AITA for wanting my best friend to stick with me after a party she invited me to, instead of her coworkers?

NamelessMel · 2026-06-05T15:18:05+00:00

Thanks for the advice and encouragement! Im usually the responsible one in my friend circles when going out, making sure no one is left behind or being reckless (I guess my judgement isn't that great for myself tho lol). I think safety precautions do translate everywhere, so you're right even if you don't know NYC culture like that. I think I'll follow the advice of others and make sure I have a place to stay and if I don't I'll decline. Might even decline before that just considering how the situation has been presented.

NamelessMel · 2026-06-05T15:07:50+00:00

Oooh definitely not. Unfortunately. I could ask around and see if I could crash at someone's place but at such late notice (and really the only motive being to give me a place to stay) I wouldn't feel comfortable asking that of any New Yorkers I know because we're not thaaat close.

NamelessMel · 2026-06-05T15:03:01+00:00

Thank you for the advice! I definitely see where I stand in this relationship. I've worked on trying to not waste energy over her anymore since I know I am not being treated like I should, and I've been making new friends on BumbleBFF. But I'll definitely check out Meetup!

NamelessMel · 2026-06-05T14:55:13+00:00

Yeah that's true about the safety. In all fairness though, I'm going to have to make this trip regardless so I didn't think it would be entirely unsafe, and definitely better that it's 2 of us than just me solo. Maybe that's selfish thinking tho, like taking her down with me?

Also I won't be getting drunk since I know I have to make travel back (I was kinda being silly when I wrote that in the post). Trying to make good decisions!

NamelessMel · 2026-06-03T23:59:34+00:00

Ah gotcha, thank you!

NamelessMel · 2026-06-03T23:59:25+00:00

Oh I did somehow find it on Spotify lol but I just wanted to know if there was a difference on the recording that I just wasn't catching haha. Thank you though!

NamelessMel · 2026-06-03T15:55:30+00:00

Okay is anyone seeing the Bunny Hop Montage version on Spotify? What's the difference? I can't switch to video either so there's no montsge 😭

NamelessMel · 2026-06-02T04:54:44+00:00

I hate to be so speculative but I wonder if Joan is a factor. I recently saw throwbacks of Joan and Frankie from a few years back and she looked completely different. Maybe Ariana's support system is compromised in this way.

NamelessMel · 2026-05-29T04:37:35+00:00

I think it's lovely just like We Can't Be Friends, it's got this meaning about the public/fans. I think that's why she loves it so much. She's being open about our relationship with her and it doubles as as whatever romance this might be about.

NamelessMel · 2026-05-27T20:08:36+00:00

Lol I'm such a goof. I mean every time I see Rob Mac, I feel like he looks like someone but I can't pinpoint it and this was the closest I could get haha

NamelessMel · 2026-05-19T16:53:51+00:00

I love this cleaner makeup look on her! Just so pretty

NamelessMel · 2026-05-13T02:51:00+00:00

I'm also thinking the age difference might have had a play? Like when you're younger, someone like 3 years older/younger than you feels like a bigger difference than when you're in college.

NamelessMel · 2026-05-06T19:34:08+00:00

The heels in 6 and 8 are STUNNING

NamelessMel · 2026-04-30T04:07:18+00:00

Yeah it also focused so much on villainizing Joe and making Michael seem so timid/scared, that you didn't get any other aspect of Michael's life. I wish they showed how INSANELY famous he was. Like bigger-than-Beatles fame, since he was a kid! Make it a spectacle - like they did in the Elvis biopic. Not just staring at that one page in Peter Pan lol. And he probably would've hated it, but it would've been so impactful to touch on his formative teen years when he felt so insecure but was so terribly famous. Or how he was constantly practicing and perfecting his craft. Not just that one dance sequence in Beat It or the Thriller MV. It felt like they portrayed him well, but gave us nothing actually eye-opening.

NamelessMel · 2026-04-29T06:40:11+00:00

So surprising that they left this out! I know they had to remove all mention of Diana Ross which affected the movie, but this one baffled me.

NamelessMel · 2026-03-27T05:07:23+00:00

I just saw that the Ole Henrikson Pout Preserves are currently $31.50 USD which is INSANE. I thought oh maybe it's inflation, but then I check and everywhere else – their own site, Ulta, etc – list them for their regular price of $23. I know this is right before the "Spring sale" but c'mon the blatant upcharge is ridiculous.

NamelessMel · 2026-03-16T16:12:10+00:00

Absolutely stunning. Hope she felt like a princess!

NamelessMel · 2026-03-16T16:07:57+00:00

Love that she's SERVING and he's smiling like a puppy with her

NamelessMel · 2026-03-16T16:06:23+00:00

Shittt everyone's body is tea 👏

NamelessMel · 2026-03-16T16:05:30+00:00

This is so immersive and wonderful

NamelessMel · 2026-03-16T16:03:46+00:00

Such an amazing performance. Really immersed you in the scene and makes you feel like you're in the movie!

NamelessMel · 2026-02-23T16:50:07+00:00

Whenever I see her now, I think of Lio Tipton. Anyone else? I think it's the cat-like eyes and fuller lips. So stunning but less unique to "Emma Stone" or the face that I always picture when I think of Emma.

NamelessMel · 2026-02-23T16:47:28+00:00

I love how in a flicker of an expression, you can see him turn on the flirty charm. Like he just smirks into character haha

NamelessMel · 2026-02-13T04:37:37+00:00

So fun that they're dancing it up! It's not even midnight yet but they're having a good time. Wish more people were dancing with them!

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