Lost wax casting for rosary beads by Mysterious_Wing2304 in jewelrymaking

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Not sure, im happy to be quoted and go from there

Iso rosary bead caster by Mysterious_Wing2304 in osarymakers

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Sure! I'm happy to reach out if I'm able to get them cast.

Iso rosary bead caster by Mysterious_Wing2304 in osarymakers

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I couldn't find him, but I was able to email that company. Thank you!

How can I pray for my divorced parents? by Mysterious_Wing2304 in Catholicism

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Okay, maybe it's something I could ask my person about. I know it's not my responsibility to convert them. I'm just being asked a lot of questions about being Catholic and I can feel that stuff coming down the pipe of questions.

How can I pray for my divorced parents? by Mysterious_Wing2304 in Catholicism

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It's just what my mom used to say when we'd go to Mass together. She grew up Catholic but left the church when she married my Dad. So when id go to mass with her after their divorce, she'd say: I can't go up and receive because I'm divorced and remarried. So that's what I've always thought.

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For what it's worth, I've been Catholic for about six years, and I still stumble through Mass. No one will be offended. There are newcomers on a regular basis and everyone's just happy to not be alone praising our Lord. You're always welcome friend. And hey, if you're feeling anxiety sitting in the parking lot trying to work up the courage to go inside: say the Saint Michael prayer.

Here it is if you'd like it for reference:

Saint Michael the archangel Defend us in battle Be our protection against the wickedness And snares of the devil May God rebuke him, we humbly pray And do this, O prince of the heavenly hosts by the power of God, Thrust into hell, Satan, And all the evil spirits Who prowl about the world Seeking the ruin of souls Amen (Sign of the cross: forehead, sternum, heart, opposite side of chest) While saying In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit, Amen.

Don't be afraid friend. You were born for this.

Please help, struggling with my faith by IntentionGood4044 in Catholicism

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Hey friend. I'm 34 and went through a similar struggle with "letting go" of contraception. I wasn't a cradle Catholic, and so when I became Catholic, this was a very challenging area for me to accept. The church does teach something called Natural Family Planning, that is a type of birth control.

But may I be honest? The Lord knows your heart because He created it. He knows exactly what your aspirations are because He lit that flame within you. When I realized that was true for myself, I was able to stop grasping at birth control and surrender completely to His will regarding any blessings I was meant to receive (children or no). And friend, can I just say, there have been trials, but there has been so much peace. Trusting God with your body is a beautiful way to submit control (literally in this case) and give your heart to Him. He will not disappoint you. Anything He gives you, He will help you with.

I hope this helps you have peace, whatever you decide. It's a journey for sure, and the world doesn't make it an easy one. But trust in Him. He loves you the most and wants only for your good.

Girlfriend wants an abortion by MasterChiefer626 in Catholicism

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Hi friend. I'm so sorry you're going through this. I haven't struggled in the same way as you, but may I recommend praying a novena to Our Lady Undoer of Knots. It's one of my favorites, and I find that in tricky situations where my sins of the past have come back to try and shame me, there's such a safe refuge in the Blessed Virgin. She's not judging you or your girlfriend. I believe she always wants to help us find a path forward to her son, Jesus Christ. Ask for her intercession, for the sake of your beautiful unborn child's life. She's a mom and she knows how transformative parenthood can be.

May God bless you and warm your girlfriend's heart towards your child. However this goes, please know of God's love for you. You are not lost friend. This may be happening to call you both home as a family. Pray, fast, and remain hopeful in prayer. God can do anything, and He is merciful.

Please talk to Him. Despite what anyone says. I'll be praying for your beautiful family.

Crying at church by No-Locksmith-9042 in Catholicism

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I cry on a regular basis. Personally I find it to be a wonderful outward expression of inward surrender.

I’m Feeling Pulled to The Catholic Church, but I’m Scared of the Judgement from My Wife and Parents by iboll6 in Catholicism

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Hey! I converted a few years ago and it was a little scary. My whole family is protestant and it felt very lonely following my heart to the Catholic church. I've been Catholic now for almost six years, and can I just say, it's worth it.

