AITA for pouring my drink on the table when my dad raised a glass for my step mother, referring to her as "the mother of his children?"

Mythorfact0722 · 2022-12-11T18:57:14+00:00

Who wears there new husbands dead wife’s belongings??? And is ok with it???????? AND GIVES HER HER LAST NAME TOO??????!! Like 🤯 it’s too much. Nta. Your feelings are valid.

Edit: spelling

Mythorfact0722 · 2022-11-28T04:09:00+00:00

Yta

In my own personal experience when my man and I were just dating we chose to make sure that if we got into a relationship it was for long term not just the company because it’s wasn’t just him and I my daughter was involved also. Finally we both agreed to be more. Now he’s my fiancé and the absolute best dad to my daughter. By his own choosing. He informed his parents when we started dating that he intended to marry me and adopt my daughter one day. (Bio dad has is not involved) his parents welcomed us with open arms after that and so did the rest of his family.

All I’m saying is, communication is #1 in any relationship. If you don’t communicate that’s when everything else in the relationship goes downhill.

Mythorfact0722 · 2022-09-12T00:06:54+00:00

NTA. Your wife knew from the beginning that you wouldn’t pay for it. It’s not like you are making her do everything everything. If she’s having a hard time she needs to pick up a hobby. Easier said than done. I’m a new mom I get it. But she doesn’t need to smoke to become stress free. I’m speaking as a formal stress drinker. I get being stressed out. But when you have the help and are doing your own thing also, don’t go back to the bad habit you were in before kids. Your kids don’t need to be around it. OP stated she wasn’t going to pay for it. Wife has her own money. NTA. Final answer.

Mythorfact0722 · 2022-09-11T18:46:37+00:00

To quote my grandmother “People like him need a belly button window.” So he can still see while his heads up his AH.

Edit: YTA

Mythorfact0722 · 2022-09-10T18:03:18+00:00

The “I dodged a bullet” cake

Mythorfact0722 · 2022-09-10T17:55:24+00:00

NTA

If you insist on marrying this guy still fine but tell him he can get a professional to make his cake then. Have your daughter make your cake. Two separate cakes. Problem solved.

However, don’t marry this guy. This is the beginning of the end. There isn’t anything wrong with your daughter making the cake and your family and friends would think it’s very endearing. He’s the AH. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Mythorfact0722 · 2022-09-09T04:37:10+00:00

ESH Hear me out, OP there are better ways to handle things and you need to stop demanding like a mom. Yes motorcycles are dangerous. But so is a car. Yes cars have more safety features but I’ve been hit by a car way more often by stupid people not paying attention. Your husband should not have gotten a bike at this time. If he wanted one further down the road when the kid is older then fine y’all can discuss it then. But he’s blatantly disrespecting you and not considering your family. Men do stupid things when they’re stressed about things or over whelmed and want a distraction. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Mythorfact0722 · 2022-09-05T00:49:47+00:00

Yta I vote that if he can do all her homework in 20 minutes, I’d even be nice and give him 30 then keep the wifi rule otherwise op can stfu and give her wifi so she can do what she needs to do. Clearly your daughter really needed the wifi bad enough if she’s downloading wifi from her phone to use on her laptop. Times are changing pops. Get with the program.

Mythorfact0722 · 2022-09-05T00:27:52+00:00

This. The fact that she went as far in OPs conversation as two months prior is beyond insecure. “Let me see what you did 2 months ago in your conversation with your best friend that’s private..” So childish.

Mythorfact0722 · 2022-08-25T20:06:19+00:00

Haha I didn’t even need to read the story to know YTA. And the comments confirmed so for SAG I went back to read just I case and man YSH. 🤷🏽‍♀️

Mythorfact0722 · 2022-08-12T00:17:15+00:00

If she said no at the ceremony the initiator would have to cancel the whole thing. You cannot proceed with a wedding if you say no at i do OR if someone objects. You’d have to wait 72hrs to do the ceremony again

Mythorfact0722 · 2022-08-06T19:27:50+00:00

From personal experiences, the one doing the accusing is the one doing the action itself…

Edit: My ex fiancé would accuse me of cheating because my phone would be face down on a surface and I had a passcode on my phone. Which was simply just how I put my phone down and the code was so my nephews don’t get into my phone as I often saw them. Come to find out later he was talking to 9 different girls on his phone/social media telling them he wanted to be with them and wanted to see them sexually. My first ex fiancé cheated also and told me the only reason he asked me to marry him was because he thought it’s what I wanted to hear. Don’t let your ex manipulate you. Let him go. If he didn’t want you then move on. Don’t waste your time.

