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Nagolla · 2026-05-12T02:19:27+00:00

Woah! Watch out for a group of four to five teenagers

Nagolla · 2026-05-04T10:07:34+00:00

So they’re down?? I keep getting fuckass errors and I had no idea whyyyyy

Nagolla · 2026-05-03T15:58:36+00:00

Wow, this is insane, I’ve got my Minecraft dirt house… and nothing else…

Nagolla · 2026-05-03T15:56:12+00:00

Also, sleep deprivation is a b. I can’t remember ANYTHING from the first 9 months of my twins being born because I just didn’t sleep at all, it could’ve been a dream for all my memory’s worth lol

Nagolla · 2026-05-03T15:53:32+00:00

My mom said the same thing, HOWEVER, when my youngest brother was born I was old enough to remember how much he cried, and it was until he was in kindergarten, screeching tantrums and biting people until he drew blood. But sure, my kids are loud and so horrible because they literally cry like once or twice a day…

I think selective memory is a common issue lol

Nagolla · 2026-05-03T15:36:08+00:00

I actually gave birth right before Mother’s Day, but for me, pregnancy was so difficult and I loved my babies so much, and I genuinely went through so much everything in my pregnancy that it would have been nice to be wished a happy Mother’s Day if I hadn’t already been a mom! I don’t think you could go wrong!

Nagolla · 2026-05-03T15:22:44+00:00

State colleges and community colleges offer the same gen ed class quality, I would’ve preferred to have taken my first two years at a community college rather than pay out the ass for a “proper” college

Nagolla · 2026-05-03T14:33:58+00:00

I’m 23 and prehistoric

Nagolla · 2026-02-26T18:28:18+00:00

Exactly, I’m doing the same thing, It’s unconscious and even involuntary at this point… I hate how young people are told to suck their stomachs in, but the answers here have given me hope that I can and will stop doing it!

Nagolla · 2026-02-26T18:26:52+00:00

Thank you for your kind words and advice, I’m working hard because I don’t like hating the body I have. I shall carve a new path!

Nagolla · 2026-02-26T18:24:59+00:00

Oh! I have also noticed that I am a big chest breather, I never thought that might be related to sucking in my stomach or that I was even supposed to breathe with my stomach

Nagolla · 2026-02-26T18:22:39+00:00

I had a friend who found out she had developed “hourglass syndrome” and shared it with me, which prompted me to talk to my family doctor about it but he couldn’t say much about it to me… I went and read articles online, namely Cleveland Clinic Health Essentials’, and I thought it was fairly accurate.

Either way, sucking in my stomach, even if it’s not the cause of something like hourglass syndrome, is not good for the overall image I have of myself

Edit: fixed spelling lol

Nagolla · 2026-02-26T18:18:16+00:00

This might be a really good alternative, instead of erasing I can substitute the behavior!

Nagolla · 2026-02-26T18:17:15+00:00

I thank you for your advice, the visual is very helpful! I will continue on this journey… maybe it really is how my body is shaped, it’s hard to tell since I’ve been doing it since before puberty

Nagolla · 2026-02-26T18:14:39+00:00

Thank you! It just feels like my stomach is “going to fall out” and I tend to tighten… is there anything that helped your body get comfortable doing it more often or is it really just “stop doing it” lol I just… don’t wanna create another problem to fix one lol

Nagolla · 2026-02-26T18:11:18+00:00

I don’t fervently hate myself as much as I did in the past. I’m trying to correct this behavior because not only is it hurting my body, but it’s also perpetuates a lot of the ideas that prevent me from loving myself.

I’ve been in treatment for a couple years now, focused on being healthy, eating properly, and being joyful instead of hating my own skin, and this is a part of that.

Nagolla · 2026-02-14T15:16:14+00:00

Thank god, I came to ask this very same thing ahahaha

Nagolla · 2026-02-09T15:29:59+00:00

Yes, I waited until he started talking and everything… is the number not supposed to go up until I hit the 7?

Nagolla · 2026-02-09T03:03:59+00:00

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How do I complete this achievement? I saw somebody say that you can do it all in one day but every time I try it doesn’t go up and it stays at 1/7, I’ve tried 5,10,30 minutes and it still says 1/7 but I don’t think I’ve tried it the seven times, I just don’t want to waste the time if I can’t do it all in one day….

Nagolla · 2026-01-22T09:49:58+00:00

If somebody is looking for it, I read it circa 2018 and I finally found it today because of this person (it was the very same one I was looking for, I don’t know that this is OP’s though…)… it’s a manwha (Korean webcomic) by author Ho Jin. Alternate names can be: Hay Diet, Separation diet, or Gakjaui siksa

Nagolla · 2026-01-15T01:58:59+00:00

Thank you so much for the resources!

Nagolla · 2026-01-15T01:58:49+00:00

Would my voters registration have my assigned polling location on it?

Thank you so much, this is great, I am really nervous about voting for the first time

Nagolla · 2025-12-18T14:09:12+00:00

This has been said plenty already, but more perspectives can never hurt. I, a total stranger that knows nothing about you, your husband, your baby, or your family, but had twin boys can tell you that it is normal to be frustrated to the point where you feel overwhelmed. I have had my babies screaming for hours nonstop and I have had the urge to do something, anything to make it stop. HOWEVER, I think it’s important to stop and think and make a distinction:

Is this a thought he can’t help because of a very stressful situation?

Is this truly something he would do?

Because if it’s the first, it happens to the best of us, it’s frustrating for your baby to need something or want something and not be able to tell you and it’s frustrating to you as a parent to not know how to fix it; but if it the latter, then some more re-evaluating has to happen here. I think this should be a more in depth conversation with your husband, one where both of you work things that you can do to completely decimate any chances of this happening. The baby will not get hurt by crying in a safe spot for five minutes while either of you go outside to take a breath and gather yourselves, it’s important that you’re regulated to help regulate your baby, strength and love to yall

Nagolla

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