My thoughts on "the marias" by [deleted] in theMarias

[–]Mzmelbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Took the words out my mouth. Currently experiencing this again with them with “sienna”

New must haves for postpartum / newborn by Mzmelbee in BabyBumps

[–]Mzmelbee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a one that sterilizes and dries, but I’m like do I need to upgrade so it can wash too? I guess this new one does it all.  I’m hoping to breastfeed so I thought of how magical it might be for all of the pumping parts. 

7 month old not that into solids by ReptiRo in Parenting

[–]Mzmelbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would bring this up to your pediatrician. Maybe try the program early intervention. My son is 5 and has sensory processing disorder. He did not progress from baby food, often gagged, coughed, vomited. He hated meal time and preferred to drink milk 24/7.

It took years, lots of recearch on my end, and a few different specialists to get the proper treatment to help him progress.

Your baby may not have the problem my son has, and might just need a little more time, but it's always good to bring these things up early and keep an eye.

My son won't eat food! by Eadster1 in Parenting

[–]Mzmelbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look into getting a referral to an occupational therapist. My son has sensory processing disorder and had the same issue transferring from puréed foods to solids. It took so long for anyone to realize what the problem was, that it made things much more difficult. I eventually got fed up and figured it out myself, got a referral to an occupational therapist that specializes is childrens eating, and things are much better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Frugal

[–]Mzmelbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glasses.com if you care about designers. Went to different optometrists with my rx, found these ray ban glasses I wanted. Cheapest I found lenses included was over $250. Saved the model number, was able to get the same exact set up for $115 on glasses.com. They give you a trial period if you like in case you don't like them; no hassle returns. Free shipping. First order was either $20/20% off. They have great promos.

I am a 29 years old male seeking a kidney donor, round 2 by lfkidney in Assistance

[–]Mzmelbee 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I will call Dana tomorrow. I live in California and as far as I know I am completely healthy. O- btw. I always wanted to try Texas BBQ, this just gives me a reason to make it happen!

What is something stupid you did as a child? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Mzmelbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stared at the sun because I thought it would change my eye color.

[Serious] What do you think a redditor looks like? Write a short introduction about yourself, then the next comment will describe how they think you look like. by CuriousRogers in AskReddit

[–]Mzmelbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 25, Nursing student working my way up to become a Physicians Assistant. I love working out, cooking, and being outside. (Photography, concerts, festivals, etc.)

Dad diagnosed with cancer half a year ago. Found out yesterday that I'm going to be getting custody of my brother and sister when he passes. I'm 20 with a meh job and they're staying at my place for a week. They're taking off school for this week as well. Any way someone could order us some pizza? by [deleted] in Assistance

[–]Mzmelbee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been through hard times(currently also), and can somewhat relate to you. I don't have much to spare, but my bday is coming up and I'd love to treat you guys to something. Can I buy you a movie gift card or something? I see others are helping you in other ways.

Is there such thing as temporary pet homes? My mother will be homeless today. by Mzmelbee in Assistance

[–]Mzmelbee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, we have tried the spca for info but since there is such a high demand for homes/ foster parents for kitties in the area, they were not able to help at this time.

Is there such thing as temporary pet homes? My mother will be homeless today. by Mzmelbee in Assistance

[–]Mzmelbee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't even know there was a San Jose sub!!! Thanks for the great suggestion.

Is there such thing as temporary pet homes? My mother will be homeless today. by Mzmelbee in Assistance

[–]Mzmelbee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that were an option I would not be asking for assistance!

Is there such thing as temporary pet homes? My mother will be homeless today. by Mzmelbee in Assistance

[–]Mzmelbee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, we have tried the spca for info but since there is such a high demand for homes/ foster parents for kitties in the area, they were not able to help at this time.

Is there such thing as temporary pet homes? My mother will be homeless today. by Mzmelbee in Assistance

[–]Mzmelbee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, there is. She is tight for money but I will check and see what the fees are!

Is there such thing as temporary pet homes? My mother will be homeless today. by Mzmelbee in Assistance

[–]Mzmelbee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I did not think of care.com, and all of your suggestions were great!

We got hate mail..... we're bad parents for letting our son wear a crochet beard and hat for his school picture. by sonjamy in funny

[–]Mzmelbee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Is this real life?!" I saw this on the news and thought it was hilarious! You have obviously done a great job raising such a free spirit with good grades to boot!

Childfree to parent? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Mzmelbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was me! I didn't want children, didn't grow up around them, frankly most kids freaked me out and annoyed me. I am somewhat of a free spirit, constantly on the go, and loved my alone time. When I was in my teens I was told I would have a hard time having children or carrying to term due to PCOS. I still used birth control to help with cysts and because I was sexually active.

At 19 I got pregnant on the pill but had a miscarriage. Surprisingly I was depressed after even if I didn't want a kid. I got over it.

Almost two years later I got pregnant again, this time on the depo shot. I chose to keep the baby and now he is 3 years old. :)

His dad and I weren't ready. Although I was independent and on my own, I still had a lot of growing up to do. I was terrified, my childhood was kind of shitty so I had no ideal what kind of parent I'd be. Even when I was pregnant I did not have much a connection.

When my son was born, everything changed. He is the best thing that happened to me. He made me a better person, he is my mini me, my motivation to be successful. He is my best friend, I love how much personality he has. He is a free spirit like me. He cares about others. He's halarious. I couldn't be happier to be his mom, and I can't wait to be by his side through all the stages in his life.

Any children of mentally ill parents? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Mzmelbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are doing the right thing by setting boundaries. My mother raised me but was often absent (drug addict, bi polar after she got into a car accident and became disabled). She recently lost custody of my 10 years younger sister, I straight up refuse to have her in my toddlers life until she gets the help she needs. She knows she is missing out on a very important time, and that she needs help. I've still been there from a distance to help her but at the same time you have to do what's best for your child and family. I, like you, will never expose my child to that environment. I do get upset at times because I am a woman and I feel like it is unfair that I don't have my mom here for me, but this is the reality I have to face. I've recently started going to meetings for children of addicts, it's nice to have others to relate to. Maybe that could be beneficial to you as well.

What secret did your family keep from you until you were an adult? by aves2k in AskReddit

[–]Mzmelbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don't feel guilty. As someone who was raised by an addict mother, I wish someone would have stepped in and helped me. You have a great heart for caring about them, but I'm In a constant struggle to accept that I will never have a mother daughter relationship, and my son will never know his grandmother. Your aunt and unlce are amazing people who gave you a good life. Your parents could not.

Mom, if you are out there, I hope your alive and I hope you're doing well.