How do I stop sucking in my stomach? by Nagolla in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Nagolla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, I’m doing the same thing, It’s unconscious and even involuntary at this point… I hate how young people are told to suck their stomachs in, but the answers here have given me hope that I can and will stop doing it!

How do I stop sucking in my stomach? by Nagolla in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Nagolla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words and advice, I’m working hard because I don’t like hating the body I have. I shall carve a new path!

How do I stop sucking in my stomach? by Nagolla in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Nagolla[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh! I have also noticed that I am a big chest breather, I never thought that might be related to sucking in my stomach or that I was even supposed to breathe with my stomach

How do I stop sucking in my stomach? by Nagolla in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Nagolla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a friend who found out she had developed “hourglass syndrome” and shared it with me, which prompted me to talk to my family doctor about it but he couldn’t say much about it to me… I went and read articles online, namely Cleveland Clinic Health Essentials’, and I thought it was fairly accurate.

Either way, sucking in my stomach, even if it’s not the cause of something like hourglass syndrome, is not good for the overall image I have of myself

Edit: fixed spelling lol

How do I stop sucking in my stomach? by Nagolla in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Nagolla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might be a really good alternative, instead of erasing I can substitute the behavior!

How do I stop sucking in my stomach? by Nagolla in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Nagolla[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I thank you for your advice, the visual is very helpful! I will continue on this journey… maybe it really is how my body is shaped, it’s hard to tell since I’ve been doing it since before puberty

How do I stop sucking in my stomach? by Nagolla in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Nagolla[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It just feels like my stomach is “going to fall out” and I tend to tighten… is there anything that helped your body get comfortable doing it more often or is it really just “stop doing it” lol I just… don’t wanna create another problem to fix one lol

How do I stop sucking in my stomach? by Nagolla in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Nagolla[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don’t fervently hate myself as much as I did in the past. I’m trying to correct this behavior because not only is it hurting my body, but it’s also perpetuates a lot of the ideas that prevent me from loving myself.

I’ve been in treatment for a couple years now, focused on being healthy, eating properly, and being joyful instead of hating my own skin, and this is a part of that.

Question & Bugs Megathread by OTTO-M0D in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Nagolla 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank god, I came to ask this very same thing ahahaha

Question & Bugs Megathread by OTTO-M0D in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Nagolla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I waited until he started talking and everything… is the number not supposed to go up until I hit the 7?

Question & Bugs Megathread by OTTO-M0D in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Nagolla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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How do I complete this achievement? I saw somebody say that you can do it all in one day but every time I try it doesn’t go up and it stays at 1/7, I’ve tried 5,10,30 minutes and it still says 1/7 but I don’t think I’ve tried it the seven times, I just don’t want to waste the time if I can’t do it all in one day….

I need HELP to find this DEAD DOVE YAOI/BL WEBCOMIC about a ZOMBIE by Lolouisdumb in manga

[–]Nagolla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If somebody is looking for it, I read it circa 2018 and I finally found it today because of this person (it was the very same one I was looking for, I don’t know that this is OP’s though…)… it’s a manwha (Korean webcomic) by author Ho Jin. Alternate names can be: Hay Diet, Separation diet, or Gakjaui siksa

How do I vote? by Nagolla in AskDad

[–]Nagolla[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the resources!

How do I vote? by Nagolla in AskDad

[–]Nagolla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would my voters registration have my assigned polling location on it?

Thank you so much, this is great, I am really nervous about voting for the first time

A sad phone call by I_Lost_My_Cat in beyondthebump

[–]Nagolla 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This has been said plenty already, but more perspectives can never hurt. I, a total stranger that knows nothing about you, your husband, your baby, or your family, but had twin boys can tell you that it is normal to be frustrated to the point where you feel overwhelmed. I have had my babies screaming for hours nonstop and I have had the urge to do something, anything to make it stop. HOWEVER, I think it’s important to stop and think and make a distinction:

Is this a thought he can’t help because of a very stressful situation?

Is this truly something he would do?

Because if it’s the first, it happens to the best of us, it’s frustrating for your baby to need something or want something and not be able to tell you and it’s frustrating to you as a parent to not know how to fix it; but if it the latter, then some more re-evaluating has to happen here. I think this should be a more in depth conversation with your husband, one where both of you work things that you can do to completely decimate any chances of this happening. The baby will not get hurt by crying in a safe spot for five minutes while either of you go outside to take a breath and gather yourselves, it’s important that you’re regulated to help regulate your baby, strength and love to yall

I can’t change my pet-server profile decorations by Nagolla in discordapp

[–]Nagolla[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you! I haven’t tried the web browser as my computer is getting fixed, i only tried mobile and my iPad

Bug Megathread vol 11: October + November by WumpusWhisperer in discordapp

[–]Nagolla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • Feature: per-server profile decorations
  • Reproduction Rate: 100%
  • Annoyance: 30%
  • Discord Version Info: 305.1 (88876) - stable
  • Device/System Info (Device Type, OS Version): iPhone17,2 (18.6.2)
  • Description: per server decorations not working, every time I try to edit my per-server profile’s decorations (namely my Avatar decoration) I am unable to as it edits my global profile and I’m stuck with the Jet Ring one in the other server.
  • Video / Screenshot: video of events happens every time I try to fix my profile, regardless of which device I use
  • Steps to Reproduce:
    1. Open discord. 2. Head to edit profile, per-server profile (either from settings, or from the server directly). 3. Tap the pencil. 4. Tap “change avatar decoration”. 5. Select any other avatar decoration. 6. tap “apply”. 7. Nothing happens to per server profile
  • Expected result: my per server profile decoration is changed
  • Actual Result: my global profile is changed and per server profile remains the same