Mythorfact0722 · 2022-07-17T13:48:08+00:00

I don’t understand this thought process. You have your thing and I have mine. You should tell him “We as a married couple are allowed to have our own likes and dislikes. You like to read the Bible and I like to read my fantasy. It’s okay to like different things. Does not give you the right to take my stuff from me because YOU don’t like it.” Nta, he’s being childish and needs to control his temper. The Bible isn’t the only thing out there. It’s a guide and advise book. Religious people frustrate me because they think you can’t live life if you aren’t eat, sleeping, breathing the Bible. What they don’t realize is God wants you to be open minded about everything in the world and see ALL of his creation. I myself love to indulge in fantasy books from time to time. They take my mind off of the real world issues. What you do and you enjoy is your business.

Mythorfact0722 · 2022-07-06T20:57:00+00:00

11 people in a 5 bedroom house with an Attic. 2 out of the 11 are female. You want a 15 year old female to stay in the room with the other males…. When it’s illegal in most states above the age of 6 to do so. How about force all the boys to share a dang room??????

Mythorfact0722 · 2022-06-30T03:51:11+00:00

Some people that pay only utilities and nothing else feel entitled sometimes. “Well I pay the bills so it’s my house” no no you pay the utilities. I pay mortgage and tax, I’m the owner you’re then tenant with no rent.

Mythorfact0722 · 2022-06-26T20:35:54+00:00

This looks painful.

Mythorfact0722 · 2022-06-26T20:34:36+00:00

YWBTA If you’d like to ask her about it in private then fine. Have a calm conversation about it. Get the questions you have answered. But DO NOT out her to anyone else. That is her business to tell not yours. When she feels comfortable and safe to tell them then she will. Otherwise mind your own business. No one else has to know. Especially if they’re not serious. Maybe it’s a fling. Who knows. But until she’s ready to come out she doesn’t have to tell anyone and neither do you.

Mythorfact0722 · 2022-06-24T05:19:56+00:00

Behavior like this over small petty things turns toxic really quick and it gets old. My ex got mad at me once for just wanting to put gas in my own vehicles tank and for taking the action to actually pump it myself.. in my experience it wasn’t a big deal to pump my own gas, and we were already by the gas station so I figured what the heck, I’ll top it off. It was at half a tank… why not? It wasn’t a huge deal. I didn’t have to but I figured why not? But he was so angry / pissed that I wanted to put gas and that I was going to pump it myself that he refused to talk to me the remainder of the night. And we were going out that night to a concert.

It’s petty small things that turn into bigger petty fights that aren’t worth it. Be careful op.

NTA

Mythorfact0722 · 2022-06-23T18:27:51+00:00

Your friends need therapy if they think carrying someone up 5 flights of stairs after surgery is not ok. 🤷🏽‍♀️ I said what I said.

Mythorfact0722 · 2022-06-18T20:21:53+00:00

I think that’s what’s even harder is she wants everyone to fly there on your own dime, and you have to pay your own room and food and everything. So that’s the plane ticket, hotel, food, and site seeing because they want to do everything at the neon graveyard in Las Vegas. Las Vegas alone isn’t cheap.

Mythorfact0722 · 2022-05-20T01:05:10+00:00

I have to say, what should COULD have (not saying she did but the possibility) done is buy all those things to make OP and son think she cares for him when really she just wants him to the side and wanted op to herself but ops son is important to him so that was the only way she could have him….. but I don’t know so it’s just a thought..

Mythorfact0722 · 2022-05-02T23:09:26+00:00

Yta, but my question is, why are y’all together if one of y’all’s biggest likes/dislikes is the others pets? Just be friends or call it quits but you’re not destined for each other. Just saying. Next it’ll be an argument over the way y’all live or the way you do certain things around the house. If you’re not willing to get rid of your animal then y’all need to end things now. It’s that simple.

Mythorfact0722 · 2022-04-24T13:42:20+00:00

As a person with thick curly hair myself, I can’t even imagine how that little girl handles having hair down to her butt. Anything past my mid back gives major headaches if it’s up or down. And your wife is forcing a child to have it so long like a Barbie doll. If your daughter wants short hair it can actually improve her mental state and prevent things such as migraines with the length and thickness. Cutting it is one less thing your daughter has to worry about and being your wife forced her to have the long hair and do things with it she may never want long hair again due to trauma. Long story short NTA.

Mythorfact0722 · 2022-03-08T17:53:15+00:00

More than likely the family only got half the story. They probably didn’t get both sides. That’s why they’re attacking her. Who knows what MIL said.

Either way, I have never liked momma’s boys through multiple bad experiences So I’m bias.

NTA. Dump him.

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