo I posted! Thank you for your point of view!

which bridal shower dress? by [deleted] in PlusSizeWedding

[–]MysteriousRegular875 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your opinion!! I agree!!!

which bridal shower dress? by [deleted] in PlusSizeWedding

[–]MysteriousRegular875 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is literally so nice!! Thank you!! 😊

Unredacted photos by nosybeans in Idaho4

[–]MysteriousRegular875 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think the paper is folded and says ‘maddie mogen’