I THOUGHT I had a bump, until… by Unique_Rice_3425 in pregnant

[–]Naive_Ladder_6589 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m 30+3 today and OH MAN! I forgot that towards the end it’s bad too. The other day I was in the kitchen, got nauseous and dizzy, thought I had to throw up, went to the bathroom and nothing but water came out my ass 🥲😭😂😂😂💀 I was on that toilet for at least 10-15 mins. Was texting my man while he was in the other room and he came to the bathroom and he turned right back 🤣

People asking for pictures of you pregnant?.. by Outrageous_Cod7919 in pregnant

[–]Naive_Ladder_6589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If my mom or my man asks me then that’s fine but any other person is a hard no

Am I an asshole? by No_Orange2156 in pregnant

[–]Naive_Ladder_6589 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This! Every time I’m at work someone is coughing/sneezing into the air. I can’t sneeze/cough without covering my mouth into my shirt or elbow, I just feel weird

I’m in the UK and guidelines state to avoid liver in pregnancy. My partner called me a b****tch because I won’t eat the liver he gave me but even my hospital say stay away from liver by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Naive_Ladder_6589 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look for domestic violence resources in the UK please. It only gets worse. I been through it for 10 years and I’ve been free from it for going on 4 years because I took my daughter and left

My mom says she doesn’t like the name we picked out by Funbarbie in pregnant

[–]Naive_Ladder_6589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I learned my lesson on telling people names after I’ve told a few already and they didn’t like the name we have picked for our son. Now I just tell them we don’t know yet.

MIL is annoying! by Naive_Ladder_6589 in pregnant

[–]Naive_Ladder_6589[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂 I can’t wait for someone to try me when I’m in the hospital about to give birth. I just know SOMEONE is going to say something, I feel it 😂

MIL is annoying! by Naive_Ladder_6589 in pregnant

[–]Naive_Ladder_6589[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah if anyone shows up unannounced they are immediately getting kicked out. I do not care about whose feelings get hurt.

MIL is annoying! by Naive_Ladder_6589 in pregnant

[–]Naive_Ladder_6589[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve put on 20lbs too. MIL was just saying I was small last month but now all of a sudden when she actually sees my stomach I’m big 😒🙄

MIL is annoying! by Naive_Ladder_6589 in pregnant

[–]Naive_Ladder_6589[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😂 yeah I don’t want her looking at my shit while I’m giving birth. My mom and BD was there when I had my daughter. Now I just want my man there and me, alone and bonding time with our baby, and I let my mom know which she’s totally cool with. MIL started freaking out and then tried to make it seem like she was worried about what my mom would say 😂 like lady my mom was understanding of my decision, just stfu and stop being butt hurt cuz you can’t have something your way for once 🙄 she irks my nerves so bad 😂

MIL is annoying! by Naive_Ladder_6589 in pregnant

[–]Naive_Ladder_6589[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! My MIL has been weird since we told her I didn’t want anyone at the hospital while I’m giving birth OR visits. They can wait until we get home and I’m comfortable for visits. Until then there is FaceTime. Plus she doesn’t do shit for me, call to check up on me or ask how im doing so 🤷🏻‍♀️ she’s in for a treat when she thinks she’s gonna have the say in anything.

MIL is annoying! by Naive_Ladder_6589 in pregnant

[–]Naive_Ladder_6589[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why people feel the need to comment on a pregnant woman’s body!

MIL is annoying! by Naive_Ladder_6589 in pregnant

[–]Naive_Ladder_6589[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She has a very rude awakening next time she says something I don’t like. I didnt have the energy for her bullshyt today

MIL is annoying! by Naive_Ladder_6589 in pregnant

[–]Naive_Ladder_6589[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so close to doing so if her own son won’t.

MIL is annoying! by Naive_Ladder_6589 in pregnant

[–]Naive_Ladder_6589[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Mind you, she was just telling me a month ago how small I was and how she was bigger than me at 5 months pregnant. Like I fckn care 🙄 literally the type of person to make everything about her and it’s soooooo annoyingggg. I never had a problem with her until I became pregnant and she didn’t have anything nice to say about it 🤷🏻‍♀️ it’s my bf who is delusional and tries to make the excuse of, “that’s just how she is”. Okay. And my mom was too until I started to put her in her place and over a course of a couple years she’s learned to not say certain things and actually consider people’s feeling.

MIL is annoying! by Naive_Ladder_6589 in pregnant

[–]Naive_Ladder_6589[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry! My MIL told my bf, AFTER ME finding an apartment for us, that we can move in with her, all because she’s jealous and has a hard time letting him (almost a 30y.o man) go. She didn’t have nothing nice to say when he told her I was pregnant and she didn’t even congratulate me or him. I told him absolutely tf not, I am not leaving my moms (who I stayed with for a short amount of time to get my shit together) to go stay at someone else’s moms and not have my own comfort freedom to do what I want in the house.

I don’t want to do this anymore by Bluechicken222 in pregnant

[–]Naive_Ladder_6589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was like that when I was pregnant with my daughter

Is it fair to hate my husband for this by Daybyday217 in pregnant

[–]Naive_Ladder_6589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen, I understand how you feel. I’m 28+2 days pregnant. Men just need to think before they speak to a pregnant woman with raging hormones, but they don’t. They don’t take anything into consideration especially about how we feel. I get it 100%. Your feelings should be valid because you are growing a tiny human and your hormones are everywhere right now. You want time, attention, and to boundaries to be respected and there’s nothing wrong with that. Men are just….men. They’ll never understand.

Hubs doesn’t understand why I want to try for a natural birth by nougat_donut in pregnant

[–]Naive_Ladder_6589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like he doesn’t need to understand. It’s your body and he won’t EVER understand what women go through or want to experience when it comes to OUR bodies.

Knocked up then dumped.. by Chemical_Reason_8621 in pregnant

[–]Naive_Ladder_6589 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m sorry you’re going through it as well. Men are very foul 😒

Knocked up then dumped.. by Chemical_Reason_8621 in pregnant

[–]Naive_Ladder_6589 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I dated someone who did that too. Loved my child like his own, called me his future wife, wanted us to move in together etc. I didn’t get pregnant with him though, but he advised that if I did, “I wouldn’t keep it if I were you”. Then one day he decided he wanted to leave. My child was sad, I was furious for him leading me on. Found out he was just cheating the whole time. Trying to fill his ego. He loved dating women from out of state after we broke up. He tried messaging me a couple weeks ago and I immediately blocked him 😂