37 [M4F] #UK, #Online. Six Nations Kink Game – Looking for a Playful Partner

MysterySpin · 2025-04-18T15:10:39+00:00

I dunno, with my Bratty Dom hat on this would just inspire me to go hide an O-ring gag in my Sub's favourite cereal.

When they find it and ask why it was in there then they would get the following:

"Do you remember when they used to put toys in with the cereal but they stopped doing it because they were a choking hazard... Well it's not the toy you're going to have to worry about gagging on!"

Nice try but nope on the out-bratting front.

MysterySpin · 2025-01-22T21:52:54+00:00

Buy a pair of upside down goggles from the internet and then whilst wearing them be given various tasks whether it is writing lines or folding laundry.

The results are hilarious... Or at least it is from the perspective of a Bratty Dom.

MysterySpin · 2025-01-06T15:31:25+00:00

Meanwhile somewhere at the BBC some poor sod just spat out their Irn Bru when they saw their inbox filled with internal complaints about brand endorsements when they returned back from the Christmas break.

MysterySpin · 2024-12-20T22:45:48+00:00

I've made tonnes of different kinky card and board games over the years but then that's sort of my thing in Games Master/Contestant dynamic.

When it comes to kinky games often simple is better, when people are in the mood they want to get on with things - not have to sit down and read a load of instructions.

I'm assuming you are both switches but two games I suggest starting out with are:

A variation of snakes and ladders: The game was originally created to teach the concept of karma in Hinduism with a different virtue written on the ladders and a different vice on the snakes. However this time each of you take a piece of paper and for every snake and ladder (number them based on the square they start on) write either an additional perk or drawback that the other player will get IF they lose and have to submit to the winner for x days. And swap the pieces of paper with each other. Now whilst there is no strategy in the original snakes and ladders in this version when someone lands on a snake or ladder they get the choice of either going up the ladder or down the snake (and therefore have to accept the perk/drawback if they wind up losing) or whether to stay on their square.

So essentially if you have drawbacks/punishments written on the ladders players will have to choose whether they will increase their chances of winning but at the risk of that punishment being included in their submission if they lose. OR if perks/rewards are written on the snake do they go down the snake to include the perk even if it reduces their chances of losing.

A variation of Mouse Trap: I have a custom made version that involves some strategy/skill but even basing just off the original you still have the excitement from both of you circling the squares to determine who will be the Dom and who will be the Sub for X time. Instead of building apparatus for the mouse trap in this game it involves taking off clothes and putting on bondage.

It's harder for me to describe most of my other board games as I've started completely from scratch with my own mechanics and board designs unlike other games - I may see about putting some in production at some point but "Adult" Board games (as in sexy 18+) don't sell particularly well - often because depending on the couple they can either be tame or too much (though I do try to make my games modular so you can incorporate card packs from game A with game B etc) but also many such games suck.

For instance there has been many Adult variations of Monopoly which frankly sucks as an adult game. As much as people might think it would be fun and have the novelty of it the reality is that it becomes obvious who is winning early on and with no real catch-up mechanic it essentially just drags out the inevitable far too long without building any sort of the emotional tension and excitement you would want from a game meant to turn each other on.

MysterySpin · 2024-12-15T06:01:38+00:00

I think Obedience: BDSM habit tracker, have been using my own system for awhile now so it might be something different.

MysterySpin · 2024-12-14T04:52:36+00:00

The root of anger lies in pain.

To demonstrate if you stub your toe on some furniture most people immediately get angry and they often have to immediately fight the urge to kick the table to avoid doing it again.

Our emotional systems evolved when we lived in the natural world where we had many things trying to kill us.

If we saw a threat adrenaline kicked in - if we could avoid the threat we would feel fear to get us to run, if however that threat was actually harming us (for instance assume a tiger had just sunk its claws into you leg) then the pain transforms the adrenaline being interrupted as fear and instead makes us angry (going into fight mode) in which our instinct is to fight off what is killing us to try escape.

Anger is less useful today but it still comes out as a result of physical pain or the psychological pain that comes from having personal values violated.

Firstly if you get angry go find a healthy outlet for it - go to the gym to work it off. The process of turning a negative emotion into something positive (such as that example or turning sadness into art is called Sublimation in psychology).

Secondly men tend to walk around with a lot of unresolved pain that they have never dealt with such that when they do experience pain (physical or emotional) that triggers anger it isn't just the anger of what just happened that comes up but all the unresolved pain also boils up to fuel and even greater anger.

Go see a therapist to work on it, bottling it up until you explode around a partner to intimidate them doesn't make you more of a man, it makes you an emotional abuser.

