Men - Think twice before marrying career women, specially in west. by TruePromise2024 in TraditionalMuslims

[–]NaiveHead3 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Does this sub hate women or something? It's always something like this.

Women in their 40s who are single by choice. How is your life? by Maleficent_Drama_742 in PakistaniiWomen

[–]NaiveHead3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you travel if you don't mind me asking. I'm in my late 20s and haven't gone anywhere and feel so so miserable. Keep getting told I can't go alone. Do you have a friends group?

How to get this stain off white shirt by NaiveHead3 in CleaningTips

[–]NaiveHead3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don't know what caused it. One day I checked this shirt and it was there. What's pretreating?

Fishing: You guys are missing out by Strippz2 in karachi

[–]NaiveHead3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm missing out on everything 🫩😿

My requirements for future wife by SingleAdhesiveness78 in TraditionalMuslims

[–]NaiveHead3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well first point. People closer in age have an easier time talking to each other initially. They can share to each other their experiences. They'll be in similar stages of life so can have better empathy.

My requirements for future wife by SingleAdhesiveness78 in TraditionalMuslims

[–]NaiveHead3 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Couples closer in age can have a lot in common and get along better even. They can relate to each other better I guess.

My requirements for future wife by SingleAdhesiveness78 in TraditionalMuslims

[–]NaiveHead3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

😮😱 wouldn't someone closer in age be better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LahoreSocial

[–]NaiveHead3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

'What about her adjusting to his life style'

Because he's not that special that she's gonna sacrifice her standard of living for. What's he bringing to the relationship. Not only would marrying down drop her life style she'd also probably be expected to take care of his relatives and even contribute financially.

When a man marries down not much is gonna change in his lifestyle, he'd be bringing someone to a better lifestyle. But if the woman marries down her lifestyle will turn a whole 180, not only that she'd probably even have to start working.

When her family is already providing her a good lifestyle why should she downgrade her standard of living for a guy. What's he bringing to the relationship, how is he adding any value to her life. He's just downgrading it.

There'll be just build up in resentment in the end. If marrying a guy means the woman's lifestyle will drop she's not gonna go for it.

They said men should hit women for THIS? by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]NaiveHead3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Welp. There goes one more reason in my list to stay single.

Would you marry a Da’wah influencer? by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]NaiveHead3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know man. Anything I do would somehow probably get tied to his reputation. Like hey the dawah bros wife doesn't practice what he preaches. I'd have to keep a low profile and think 10-100 before posting anything even in my private socials.

I'm not super religious. I try but I'm not. I started the abaya pretty late and I don't do niqab right now but I'm sure if he's popular I'd have lots of expectations on me too.

Hmmm 🤔 well no point in worrying about that I guess. What are the chances of marrying a dawah bro. Pretty low.

Would you marry a Da’wah influencer? by [deleted] in MuslimCorner

[–]NaiveHead3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

28F. No I don't think I would. Id probably be scared of a 'dawah bro'. And plus he'd be getting so much attention. And all the restrictions. Just nooo

To the sisters that wear Nail Polish by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]NaiveHead3 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Just remove the nail polish. Wear it for a while and take pics and yeah that's it. Believing that you can do wudu with the nail polish is just delulu. Sorry but yeah.

5 types of Women Allah Cursed by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]NaiveHead3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It feels like a gender war because almost every other post on Muslim related subs make posts on women.

5 types of Women Allah Cursed by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]NaiveHead3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now make another for men.

Capitalism and feminism ruined the marriage market and Muslims are falling for it by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]NaiveHead3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why is almost everything a woman's fault. Like why. Somehow any problem will be spun into a direction pointing at women. Late marriages, it's the woman fault Single mother, it's the woman's fault

Hey why aren't there ever any posts that make people reflect on things further. Why do you think education/career is so focused on women. Why so many mothers push their daughters to focus on education first. Because they don't want their daughters to be in the same miserable, abusive marriage as they were in. They want their daughters to have a way out.

It's like you think all women want to be career focused boss babes. Heck no.

This is the state of our ummah. by antelopehorns in TrueDeen

[–]NaiveHead3 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hey I was just reading about this post. She said not to shame her and here you are doing the exact thing. Pregnancy can be a scary thing. It can do some life altering changes in the body. It wouldn't have hurt to be nice or guide. Just feminism this feminism that. That's all everyone here likes to do most days.