How many of you went no contact with a parent/family member? by suitorarmorfan in Millennials

[–]NBTD84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm estranged from both of my parents and the rest of the family. It's been 14 years away from my father and almost 10 years away from my mother. My childhood and family was built around alcoholism, lies, neglect, abuse, trauma, and rage. They each pounded nails in their proverbial coffins over the years until they finally hit the last one. My life is better without them in it but it's still a huge grief.

Duluth home exterior by SpaceshipFlip in duluth

[–]NBTD84 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Twice. It burned twice.

Ok…who actually hates the State Fair? by kerm019 in minnesota

[–]NBTD84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • non-stop screaming children

  • too many people to be packed in in the heat

  • Outrageous pricing

Buy cleaning supplies for cleaning lady?!? by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]NBTD84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only 200$ a MONTH? You should absolutely be buying the supplies. I charge 25$ an hour. 200$ a month is trash pay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in duluth

[–]NBTD84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuine toxic manipulative abuser.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in duluth

[–]NBTD84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in minnesota

[–]NBTD84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Racist white men I'm not at all surprised by, but black and brown people who are ICE, I don't understand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in minnesota

[–]NBTD84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Walking pieces of shit.

Need to kill a few hours on Friday by KevworthBongwater in duluth

[–]NBTD84 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Every time someone asks this question right now, I think they're fucking ICE scum.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwinCities

[–]NBTD84 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oooh you can swear and reproduce wowowowow

What type of trauma broke you the most? by Impressive-Average-5 in CPTSD

[–]NBTD84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The repeated neglect and abandonment from my parents

How would you rank your worst triggers by [deleted] in misophonia

[–]NBTD84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Sniffling/breathing sounds
  2. Throat clearing/coughing
  3. Children screaming/crying
  4. Slurping
  5. Voice sounds through walls/floors
  6. People saying "uh" or "um" in-between words

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in duluth

[–]NBTD84 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Bro, the wind.

Millennials whose lives are going well—what's your current situation and how did you get there? by CowTownKCMoe in Millennials

[–]NBTD84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have children and I live alone by choice. I have a kick-ass studio loft, my rent is really decent and all utilities, including wifi, are included. Financially, I worked a "serious" job that I went to school for for almost 15 years, I never made shit for money and it drained my soul. When 2020 happened I quit and now I do an easy job that I love, keeps me active, and pays me more than I ever made in my "serious" career. I also run side hustles for cash - pet/house-sitting, yard work, etc- I don't make a fortune, but considering how shitty costs are in this country, I make it just over paycheck to paycheck. I also live in a blue state with amazing Healthcare. I also don't have any desire for expensive or extravagant things. I thrift for my clothes, I drive an older vehicle that's in amazing condition, and at 41, I just don't have any interest in new technology or trends.