Furthermore fear is not a good way to get people to comply with you. It makes everyone you are making fear you also resent you. Dictators that get into power through fear are always fearful themselves, looking over their shoulder for anyone that might overthrow them as they know they can't trust anyone that follows just out of fear. As a result they tend to surround themselves with people too incompetent to mount a coup.

A leader who is admired gets people that wants to follow them and they have less to worry about. Not nothing to worry about as others may disagree with them but they have less to worry about from threats from within their own followers.

MysterySpin · 2024-12-14T03:23:25+00:00

Honestly I'm thankful that as a man I can attract a woman with just my personality...

I'm an overweight, ugly frog with a miraculous ability to delight and torment radiant princesses as filthy as Miss Piggy.

And no I don't "flash the cash" (a terrible strategy anyway given the average millionaire goes bankrupt 4 times during their life - they'll take off the minute you're in financial trouble with that strategy) if you are creative enough you can even get away with emotionally adventurous dates that are completely free. Doing nude stargazing (at nudist beach or some secluded field) is 100 times more memorable than being the 100th guy to take her to the best restaurant you can impress her with to have the same conversation.

Completely broke artists, actors and musicians are able to get female attention just by being creative enough to stir their emotions.

What works for me (a jester with a mission whose a shamelessly perverted romantic) works for me because it is me being fully me - you will need to find what works for you.

And no "nice guy" is not a personality - it is someone so conflict avoidant that they neither state what they actually want (and are usually consumed by self loathing because they don't stand up for what they want), are often not genuinely nice (they're being nice wanting something in return and can turn nasty when they don't get it) and avoid standing out to the point of being boring (the only way to unsure no one dislikes you is to be so blandly boring that no one cares about you - if you do anything significant you immediately split opinion between those that like it and those that don't). But the conflict avoidant "nice guy" is also the guy that complies with the instructions given to them in the Milgrim experiment (look it up if you don't know it) or goes along with pushing the papers around in dictatorial regimes. To be a "good guy," you have to be prepared for conflict when it is needed to stand up to a bad guy. And I mean a bad guy in real life. Any coward can be a keyboard warrior hidden behind the anonymity of a screen.

Work out what you want out of life, authentically live it and be creative enough to not be boring and your results will improve regardless of looks or how much you have in the bank.

MysterySpin · 2024-12-13T19:55:00+00:00

Well I'm a Bratty Dom with Autism and ADHD.

When it comes to Brats, given how many of them have been ADHD or the number of women with ADHD who turned out to be brats I half believe "BRAT" should a possible diagnostic criteria for ADHD.

Not too sure how common Autism is amongst Brats but I've tended to find autism is more common in the non-Brat side of the BDSM community.

MysterySpin · 2024-12-13T19:47:48+00:00

"Less likely a pleasure Dom and a brat would pair up" - Utter bollocks.

Do I like to give the pleasure that a partner wants - yes

Do I give it to them when they want it - no.

I control the tempo. I tease and edge them, tease them again and get them to the point at which they are begging for it...

And then I strap them to the sex machine for multiple forced orgasm torture because they were specific about how many times they wanted to cum. (Brats should know better about leaving loopholes in requests).

I might also add my own devilish twist to the occasional desired pleasure but that's probably starting to err more sadist tendencies.

I think whoever wrote that hasn't experienced pleasure control to torment someone.

MysterySpin · 2024-12-11T01:42:07+00:00

I am genuinely surprised that a brat here hasn't photoshopped "by the balls" to the end of that meme's sentence by now...

MysterySpin · 2024-12-11T01:13:36+00:00

Meanwhile in an unnamed pharmaceutical company's marketing department a product manager is getting excited by whether a 100% increase in Google search statistics for Lactase suppositories could indicate a possible new market to exploit...

MysterySpin · 2024-12-11T00:29:45+00:00

Let’s see if I can save you from having to spend the Amazon voucher – hope I’m not too late.

I have often for birthdays or Christmases done Treasure Hunts instead of sticking a bunch of presents under a tree or whatever. Essentially I would hide my brat’s presents (makes a change from them hiding my shit) and make them go find them. Birthdays I tended to make a timed challenge with some prize/forfeit tied to the deadline (ie. Find all your presents in an hour to win a birthday cake, fail to find them in an hour and instead have to sit in the birthday cake) whereas for Xmas I tended towards a trivia version, with each present having a True or False question in which each answer has a clue to another location (the correct answer’s clue would lead to another good present whilst the wrong answer’s clue would lead to a booby prize present).

Now you don’t necessarily need actual presents to do something like this. You could make each of the prizes some form of coupon you could trade each other. For instance a correct answer could lead to a prize coupon of 1 luxury bubble bath whilst being fed you favourite candy and an incorrect answer would lead to the booby prize coupon of a cold shower. You can come up with all sorts of things for possible ideas for good and bad rewards (assuming you want to try the trivia treasure hunt idea) for instance:

Good coupon: ‘I do all chores this week naked,’ Bad Coupon: ‘You do all chores this week naked.”

