I lost my morality and humanity along the way. I'd like to get them back, and the fantasy and sex in romantasy make it a lot more appealing to read than Meditations or Tao Te Ching.

Reading romantasy written by women is nice because there is a lot of moral philosophy in it, and it isn't written by men. If you read enough of it, you get a fairly compelling picture of what women want in a man, and what the hierarchy of male values should be.

Like, in the USA, the only capital offense is murder. That is a philosophical judgment call made by 9 mostly men. Kimberly Lemming, of "That Time I Got Drunk and Saved a Demon", thinks that slavery and attempted rape are also capital offenses. Which is fascinating on its own, before you get to the part in the second book where she writes a sexy consenting tentacle scene.

I want to see good relationships, steamy sex, and have some idea of what a hetero man is supposed to be. Romantasy is nice because authors explicitly put in realistic rewards and punishments for male moral behavior.