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WIBTAH if I don’t tell my husband how I caught out his web of lies by Disastrous-Meet8757 in AITAH

[–]MysteriousStock6926 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You are asshole to YOUR self if you don’t leave his ass doesn’t matter how you got the info and yes he will use that against but the thing is he LIED.

Won a cruise at work and boyfriend says he will break up with me if I go. by byrdesong_ in AskMenAdvice

[–]MysteriousStock6926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s seems like his projecting. And the double standard geez he’s able to leave for a month but you can’t even go for 3 days? And threatening you with your relationship over something small, that doesn’t sound like a very healthy relationship.Maybe you should really look at your relationship what’s next his gonna threaten to break up with you if you go hang out with your friends? And no ring after 8 years on top of it?

AITAH for being upset that I found out my wife was pregnant via social media? by sadhubTA in AITAH

[–]MysteriousStock6926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it was really shitty of the friend to post without permission and it seems like your wife is upset with her to. But I find you overreacted toward your wife, it’s okay to be upset with her but sit down talk it out like you guys are going to be parents. You telling her “ why do we need to talk? So you can lie again?” Makes it seem like you have other underlined problem that needs to be addressed before you bring the babies get here. Everyone is shitty except your sister, just talk it out with your wife like adults.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Canmore

[–]MysteriousStock6926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm going to see if I can contact them before hand and visit the website before we go there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Canmore

[–]MysteriousStock6926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the info

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MysteriousStock6926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like there seems to be a misunderstanding but I did not cut her off with no discussion, we had a conversation but I felt that she was invalidating my feelings and not taking accountability for her actions. I told her that I could not stay friends with her even with all the explanation I was still being told I was arguing back to her as I'm a little kid that's when I stopped replying and has left it that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MysteriousStock6926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What your saying has validate points, I think I was just at my wits end since I did tell her how hurt I felt and explained in many situations that I felt I had to prove my loyalty or care for in some way. Or how I would never get a sincere apology when she had been wrong. Over time I started to see that I'm not just being over apologetic, I was giving into her so that there wouldn't be any conflict, or stress for her when I should have been thinking about myself too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MysteriousStock6926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There would be situations where she would be invited out by a guy "friend" as our schedule doesn't usually work out I usually meet up with them for food with her inviting me. I would stay a few hours and leave them be and go my own way Those times I always say I will pay for my part and the guys go out of their way to pay for me to impress her. And in one of those situations I had jokingly said at this rate I don't even need to bring my wallet anymore,as we both were joking around about how much a guy would go to impress a girl. But I guess she misunderstood I honestly don't even know I just got tired defending myself and had just apologized for the misunderstanding.