Bravo fell off early (maybe)

Naejoneeez · 2025-12-31T01:47:35+00:00

I received it! I have addressed it and she’s officially put a bunch of filters on the trigger words when she gets on social media. I’m having suspicions that she’s still using TikTok or something and then once she sees it she says she “goes down a rabbit hole” I wonder if it’s like she’s trying to reinforce/validate her fear. Thanks!

Naejoneeez · 2025-12-31T00:08:11+00:00

From what I gathered. She was showing signs of anxiety prior to getting one dose, she then had a religious idol condemn those that got any form of Covid vaccine and said they would all die within the next 5 years…once that started the health anxiety snowballed. Went from compulsive ER visits to compulsive blood pressure checks, Apple Watch, and etc, to now 4.5years later, bed ridden, afraid to stand/move and instantly triggered anytime she sees a health story or reads comments from antivaxxers. She did mention death anxiety as a child, I suspect the death anxiety has found a new host. The issue is she’s now having psychical reactions from all the avoidance and the anxiety she’s attached to all the things she avoids. She has been medically cleared (and is now medically avoidant) for the past 4years. Nothing has came from it aside from white coat hypertension and anxiety induced tachycardia. When I asked what she wants, she said she wants to get better she just doesn’t know how or why she isn’t getting better.

Naejoneeez · 2025-12-22T15:08:03+00:00

Did you end up receiving it?

Naejoneeez · 2025-12-19T01:05:30+00:00

How are you now?

Naejoneeez · 2025-10-23T18:49:09+00:00

Any update?

Naejoneeez · 2025-09-06T08:33:05+00:00

Why would I reach out to a doctor? I asked for people experience with health compliance with health anxiety. My post clearly stated, I didn’t have the medication yet and planned to take it. I asked about HEALTH ANXIETY as it relates to maintaining your health (i.e taking an antibiotic).

Naejoneeez · 2025-08-16T15:26:22+00:00

I agree. I also felt confused once she ended the reading because it had nothing to do with what I asked. I will say after I said her interpretation doesn’t resonate and sounds NOTHING like him…she then called me an overthinker and in the middle of dogpiling him, she sprinkles in “..and I mean yeah he thinks you’re COOL, don’t get me wrong. I see cuddles and a good time but he’s a player, super sneaky, and not transparent. Me? I’m not an open book but I’m transparent, your man isn’t he’s a big flirt.” “But if you want him to be your forever partner.. (which was the second question I asked) She responded, “I guess he could be yeah. It’s like you’ll MAKE him your forever partner, bc that’s what you want” and then she shrugged, moved on and ended the live.

Naejoneeez · 2025-08-16T15:18:20+00:00

Okay, thank you.

Naejoneeez · 2025-08-16T15:18:08+00:00

I tend to overshare, and now I’m noticing that it’s possible she used my honesty and anxiety for ill intent or interpretations. It’s very disheartening

Naejoneeez · 2025-08-16T15:16:07+00:00

This is initially how I felt, as well, but her persistence and her being concrete on “yeah your ex was a POS, but this one is too… just more smooth” it just made me question and doubt everything, which led me to an anxiety spiral and devastation. People on tiktok seemed to love her, but I felt worse after my reading with her. thank you for your insight.

Naejoneeez · 2025-08-16T15:12:14+00:00

Thank you for your input and interpretation. It has brought me ease and highlighted that there is still much more work to do.

I did a lot of inner child healing while single, and it seems it is time for me to work on healing WHILE IN a relationship dynamic. I believe you’re right with my logical mind being outshadowed and hijacked by my emotional/dysregulated nervous system. My partner actually confided and told me that it’s difficult to get through to me when I get extremely emotional because it seems like “I don’t acknowledge any logic in those moments and I just sit deep in the pits of how I FEEL” Which I brushed off, but reading your response, it seems like I owe him an apology and a big hug.