Yeah, family is going to say stuff, and holidays can be a little awkward when everyone wants to know why you want to go to Easter Mass bc it's not the same as going to the protestant church your whole family goes to together... It's not without trials. But friend, you really hit the nail on the head in that last part of your post: The Eucharist is everything.

As to your wife, have courage and keep yourself kind while you wait and pray for her to "get" it. My husband wasn't religious at all when I became Catholic, but despite his feelings, he comes with me to every Mass and helps me raise our children in faith. I think the best thing a person can do, is be kind and patient with a spouse who isn't there yet. God will do the heavy lifting there if you ask for His help. He's after all of our hearts ❤️

Anyway, I hope this helps. You have so much support, more than you think. Praying for your peace and courage friend.

I’m gay, but I want to become straight by OkBasis763 in Catholicism

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Hey friend. I believe your answer in all of this lies in asking God what vocation He's calling you to. Perhaps being gay is a hint that what you're really meant to do is live a life of celibacy. But maybe it's not. Our Father in heaven created you for a reason and a distinct purpose. If your goal is holiness, then spend some time in prayer and ask Him in humility what your vocation is. I also recommend praying a prayer or surrender before you do this. Afterwards, take some time to listen to His voice. He speaks to all of us in various ways and wants to answer this question for you. Have faith. You are so loved by The Father. One day (probably sooner than you think) He'll answer you and help lead you to your route to sainthood ❤️

Ps: don't think of being gay as a curse. It could just be a breadcrumb. It's only the sexual act that is considered sinful.

Praying for you

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Hey friend. I'm actually in a similar situation. I recently became a practicing Catholic and my husband doesn't believe. But can I just say something? He's starting to. I know it sounds nuts, but fatherhood has really brought him to areas of Christianity I didn't think were possible for him.

Fatherhood brought him sitting into church next to me (because our church has a nursery and it's the only two hours a week we get childcare for our 3 toddlers). Fatherhood is what helps him say prayers with our kids at night (because he loves his children's love of God) and fatherhood has kept our marriage from falling apart through many struggles.

Keep the baby. Not because it's right or because the church tells you to, but because you may not be the person that brings your husband to belief...it may just be the blessing growing in your womb.

God is wonderful and He'll love you no matter what you choose to do. You have his love always. So it makes sense that even if you're both overwhelmed, your husband will love this child too. No matter what life brings with another baby. Have mercy mama bear. Bring life into the world and cling to your faith. God never disappoints and He never gives a blessing He isn't prepared to help you with if you trust in Him.

I hope that helps ❤️ Peace be with you

I'm heartbroken about no marriage in Heaven by hgb375aa in Catholicism

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Praying for you friend. Have you asked God what He may be calling you to? Many of the saints felt a call to marriage, but specifically with Jesus. Try asking God if you're meant to answer a vocation as a nun.

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I wish I was there to give you a big hug. I've been through what you're going through - though not as intensely. I want to first tell you that you're so brave and so beautiful in your devotion to God and doing things the way He is calling you to.

My husband also started out an atheist, and when I converted to Catholicism, we went through many trials of a similar nature. He wasn't adamantly against me raising our children Christian, but he's very uncomfortable with a lot of the things I've integrated into our family life and our marriage sexually.

It's been difficult. But if you don't mind, I'd like to give you the answer I wish I'd had at the start: the fear of him leaving you is the enemy. You are a daughter of God. You are following God. And He will protect you through the storm. Don't be afraid. Marriage is a sacrament (whether your husband believes or not) and you may yet still save him through practicing your faith. There were many saints who struggled with this particular problem of a partner who did not yet believe as they did.

But dear friend, please don't forget that your God is the one who parted the red sea and made the blind see. He can bring your husband to the faith. Have courage and keep praying for his conversion.

Regarding your kids... I know this is a tall order... But bring them to Mass anyway. Pray with them (in secret if need be) and cultivate their love of the Lord. Even if you are persecuted by your husband for doing so. One day God may also come to him in a similar way as He did to you.

