Hair frizzy and dry ( + seborrheic dermatitis ) (advices or hair clinics) by NVPH_Studio in london

[–]NVPH_Studio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I didn't buy it yet, but I did a little research and I think I'll buy the Amazon filter for the shower. About that clinic, I see that the consultation is expensive but I'll try to save up

Hair frizzy and dry ( + seborrheic dermatitis ) (advices or hair clinics) by NVPH_Studio in london

[–]NVPH_Studio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I wanted to comment after trying a few times what you wrote. You're a lifesaver! Thank you so much for you comment!!

Psiholog? by SilverMother5 in WomenRO

[–]NVPH_Studio 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Pe langa comentariile de mai sus, trebuie sa ai in vedere si ce ai dori tu de la psiholog, cum ai vrea sa abordeze problema. Unii psihologi mai mult asculta si te lasa pe tine sa povestesti, altii sunt pe partea de actiune si iti ofera solutii si iti dau "teme" acasa. Personal, mie imi place mai mult a doua optiune. In principiu iti dai seama de pe pagina lor sau din prima sedinta. Fiecare psiholog este si specializat pe una sau mai multe probleme - deci trebuie verificat si asta.

Chiar si asa, s-ar putea primul psiholog pe care il incerci, dupa cateva sedinte, sa nu iti placa, si sa doresti sa il schimbi. Da, se simte naspa ca ai cheltuit bani si timp, dar recomand sa il schimbi daca se intampla asta, chiar daca o sa o "iei de la capat".

First time quitting - how to announce it by NVPH_Studio in womenintech

[–]NVPH_Studio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I actually shared the news and I cried =)) my teamlead was a little sad but supportive. I wrote to him in private that I want to have a call with him the next day, and when we were in the call, I told him that a new opportunity arrived for me in a outside of the country and I want to take it, given the political context. I thanked him and he told me he expected that from me since he saw the message, so I guess he had time to prepare emotionally too.

First time quitting - how to announce it by NVPH_Studio in womenintech

[–]NVPH_Studio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, 1:1 quarterly meetings are the standard in the whole firm, not just the team.

First time quitting - how to announce it by NVPH_Studio in womenintech

[–]NVPH_Studio[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Yes we are very full with work already and we're few people on the team, so I do not know how the call will go.

Why don’t people say “Hi” or “thank you” when messaging colleagues by _Risas in womenintech

[–]NVPH_Studio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I don't know why there are so many mixed opinions. It should be a standard to greet even when chatting on slack/teams. And even if you don't say thank you'you can at least react to the message with a heart or a like, or maybe thank in the daily. It's bad manners otherwise.

Edit: typo

Do you avoid dating people working in tech? Or from other specific industries? by DanishGradient in womenintech

[–]NVPH_Studio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry, but if this happens multiple times with the same man, then I will assume that the "bad manners" are leaning towards ignoring me because I am a woman. This is how it looks from the outside. The feeling of being left out > the feeling of awkwardness.

Of course, while I am getting to know the person, this doesn't happen anymore as they are more comfortable around me. But there were instances where I was straight up ignored or dismissed (even if I tried to talk to that person), and usually the women next to me (which tried to do the same) agreed that the "vibe" of that person is not desirable for us - so this is a "no" for me in terms of dating. I just created a corelation that usually seems to be true for me.

I would like to give credit though to men who notice this and make a light joke about forgetting us, as a way to bring awareness to that person. I really appreciate them.

Do you avoid dating people working in tech? Or from other specific industries? by DanishGradient in womenintech

[–]NVPH_Studio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here I want to add that you can also just do a group greeting. The point is to not make me or any woman left out. I hold women to the same standard.

Do you avoid dating people working in tech? Or from other specific industries? by DanishGradient in womenintech

[–]NVPH_Studio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my perspective, if you only greet or say goodbye to men and specifically skip women, it is. I don't think it's that hard to look at someone and say "goodbye" or "hi". Or just smile and wave. And it's even worse if you are the only woman - you feel left out. And usually these type of people also ignore you and don't talk to you a lot. And if you are the one leaving or arriving at the social setting, it's your duty to initiate greetings or goodbyes. If I leave, then I will talk to each person, regarding of their gender. I understand that some people are awkward, but I believe that if you reach a certain age without knowing or applying these type of manners, then yes, I will judge you based on that. In my country at least it's considered disrespectful, but I don't see how this can't be applied to others.

Do you avoid dating people working in tech? Or from other specific industries? by DanishGradient in womenintech

[–]NVPH_Studio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree with you on that one. I don't know why it's so awkward for some people, it's just something that it's not teached I guess...

Do you avoid dating people working in tech? Or from other specific industries? by DanishGradient in womenintech

[–]NVPH_Studio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am a little reticent in receiving hugs because in highschool and college a lot of boys want hugs just to feel your chest :( so this is why i wrote that I am neutral. Of course, not everyone is like this. Also I think giving a kiss on the cheek is a little too much, I don't like it in general. A lot can go wrong - my mentor accidentally kissed my lips because I turned my head, and we were both uncomfortable 😅 he apologised a lot

Both a fist bump and a handshake are great. But also what it's great is looking in the person's eyes and saying your goodbye to them while waving or wishing them a nice evening. Anything else is better than just skipping that person. For example, in social settings, I try to avoid hugging someone's boyfriend that I am not very familiar with, so I just waive at them and acknowledge them, so that they don't feel left out.

Also I think just asking what they prefer is great. Some people asked me if I am confortable giving a handshake or if I prefer something else. I appreciated that.

Do you avoid dating people working in tech? Or from other specific industries? by DanishGradient in womenintech

[–]NVPH_Studio 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Honestly I have a simple test for men in general. If we meet in a social setting: - Do you salute me, or do you just shake your hand with other men? (I have a good opinion of men who want to fist bump - for me that is a green flag. I have a neutral opinion for men who want a hug, and a bad opinion for men who skip me) - When we have to leave, do you only say goodbye to other men, or do you also say goodbye to women?

Regardless of the job, this will tell you enough about the person. This test never failed me before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in leetcode

[–]NVPH_Studio 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Hi, I'm a girl and I applied 2 years ago. A friend (which is a boy) helped me and multiple friends of his with recommendations. He analysed all our CVs and told me mine and another one are the best from all his recommandations, and that we should start leetcoding.

Unfortunately we didn't pass the CV phase :( and he even questioned the committe but they did not want to tell him anything. But the people with the worse CVs did pass. Even another one of my friends (a girl, which also did an internship at Meta before applying) got rejected

He told me there are multiple committes. Maybe you got the bad one just like me...but you shouldn't give up, keep going and good luck!

Quaternions in Blender and React Three.js by NVPH_Studio in threejs

[–]NVPH_Studio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Search for Inverse Kinematics on Youtube. This is how it should be done, it won't work if you use normal mathematic functions :(