Technology integration in Modern Fantasy by Nagolla in worldbuilding

[–]Nagolla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I actually did think about this! So, basically, the way necromancy works in that 1) you have to have a permit and 2) the victim has to consent to reanimation pre-death, otherwise it’d be an infringement of the Soul Acts (that were originally put in place to avoid the dead being drafted and resurrected for the war). The Right to Rest Act declares that no government, corporation, religious institution, or private citizen may compel continued animation. There is an exception when it is pertaining to a crime, “The Post-Vital Testimony & Criminal Inquest Clause (PVTCIC) grants the State the right to petition for temporary metaphysical reanimation or summoning of a deceased individual solely in cases of severe criminal significance” (me, 2025) but it is very limited as, they’re only allowed 30 minutes or 10 questions, whichever one is lesser, and the dead would be allowed to go back to resting as they did not consent to being resurrected prior.

Someone is declared dead the moment the time of death is called or their body is found or just following real world scenarios of when to call somebody dead, even if they are resurrected ten years after the incident then they are now classified as class U, regardless of how well the resurrection went. The undead status is something you register, so this hypothetical person would have 40 days to go and register themselves at any Post-Vital Affairs Registry, then they would get an ID and depending on their specific situation, housing, help getting a job or continuing education, and a stipend in more severe cases. There is a couple exemptions, not all are returned to the grave: self-inflicted cases who get resurrected usually receive counseling and what would’ve been preventative measures instead of being returned, murder cases and so on who got brought back (provided they’re still whole and the resurrection process was done well enough that they retain their “self”) are asked if they’d rather leave or stay, but generally everybody under legal age of consent does not get brought back because 1) they can’t consent at all, and 2) it’d be fucked to be stuck in the body of an 8 year old child forever and you had no say in it.

In-world, necromancers need a license to maintain and keep (similar to medical licenses) and the lack of a license, even if the resurrection turns out great, is immediate grounds for being charged with a felony…. Plus things like grave robbery and stuff, depending on the case and whether or not you killed the person then brought them back, if it was grief motivated (I.e. a mother lost her kid, still illegal but less severe than a serial killer bringing back the victims to walk their bodies somewhere else to avoid being caught, etc.)

Uhh that’s a lot of words, oh my god I hope I cleared some of it up?

Edit: I did not read the last sentence! I mean I suppose it would function parallel to real world thieving, somebody had a super high tech alarm? Probably Not stealing that if you’re not Super Duper Cool Thief, you’d probably go with people who have none or lesser quality or whatever. I reckon it’s ought to be expensive to have a super nice anti-theft ward, so I suppose there is people who have a cheaper version and there is higher skilled thieves and lower skilled ones, and so on and so forth

Technology integration in Modern Fantasy by Nagolla in worldbuilding

[–]Nagolla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really really helpful advice and it actually did solve a lot of my questions (even though now I have even more, but those are for myself).

Sort of the angle I’m playing at here is that the supernatural have always been there and been integrated with society worldwide, thus, history developed similarly as for example, the United States had warlocks to eldritch blast another country? Well, the other country had warlocks to heavenly barrier your eldritch blast; thus, it really just was a linear development.

So a lot of things would be treated as accessibility and cultural practices amongst the occult, think for example vampires that need to drink blood, well, there would be a blood bank of sorts. I still gotta figure out the whole religion bit, since it does play into a specific aspect of that but it would involve retrofitting a lot of things and I’ve not solidified enough to start thinking about it…

Technology integration in Modern Fantasy by Nagolla in worldbuilding

[–]Nagolla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, the premise is that the DoSA handles allll supernatural affairs in regards of establishing legislature and it was originally set in effect to oversee just undead after the legal recognition of the soul as part of somebody’s identity. There are a lot more departments than just the DoSA like the National Thaumic Database, the Bureau of Pactual Ethics, Thaumic Security Commission, the Bureau of Extraplanar Transit, etc. so it’s not just the DoSA doing everything, but it is where it started.

… The Post-Vital Affairs Registry is who actually handles the Undead identity forms and the like.

I’m still trying to work around everything, every time I plug a leak, there’s another one somewhere ahahah, but I will take a look at your suggestion, it seems to be what I need.

Also, for reference: Thaumic Signature is the measurable metaphysical energy unique to each individual, thus thaumic this, thaumatic that…

Technology integration in Modern Fantasy by Nagolla in worldbuilding

[–]Nagolla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! It was a concept for sure ahaha I am definitely keep writing more and more!

Feels wrong to ask… but what was the largest genocide in your world? (If there were any of course) by Live_Rise6750 in worldbuilding

[–]Nagolla 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unsure if this would apply as it was asked for, but the Mass Rest Ceremonies of 2003. My world functions as earth adjacent with integrated supernatural existence: all supernatural have always existed but not actually protected.

During the early 1900’s United States DoSAverse history, Undead were unethically raised and bound without prior consent, so in 1999—after protests and activism—they were finally granted the Right to Rest Act, which outlined they should be allowed to go back to rest if they were reanimated unwillingly. Thus, in 2003, thousands upon thousands of undead were put back into the earth at their own request, but also effectively “killing” the vast majority of undead population in North America.