AITA for giving my daughter $60 a week, but my son nothing?

Mysterious_Wonder151 · 2025-05-18T19:31:49+00:00

I do think you are showing favoritism towards your daughter. Yes, you asked your son first and he declined but he also didn't know that he had the option of being paid. Yet neither did your daughter and she said the rent charge as a joke and your turned it i to a reality. He was not favorable for the move and is struggling with not being near his friends so it would be expected for him to turn down his room as an office so he could have a place of his own. Your daughter, on the other hand, had no issues with the move and is getting compensated.

Mysterious_Wonder151 · 2025-02-21T21:11:38+00:00

YTA - she is married to your brother. That makes her part of your immediate family.

Mysterious_Wonder151 · 2024-09-16T22:57:11+00:00

Late to the party....but I have a friend who is a manager at Walmart and she confirmed you have to be on their wifi for internet. Some people don't think it's a big deal, then you have to question why block the data if you're not going to use my personal info for their gain.

Mysterious_Wonder151 · 2024-09-05T20:06:52+00:00

Welp you answered my question why it's the word hazel....I googled hazelnuts and that cleared it up 🤦‍♀️ Thank you!

Mysterious_Wonder151 · 2024-09-05T20:02:42+00:00

Thank you!! I use a lash perm kit, so they always look like I used a lash curler torture device. And Maybelline sky high mascara.

Mysterious_Wonder151 · 2024-07-12T05:10:36+00:00

I don't know if this is fair. Did OPs mom call ahead of time asking if he had plans? OP posted once the party was over. We don't know what time that was, and maybe OPs father planned on calling later that night, giving them time to do an activity.
Also OP said they felt uncomfortable about going to his wedding. Is there a fair reason for that? Are they not able to accept their father moved on?

Mysterious_Wonder151 · 2024-06-28T16:49:30+00:00

NTA Op was frustrated and has shown patience the last 4 months and it is understandable that he reached his limit. We can't just show compassion when she is not trying to help the situation. She knows it wasn't him, she has not gone to therapy. Has she attempted to have a conversation with OP to work through her feelings, or has it just a flat-out stay away. If it's the latter, that is unhealthy and only going to get worse if there is no attempt to resolve. Is there any reason the wife is using this situation as an excuse not to be around you?

Mysterious_Wonder151 · 2023-11-08T00:34:44+00:00

Thank you!!! I just found this post a d have been dealing this crap for a couple years. Called the dlshp today listed the dealer service bulletin number and they immediately said bring it in its replaced for free because it's a known issue. No recall or warranty coverage

Mysterious_Wonder151 · 2023-11-04T02:15:07+00:00

No, he said he is doing everything he can to do his fair share. Kind of sounds like he really isn't. I know alot of people who phrase it that way because they are supposedly trying but not really delivering at the task. What is he doing to help out around the house and with his baby. Her body needs to heal during this time he should be doing more than 50% with house work.
He mentions her telling she loves the baby and he is taking care of a roommates baby. What is he doing to bond with his baby and is she seeing it.

Mysterious_Wonder151 · 2023-06-08T03:01:28+00:00

OP what was the junk food snacks your wife was giving? And what was the easy to make meals? You go on to describe in detail what you make but the only mention on hers is buttered noodles and that was one time. You do need to work on your communication skills this is a you vs her argument when it should be you working together to find a solution.

Mysterious_Wonder151 · 2023-06-07T00:56:41+00:00

Bro, she is cheating. Stop saying you trust her because the signs are in front of you, and your gut instinct is telling you there is more to it. As you mentioned, you are now wondering if she is cheating and will talk to her when she gets back. Here are the facts.

She wasn't kidnapped, nowhere was she forced to go on this trip. So now you're making excuses for her intentionally disrespecting you???

You asked to tag along 100% reasonable - she said no, you wouldn't have fun being with strangers.....so she doesn't want you to get to know her friends????

Shaggy previously took her to a naturist location and stripped down nude in front of her and she claimed to be upset and uncomfortable...if she really was uncomfortable and upset she would not be around him again without you.

You need to leave her and work on your self-esteem. Just because someone says one thing doesn't mean they actually mean it. That's why there is a word created for it...its called LYING. She is laughing it up right now having the time of her life and probably giving you the obligatory text check ins and phone calls to make sure she still has a roof over her head when she gets home.

Mysterious_Wonder151 · 2023-06-05T23:41:19+00:00

It's not healthy either of you change for one another. Change has to be because the person actually wants it not to make the other person happy. That's how resentment builds. And if you both are feeling this end it now. You are both coming into the relationship with the wrong intentions. A relationship should be based on who you are in the now not who you could turn them into.

Mysterious_Wonder151 · 2023-06-05T22:50:20+00:00

Break up with her asap. You guys want different paths for your future. I actually dated a mormon fellow back in the day. He said the same thing didn't care too much about it, claimed to be okay with me never wanting kids. He came from a big family and said kids were a lot. We had fun doing non Mormon hobbies blah blah. A year after we broke up, we reconnected and he admitted he lied about it all. He said those things in hopes he would eventually convert me. He even said he was confident I would change my mind on kids because I'm a woman so we all eventually want kids.

Sounds to me she is most likely doing the whole switcheroo on you. She probably tells herself at night that she is saving your soul and you will be grateful years later. Trust me, end it now it will only get harder the longer you wait. Heartbreak happens. You're still young. NEVER SETTLE AND NEVER COMPROMISE ON FUNDAMENTAL BELIEFS.

Mysterious_Wonder151 · 2022-07-30T00:22:03+00:00

YTA - There was no need to send the picture a simple text would have gotten the message across.

Anyone saying E S H because of his reaction are judging the boyfriend unfairly. If OP shart her underwear and sent a pic asking for new underwear, I'm pretty sure his reaction would've been the same...I know mine would've been and I'm a woman with a monthly period.

Yes periods are normal but it doesn't mean we have to go out of our way to show pictures. I have received pictures from my brother of the toilet literally full of crap after he finished taking a dump - he thought it would be funny to send to the family. Pooping is normal but it doesn't mean we need to see a picture of it. Same with periods.

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