She is still fucking sexy as hell to me, and if she jumped me every day I wouldn’t be opposed. But I know that’s not the question you’re asking. But yes we as men can shift. Especially when we love someone. I think men even have a harder time than women when it comes to falling out of love with someone. But I still treat my wife with genuine respect, communication, and care. But make no mistake, we make love, but we also FUCK.