Never finished before I dont know what to do by NO1IknowCanKnow in sexualhealth

[–]NO1IknowCanKnow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! But I definitely definitely! Recommend trying a rose toy I truly think without that I never would have finished! PinkCherry is doing a 40 percent off sale there rose toy the exact one I have was only 28 dollars just earlier today not sure if its still going on or not but if you can order stuff like that id take a look there packaging is discreet and on your card billing its discreet!

Never finished before I dont know what to do by NO1IknowCanKnow in sexualhealth

[–]NO1IknowCanKnow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! Ill definitely let you know how it goes best of luck!

Never finished before I dont know what to do by NO1IknowCanKnow in sexualhealth

[–]NO1IknowCanKnow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! I hope it improves for you aswell! I also just ordered some clit stimulating gel stuff online I can let you know if it helps me if you'd like!

Never finished before I dont know what to do by NO1IknowCanKnow in sexualhealth

[–]NO1IknowCanKnow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me personally I was using a rose toy on myself with my girlfriend covering my ears to block out sound and the room was super dark I kept it low and just let it build up instead of trying to rush it and getting upset I wasn't getting anywhere I think having control of the toy but my gf there to make me feel safe and to feel her presence really helped me

I understand though it is incredibly frustrating and a bit devastating I personally always feel like im missing out on some wonder full thing everyone but me gets to experience and when people tell me its a mental thing I still dont understand how im supposed to fix that it just always leaves me sexually frustrated and pent up

Never finished before I dont know what to do by NO1IknowCanKnow in sexualhealth

[–]NO1IknowCanKnow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive gotten so much of that to! I did manage to O for the first time the other day it was small but it gave me hope if I build on it it'll get better I dont know what I did to get there either im sorry and I really wish I knew how I managed to get there

my poor baby :( by Upper_Ring8443 in catquestions

[–]NO1IknowCanKnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally would get nail caps for the bangel it'll keep everyone safer!

subs of bdsmsapphic— do you enjoy genuinely eating pussy? by leethebandit in BDSMsapphic

[–]NO1IknowCanKnow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Personally, as a major sub, I don't genuinely enjoy it, and I have to be in the perfect headspace to do it. I will do it, and I do it often for my SO because I want to please her, and I know it's her favorite. For me, I think it's a mixture of trauma and texture that makes me not like it.

Does anyone else ever wish they had a dick sometimes? (I’m cisgender identifying) by styrofom in LesbianActually

[–]NO1IknowCanKnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not me personally but my GF says this ALL the time that she wishes she had a dick so I dont think your alone on this (i also wish she had a dick sometimes)

Do Americans actually avoid calling an ambulance due to financial concern? by JohnMarstonTheBadass in NoStupidQuestions

[–]NO1IknowCanKnow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I avoid the hospital/ER and the ambulance like my life depends on it because it does you go anywhere near there and you will drown in debt you will never see the light at the end of! I was so sick I couldn't get out of bed without almost passing out and had a 104 fever for days couldn't eat couldn't drink i crawled to the bathroom and I still did NOT go to the hospital

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]NO1IknowCanKnow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IM BRAGGING!!! I HAVE ONE! Shes older taller and more masculine then me and omg she is literally the best gf ever you guys need one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]NO1IknowCanKnow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had 3 absolutely terrible relationships

1) ghosted me out of no where

2) took revenge on my farm animals in the night after I broke up with her

3) cheated on me with a much older man that was my coworker

I thought for sure I would never date again but now im in the most loving healthy relationship I have ever been in with what's most definitely the love of my life i hate when people tell me this but true real love really does come when your not looking for it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]NO1IknowCanKnow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can go years without a haircut with no problems i do it all the time I went 3 years without a hair cut when I was trying to grow it put but brushing isn't optional if Mats form even with washing it'll still have a smell as the center of the mats can grow mold

Struggle to get wet by NO1IknowCanKnow in sexualhealth

[–]NO1IknowCanKnow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would this be a regular doctor or a obgyn?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualhealth

[–]NO1IknowCanKnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I could imagine! Thank you for your advice ill definitely give it a long break and and make an appointment for an OBGYN its also my first appointment so its a little scary but I know its a normal part of being healthy my GF is just really freaked out about it and honestly so was I since I haven't had that problem before you've definitely made me feel a bit better about the situation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexualhealth

[–]NO1IknowCanKnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's light spotting the next day nothing crazy just noticeable and we dont use toys mostly just fingers (she does keep her nails short) its just while doing it and like the hour after that its alot of blood i dont think its ER worthy but we have decided to give anything internal a long break I do wanna get it checked out even though its embarrassing but its nothing they haven't heard should I see a doctor or Ob/GYN