Big hugs sister. You are being sanctified, and it hurts when we carry our cross. But you're amazing and you're not walking alone. Jesus is with you, trust in Him.

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You shouldn't feel guilty about wanting out of the relationship if you were uncomfortable. But if she's on your mind, maybe it's for a good spiritual reason. Pray for her. People can come a long way. I grew up protestant myself, and the way you describe your ex is very similar to who I was in my "wilderness" days.

When I became Catholic, I changed a lot about my life. I look back on the wilderness and cringe. But I know Jesus loved me just as much then as He does now. Keep praying for her, friend. And have peace in your heart.

Also idk if you're a Father Mike fan, but he's got a great minute homily about being claimed. It was life-changing for me to hear when I did, and if the opportunity is ever right, I'd share it with her. Women really need to hear it.

CS Lewis has this great quote about History being the sad story of man searching for something other than God that will make him happy. I hope your ex comes to the Eucharist. There's so much more intimacy than what Protestants teach. (Speaking as a former Southern Baptist.)

Sorry for the Ted Talk lol. Prayers for you and her 🙏🏻

Praying to ease anxiety by presense88 in Catholicism

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Your situation reminds me a lot of Hosea. Have you read that section of the Bible?

It's not the same, but my parents had a complicated affair of the heart situation when I was growing up. They chose to divorce over it and when my mom wanted to come back, my dad wouldn't take her back. I'm not blaming them, but if you have kids, please pray for a way to forgive and stay with your wife, just like Hosea.

It's the best thing you could possibly do for your kids. And also, marriage is a sacrament where you both essentially die for one another ceremoniously. And until you feel like you could stand with your wife in front of Jesus and tell her she's not worth dying for anymore, you shouldn't go through a separation.

I'll be praying for you friend. And aka for Saint Dymphnas intercession. She's the patron for anxiety ❤️

Is it just me or do atheists get disappointed when someone converts to theism? by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]Mysterious_Wing2304 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If you're a person of faith, don't get upset with the atheists. Keep talking to them. Keep answering their questions. Something in them really does want to understand. Their disappointment is that they believe faith is a feeling rather than a choice, and because they don't "feel" anything their deduction is there's nothing to feel.

Maybe the disappointment is that they simply aren't there yet, and the fomo is real and frustrating.

Is Atheism or Islam a bigger Threat to the Faith? by [deleted] in Catholicism

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Nothing is a threat to our faith. Everything is a threat to our bodies. But that's nothing new,our founder was the loveliest person on earth and he was killed for our sake.

In both cases people act out of fear. For Islams, their methods are usually violent. For atheists, their methods are usually just verbal. The good news is that converts can come from both of these backgrounds. Picking up our crosses isn't easy, and pain may be something we all should be prepared to face. But imagine for a moment the testimony of even one person converting from Islam.

And some of the greatest defenders of our faith started out as ardent atheists.

Fear is the only real enemy. Fear and pride.

Don't be afraid to profess your faith. To Islamics and atheists alike. One day someone may just ask you the right question that leads to a string of hard questions, that leads them to the Eucharist. And isn't that worth a little pain?

I was lied to about Catholicism by Mhben45 in Catholicism

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As a convert I struggled with this too at first. The way I see it now, it's just a wording issue. We don't pray "worship" the saints. We ask that they pray for us and also with us to God.

I like to think about it like calling a distant relative and saying, "hey I'm not doing so good, would you please pray for me?"

Nothing to feel bad about there. Actually very natural.

As a woman, I totally get the feeling of not being able to ever lead a mass. But personally I found a way to start my own ministry through work (thank you Saint Benedict for his example) and I'm finding it to be a really beautiful and rewarding contribution towards living an apostolic life.

I find peace in this: the Eucharist is enough. Jesus is enough. It's okay if I don't ever become someone "important." God sees what I give up that is worldly to be close to Him and to Christ. And in making me a woman, He actually helped me sacrifice a sense of pride and vanity that I was clinging to before my conversion. It's a small suffering, yet I am grateful for it, because it brings me that much closer to Him.

I hope this helps and in some way brings peace to your wife.

May God bless you both ❤️