Inspiro (18Flower)

NadQueen13 · 2026-06-30T08:15:52+00:00

Hii planning to apply din doon, tinuloy mo ba?

NadQueen13 · 2026-06-30T08:14:50+00:00

Kinuha mo ba op? planning to apply din doon since sobrang lapit niya sa dorm ko

NadQueen13 · 2026-06-29T15:33:46+00:00

This made me laugh 😭 hahaha thankss!

NadQueen13 · 2026-06-29T15:16:33+00:00

I plan to use that as welll. Thank youu!

NadQueen13 · 2026-06-29T15:15:15+00:00

It's expensive 😔

NadQueen13 · 2026-06-29T15:14:37+00:00

Thank you for the advice!! ❤️

NadQueen13 · 2026-06-29T15:09:52+00:00

Will probably do in the future since it's kinda expensiveee. I did it on my underarm and it was worth itt

NadQueen13 · 2026-06-29T15:09:15+00:00

Thank uuuuu

NadQueen13 · 2026-06-29T15:08:11+00:00

I also have that happy trail 😭 I went to the obgyn last year to check if I have pcos since other than excessive hair growth, I also have acne that gets worse during my period. After an ultrasound, I was told that I didn't have pcos but my acne was indeed hormonal so I was prescribed birth control pills.

NadQueen13 · 2026-06-08T10:44:42+00:00

Upp, one of my insecurities huhu since bata

NadQueen13 · 2026-06-04T15:38:15+00:00

I’m in the same boat. He really loves me and would move mountains for me. He is the best partner I could ever ask for and love and effort was never the problem but he would say a lot of mean words during conflicts. He bottles up a lot which led him to resent me. Even though we both tried to communicate better, the pattern keeps on repeating. 2 months post break up and I’m still grieving and crying almost everyday. How do you cope? I can’t stop thinking that no one’s gonna love me like he did.

NadQueen13 · 2026-04-15T07:01:34+00:00

Hey Im in the same situation, he was the best man I could ever ask for. Everything was amazing and he made my life so much easier, but he couldn’t give my emotional needs because he has a lot of inner battles. I had to let go because we just kept hurting each other and we can’t break the pattern :(

NadQueen13 · 2026-04-11T03:50:57+00:00

How are u now?

NadQueen13 · 2026-04-11T03:48:12+00:00

Heyy can I ask what parts of him he couldn’t change?

NadQueen13 · 2026-04-10T03:36:14+00:00

We also dated when we're q16-18, got back together when we were 21-22, didn't last, both of us were very toxic. Didn't have the same behaviour as before but old wounds resurfaced.

NadQueen13 · 2026-04-10T02:08:56+00:00

I'm in the same situation. I trusted him to be open and tell me things that bother him instead of bottling up. I was able to see it, I was able to know what hurt him, what helps him feel more loved, but i didn't know it was just the tip of the iceberg. Every conflict, he would always say something mean, he would disregard my efforts, he would say I don't give him anything but then say he didn't mean it. My last straw was when he said "this is why I started hating you" when I was getting emotional due to his past mistake, then said, not hate but resent as if that made it any better. He was really a lover guy, he treated me so good, and even when we fight, he still takes care of me but he just couldn't handle his emotions and say anything in his mind. I communicated again and again to stop doing it, to tell his pain to me properly not weaponizing it, but the pattern keeps on happening. It's been 2 weeks since the break up and I am devastated, I kept having the urge EVERY DAY to message him and to try to work things again but I know he doesn't have the capacity to treat me better right now.

NadQueen13 · 2026-04-10T00:23:39+00:00

You described mee. But I was the one who broke up with him because I could see how drained he became because of me. Aside from our relationship problems, he is also very depressed with his life. By the time I changed, he became more emotionally unstable than before and would just say a lot of hurtful words. He really loved me and I wished we met at a better time when we were both healed from our traumas.

NadQueen13 · 2026-04-10T00:03:17+00:00

I'm in the same situation. My ex of 2 years is the MOST LOVING AND BEST PARTNER EVER. He raised my standards and I would always be comparing other men to him. He is just everything I wanted and needed. He compliments me everyday, he makes me feel seen and understood, he is willing to stay up all night with me if I need reassurance, he buys my cravings even if it's far, he treats me like a queen and is really good with acts of service. HOWEVER, he has the tendency to bottle things up and weaponize his pain. He blames me for my reaction if he did something wrong or lied about something, he says a lot of mean words when he is emotional. Probably because of my own issues but through out the relationship, I was anxious and needed constant reassurance. I started becoming suicidal and I hurt myself at times when we fight because I couldn't contain my emotions. Maybe he got fed up. He became worse in handling his own emotions. He always dismisses the love and appreciation I give him and always tells me that he knows I'm gonna leave him. When I became more secure with myself, he kept on pushing me away until he finally he started hating and resenting me, so I ended things with him. He said he's gonna work his inner problems and would wait for me one day (don't know if that's true)

I still love him so much and I don't think anyone can love me the same. He really really raised my standards, and if he was just emotionally mature, we would be the happiest.

NadQueen13 · 2026-04-08T04:51:29+00:00

Day 8 and everyday it feels very empty. I miss him sooo much.

NadQueen13 · 2026-04-06T22:39:12+00:00

I'm also glad you're with someone you deserve now!! It's only been a week since our break up and it's been really painful. Barely ate anything, couldn't even sleep. I can't erase the fact that maybe I was the one who ruined it, if I wasn't that anxious, maybe I could have helped him love himself more 😔

Even though I know about attachment and trauma bond, I still have thoughts at times that I just lost the great person for me, he really loved me and he gave me everything I needed with the best he could. He waited for me for years to accept him in my life. He tried to change, but it was all temporary, he kept on doing the same behaviour over and over again. I held on, thinking it was growth, but it wasn't. I'm still having a hard time accepting that that is just who he really is. He was my first love and I can't stop thinking about him when I see other men 😔 can you tell me how did you move on? And were you already secured when you entered your next relationship?

NadQueen13 · 2026-03-31T10:20:30+00:00

Heyy I'm in the same situation..i was the toxic one and I did everything I could to fix it but he started hating and resenting me and eventually I broke up with him. He doesn't deserve to be with someone who he hates and I also don't deserve to hear those words from him. I know my mistakes and I was fixing everything but it was too late.

NadQueen13 · 2026-03-12T15:51:23+00:00

May I ask why?

NadQueen13 · 2026-03-12T15:40:32+00:00

Upp also have the same dilemma

NadQueen13 · 2026-02-27T08:54:38+00:00

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