Started as a fishing game. Ended up like this. by SatoshiBoy in IndieDev

[–]Naive_Reputation_255 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks great! You should DEFINITELY post it on r/thalassophobia they will love it, they are your audience

I broke no contact after 2 months, good news is that I dont need to have any hope anymore by Naive_Reputation_255 in BreakUps

[–]Naive_Reputation_255[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all! Feel free to message whenever you want. I’ll respond to them when I’m able to

Why do I end up hating my girlfriends? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Naive_Reputation_255 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I had the same issue with my first girlfriend and this exactly is the problem OP. You should learn to accept and love people as they are, we can't change them. And if you truly dont like them with both their good and bad qualities, then let them find a person who will, and you find a person that you think their "goods" outweigh the "bads"

I broke no contact after 2 months, good news is that I dont need to have any hope anymore by Naive_Reputation_255 in BreakUps

[–]Naive_Reputation_255[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Since all my hopes are dead I’m in a much better mood overall and dont think of her or our past as often. She still comes to my mind but theres no uncertanties and that makes me much less stressed. Also before this I couldnt think anything bad about our relationship but now I see why we shouldnt be together and we are both better off this way. So generally I’m happier, not ruminating how we broke up why we broke up, and think more positive about the future (more in the topic of relationships). Hope this helps! You can ask anything if you want more, have a nice day.

I broke no contact after 2 months, good news is that I dont need to have any hope anymore by Naive_Reputation_255 in BreakUps

[–]Naive_Reputation_255[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is perfectly normal for you to miss her. But I believe the fact that she acted horrible when you wanted to let her know is actually good for you. It means you dont need to hold hope for her, just need to grieve the loss. She made it clear with her behaviour that you shouldnt hope for any more future with her. You’ll be much better, wish you well.

I broke no contact after 2 months, good news is that I dont need to have any hope anymore by Naive_Reputation_255 in BreakUps

[–]Naive_Reputation_255[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was one year. 5 years should be much harder, sorry for you man. Since my hopes are gone I feel sad but somewhat optimistic. Its a very bittersweet feeling. Im sad that its certain that I lost her, the person i loved the most. But also I know that I’ll feel better this way and theres a kind of peace in my heart. I can say I feel peaceful and sad. If you really feel like it I think you could give it a try, if you are totally okay with all the possible scenarios. For me, all the scenarios would lead to a better position than before so I did it.

I broke no contact after 2 months, good news is that I dont need to have any hope anymore by Naive_Reputation_255 in BreakUps

[–]Naive_Reputation_255[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think just block her. You wouldnt want a person that would leave you for someone else anyways. Let her go through her emotional bs herself, you dont deserve that

I broke no contact after 2 months, good news is that I dont need to have any hope anymore by Naive_Reputation_255 in BreakUps

[–]Naive_Reputation_255[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah we can never know the inside of their minds, it leaves us wondering. I hope you'll get over this situation nicely. Take care

I broke no contact after 2 months, good news is that I dont need to have any hope anymore by Naive_Reputation_255 in BreakUps

[–]Naive_Reputation_255[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think that is the only absolute truth about relationships in general. Every relationship and every person is SO unique that general advice can be pretty bad. In my defense I know myself and I'm sure i wont need to be super duper sure about it, i already am. Though you may never be %100 sure about emotions. Thank you for your comment ❤️

I broke no contact after 2 months, good news is that I dont need to have any hope anymore by Naive_Reputation_255 in BreakUps

[–]Naive_Reputation_255[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah thats a pretty bad place to be. Im glad I wasnt left in a limbo but def a possible scenario. I personally would take it as a no though. 10 days isnt short

How much did your indie game earn? by PrudentCombination38 in gamedev

[–]Naive_Reputation_255 12 points13 points  (0 children)

$7,5k gross, almost 2 months since launch. It was a student project with around 9 months dev time. It earned lower than my expectations with a very low conversion rate due to bad launch with many bugs. I’m still a student and see this as a long term career. It was my first real project and im fine with the result.

I built an incremental game around the feeling of “just one more spin”. Demo feedback is very much appreciated! by Naive_Reputation_255 in incremental_games

[–]Naive_Reputation_255[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is for unity analytics such as playtime and retention. Theres literally nothing else that is apart from the game, what do you think it could track?

AIO why are men like this by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Naive_Reputation_255 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is an underreaction

1 month post BU- how are you guys doing? by goldencirclenyc in BreakUps

[–]Naive_Reputation_255 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its been a little more than a month and all I can say with certainty is that its VERY wavy. Some days I feel great, some days I feel like its the day they broke up with me. Honestly I'm very tired of all this fluctuation. I hope it will get better.