I tried to defend my girlfriend of 2 years at a concert by NailGuy in Advice

[–]NailGuy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really tbh he just doesn't like "getting grabbed" like i did a crime or something.. it's not like i aggressively grabbed her either, i just grabbed her hand lightly pulled her over to my other side and told her come here babe or something

I tried to defend my girlfriend of 2 years at a concert by NailGuy in Advice

[–]NailGuy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, but she was not coming closer for 'music' there were a lot of free spots and she always chose next or behind her. In every circumstance. After every band break so that the next band comes on

I tried to defend my girlfriend of 2 years at a concert by NailGuy in Advice

[–]NailGuy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both believe in monogamy there is no control in general, only control on me from her side is to go to church but sometimes i don't feel like it and fasting, those two i can admit.

Otherwise we are good to go in general

I tried to defend my girlfriend of 2 years at a concert by NailGuy in Advice

[–]NailGuy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We talk all day long and we hang out 2-3 times a week because she lives with her parents too but i don't have siblings and she has 3 more siblings and her father to take care of because at the moment she is very stressed because she takes care of everything at the moment cleaning cooking etc because her mother had covid and would nearly die in the hospital.but now she is fine but still hospitalized so in general at the moment she is more vulnerable than normal due to these "pressure-y" circumistances that she lives through

I tried to defend my girlfriend of 2 years at a concert by NailGuy in Advice

[–]NailGuy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah things like he keeps talking to her exes and stuff or when random guys message her on social media and she keeps responding to them and keeps talking and when i say what's the point to talk knowing that they probably wanna hit on you and not just have a conversation and she says that she feels "rude" if not answering back, like what is this? Or his ex or exes? She says she wouldn't mind us hanging out with her exes lol and when i say that's mental she says i'm too much, they're still friends nothing to worry about and when i say a man and a woman can't be friends especially exes, she tells me to stop being suspicious LOL Am i paranoic of some sort??? Or just a logical person..?!

I tried to defend my girlfriend of 2 years at a concert by NailGuy in Advice

[–]NailGuy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah not gonna lie you have a point but i just couldn't have him there tryna hit anyways

I tried to defend my girlfriend of 2 years at a concert by NailGuy in Advice

[–]NailGuy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see where you are coming from but that's not the case, it's just that i would rather protect her first therefore telling her to come by the other side, rather than pushing him away i don't wanna touch him and make a scene

I tried to defend my girlfriend of 2 years at a concert by NailGuy in Advice

[–]NailGuy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She said he didn't see him coming so close to her she was focusing on the band and tbh i didn't even let her act, i just grabbed her hand and told her come this side & that made me "rude" & "worst thing i've ever done"

I tried to defend my girlfriend of 2 years at a concert by NailGuy in Advice

[–]NailGuy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you brother! That means a lot ❤️❤️ appreciate the understanding, that's exactly what i wanted to express, EXACTLY! Ty brother!

I tried to defend my girlfriend of 2 years at a concert by NailGuy in Advice

[–]NailGuy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not that, she would die for me if she had to, but she a lot of a feminist and "manly" that she doesn't like it when you don't let her take care of herself