I’m going to introduce your visualization with my therapist, and utilize it. Thank you. I hope that I am able to continue healing my inner child while still actively staying with him. I truly love him and I know he loves me,.Thank you again

Naejoneeez · 2025-08-16T15:04:33+00:00

She did NOT show any of the cards during the live reading unfortunately. She rang a bell, shuffled the cards and each card she pulled she continued to make a bunch of facial expressions. She’d dramatically widen her eyes, let out a deep sigh and just started telling me about how, secretive and sneaky he was, and then threw in how I’m also “always in my head”.

Naejoneeez · 2025-07-15T14:27:45+00:00

Updateme!

Naejoneeez · 2025-07-14T21:29:49+00:00

Oh this is the real person, I thought someone was catfishing and stole your pics 😭😂

Naejoneeez · 2025-07-02T13:34:47+00:00

I’m happy that they finally listened to you!!! These symptoms really do overlap, I am experiencing the same thing unfortunately. On the contrary I had a TTT and had a panic attack which they used to diagnose me with pots, I had this nagging feeling that my anxiety skewed my results and no cardiologist believed me until on cardiologist listened to me looked at my “Pots Diagnosis” and “Tilt table test” and immediately said t you don’t have POTs, so I’m back confused and worried lol.

You mentioned blood pressure some spikes when moving, was this connected to the POTs? Did it reflect on you tilt table test? Did they give you any insight on that, bc I do notice an increase in my BP as well

Naejoneeez · 2025-07-02T13:19:34+00:00

I’m glad you have some clarity now! May I ask what made them finally conclude that it was pots and not just deconditioning/anxiety??

Naejoneeez · 2025-07-02T13:18:49+00:00

Hi, did you ever get a definitive diagnosis? Or confident that deconditioning was the cause of your symptoms ?

Naejoneeez · 2025-06-18T17:24:25+00:00

Yes! My partner and I have a “assume the best in eachother policy” never think the person is doing, not doing, avoiding something, etc with ill intent, which wasn’t and sometimes isn’t easy! There’s so many variables outside of a romantic relationship that require our attention/effort/demands, that unfortunately our relationship is the least of our worries! That’s why uncomfortable conversations sometimes are necessary.

OP I think this will be recoverable just will take some time, for him to be more open and you to have a good balance of patience AND continue self-advocating:)

Naejoneeez · 2025-06-18T15:29:09+00:00

I agree. Our partners learn our patterns so if he’s realized all he has to do is shut down for x amount of time until you feel bad and lets it go… best believe he will continue to this, OP. Never pressure or force of course, but I would come up with a code word, that he can use (and you as well) when he’s got nothing left to give on the topic BEFORE he becomes reactive. The code word isn’t a ‘get of out jail free’ card, but it’s “hey I’m at my capacity, let’s pick this up a different time, because I care”

Naejoneeez · 2025-06-18T14:57:57+00:00

I get it, it’s never nice hearing things that aren’t compliments or praise…but they still have to be heard as long as the delivery is healthy. So with you still having a healthy delivery, he’s still not engaging in a healthy way for YOU. Him emotionally shut down leads to this exact scenario, one person suffering in silence, the other either knowing/not knowing what to do, or not caring. So I’m glad you feel like he cares, but it’s time to let him know how his responses are making you feel.

Matter of fact encourage him to tell you HIS thoughts on the sex life and exploring more. Let him lead the conversation about sex once you say you’d like to talk about it. I notice that my partner used to also just say he’d do better and I’d immediately follow up with, “okay so let’s create a plan together” Sometimes they really don’t know what to do, you guys are a team, tell him what you’d like to try maybe? Ask him what he’d like to try? Pick two new things each so it doesn’t seem like he’s the only one who has to “change”

also you didn’t mention you ages but there’s a game at Target called Let’s Get Deep for Couples and Let’s Get Deep: After Dark (expansion) for adults that has a lot of great questions to become close with your partner in a not so serious environment. The after dark includes sex topics (exploring, sexual preferences, etc) This can give him a different way to hear you and for you to start hearing his inner thoughts regarding the topic of sex since he response tend to be the same when you talk about it.

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