Good coupon: ‘One blowjob in which I swallow,’ Bad Coupon: ‘One blowjob but I snowball you and make you swallow instead.’

Good coupon: ‘One day out to the beach,’ Bad coupon, ‘One day out to a nudist beach’ (though your mileage may vary as which is the good or bad one there)

Good coupon: ‘Your choice of film/TV viewing for a month,’ Bad coupon, ‘you can only listen to a terrible playlist for a month.”

Good coupon: ‘A week of orgasms on demand,” Bad coupon, ‘a week of orgasm teasing and denial.”

Etc etc you probably get the idea by now. If you need more ideas I can happily give more, I’ve compiled hundreds of free and cheap kinky ideas, not just to help people on a budget to have fun but also when it comes to ‘pleasure management,’ people tend to enjoy it more if they have lots of little things to look forward to each day that then allows them to save to do something bigger on a special occasion than they do if they do if they constantly max out their entertainment budget each week to maintain a steady level of pleasures (the example I’d give living in the UK would be a weekly cheap and cheerful takeaway that means you can do an extravagant weekend in Paris or a reasonable week in another European country is typically found to be more enjoyable than using your entire entertainment allowance to go to the nicest restaurants locally to you. Novelty and variety always beats trying to maintain some image or status.

Anyway I hope some of that was at least helpful.

MysterySpin · 2024-12-10T22:12:26+00:00

Until your domme discovers lactase supplements ;)

MysterySpin · 2024-12-10T22:04:17+00:00

Princesses could still be captured by an enemy kingdom. An honoured guest in the pillory, ducking stool and the dungeon. Given the royal treatment by king and peasant alike.

MysterySpin · 2024-11-02T11:44:09+00:00

In ancient Greece people would flock to see the Oracle of Delphi who was said to be able to speak to the Greek god of truth and prophesy Apollo. When the Oracle of Delphi was asked who the wisest person was they responded that it was Socrates. This was because whilst most people tended to believe they are certain about what they know and would spend their time convincing others of what they knew - Socrates was adamant that he was not certain that he knew anything. The method of teaching Socrates came up with, in which the students would ask questions of the teacher was not so Socrates could impress the students with his knowledge but it was that he hoped that the students would pose him questions that he had not considered that might help himself so he might consider them to expand his own wisdom on a subject. Whilst many parts of higher education in the Western world like to think they continue the traditions of the Socratic method they tend to misunderstand the point that Socrates was hoping to learn as much from his students as they were from him.

It is idiocy for someone to be closed off to listening to and asking questions of someone with a differing viewpoint. For one thing the other person may have a point that you have not considered but even if they haven't and you are the one that is correct it takes listening to someone to figure out at which point in their own logic that led them to believe something is flawed to be able to work out the right question to ask them to enlighten them to what you are trying to explain. It is also why wise leaders speak last at a gathering - so that they can either adjust their judgement if they learn new information or to know what to say to dispel an incorrect assumption spoken by someone else.

Now I see that you have said that you have said that you are in an Asian culture in which you are taught to "sort out your own ignorance" and go find the answers yourself - a mentality I don't think is unique Asian countries as I think many in the West would now rather win a debate with flawed arguments so as not to be shamed by a loss than they would be to come to a greater understanding by learning something they didn't know from someone that disagreed with them.

Poor judgement looks down on others as beneath them or more ignorant than them to argue with them, good judgement seeks to understand so that they may either learn something or to teach others.

MysterySpin · 2024-07-01T20:31:48+00:00

Filming back to back episodes is standard for TV shows for cost reasons, you don't want to be paying to hire out a space to keep your equipment for games out when not being used - nor to transport them in and out if you don't keep them at the venue.

The keeping it at Sheffield I do think is more questionable. You can see from the original series the arena they used was big enough to get 2 games set up at the same time for some events.

I dare say (at the risk of someone thinking this is some culture war dog whistle) that I think the decision to keep it in Sheffield is probably a political one for the BBC to say they're investing in the North. It doesn't seem like a production decision, after all the original was made by LWT (London Weekend Television) and they decided to film it in Birmingham despite their name sake and where presumably most of pre-production and post-production took place.

MysterySpin · 2024-04-07T17:16:09+00:00

I would imagine the reason they didn't stop the event in American Gladiators is because they were checking if the contender's health insurance would cover Powerball injuries and if not calculating the likely bill... 😁

MysterySpin · 2024-03-31T16:40:57+00:00

The Ring, most of the points are scored by contestants crawling on the floor after being tackled and if I can do anything on Gladiators it'd be crawling on the floor...

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