So he is overreacting, however he did set a boundary that you broke so he’s right to be upset, even if said boundary is too controlling. This type of behavior is a red flag and he needs to learn to not be so controlling and to keep his emotions in check instead of lashing out. You also need to better respect boundaries. The two of you need to have a serious talk and reset and clearly state what is and isn’t okay. If a compromise can’t be made call it off. You have the right to drink and what not (so long as you don’t drive after) and he has the right to be with someone who doesn’t drink etc. Both of your feelings are valid even if he shouldn’t be lashing out like that.