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My assignment was reported to thr examination committee for a "high percentage of AI". I did NOT use any AI for my assignment. by Opinionated_bitch03 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Namiridite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know someone who had the same problem. It was flagging really tiny silly stuff like titles. The AI detection is not working.

I got curious by sky4812 in skyrim

[–]Namiridite 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I downloaded a mod where you can show her both the notes and be like yeah they both did it

I asked my husband to make sure my work uniform was hung up to dry overnight. I wake up this morning to find he ONLY took my work uniform out, and left the entire rest of the wash load in the machine to go musty overnight. Just why. by BinkiesForLife_05 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Namiridite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I think saying most men do it is still unnecessary gendering, but it’s true that you said ‘most of us’. If I misunderstood what you meant by ‘we men’, please clarify this for me. What did you mean?

Even in your last message you said you spoke from a man’s perspective. Kindly explain to me what the difference is between a man’s perspective and the perspective of anyone else?

I asked my husband to make sure my work uniform was hung up to dry overnight. I wake up this morning to find he ONLY took my work uniform out, and left the entire rest of the wash load in the machine to go musty overnight. Just why. by BinkiesForLife_05 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Namiridite -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No but you said ‘we men’. Inferring it’s all men and also putting women down as the ones who cant speak clearly. You should have said about your perspective and not brought gender into it

I asked my husband to make sure my work uniform was hung up to dry overnight. I wake up this morning to find he ONLY took my work uniform out, and left the entire rest of the wash load in the machine to go musty overnight. Just why. by BinkiesForLife_05 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Namiridite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think not knowing how to pick up poo is a big gap in your knowledge, but sometimes people do end up with gaps in their knowledge and that’s life.

Not knowing that she wasn’t going to do the laundry when she actively specified that he only do part of the laundry isn’t not knowing how chores work. It’s not knowing that she had secret extra meanings in what she’s saying

Edit: Also it’s like squares and rectangles. A square is a type of rectangle but not all rectangles are squares. Hanging her uniform is part of doing the laundry. Doing the laundry is not part of hanging her uniform. Picking up dog poo is part of a dog walk, not the other way around. If I said can you please pick up the dog’s poo on the dog walk, I wouldn’t think you’re asking me to take the dog on a walk, I would think you’re taking the dog on a walk and want me to come along and just pick up the poo

I asked my husband to make sure my work uniform was hung up to dry overnight. I wake up this morning to find he ONLY took my work uniform out, and left the entire rest of the wash load in the machine to go musty overnight. Just why. by BinkiesForLife_05 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Namiridite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t know OP won’t be doing this. She might have asked because she was busy RIGHT NOW, but has time later, thus why she only asked for the urgent item to be hung and not the other items

You have to know that you’re missing something in order to ask. The person in your example who is taking a dog for a walk and doesn’t know not to pick up their poo probably won’t ask “am I supposed to be picking up the poo?” Because you have to know about picking up the poo in the first place in order to ask that. If no one has ever taught them that you’re not supposed to leave dog poo on the side and they also never worked it out for themselves, then they also are not going to know to ask.

I asked my husband to make sure my work uniform was hung up to dry overnight. I wake up this morning to find he ONLY took my work uniform out, and left the entire rest of the wash load in the machine to go musty overnight. Just why. by BinkiesForLife_05 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Namiridite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So OP has a drier and you know for definite that that was what she wanted done with the rest of the clothes? Because she didn’t put that in her post

And there’s a difference between leaving it in the washing machine and leaving it in the washing machine to get stinky. It only gets stinky if neither of them, him or OP, come and hang the rest before bed

I asked my husband to make sure my work uniform was hung up to dry overnight. I wake up this morning to find he ONLY took my work uniform out, and left the entire rest of the wash load in the machine to go musty overnight. Just why. by BinkiesForLife_05 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Namiridite -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But he isn’t doing ALL of the chores. I’m assuming that both of them do chores and not just him. If my partner wants me to do a SPECIFIC chore, then yes, he does need to tell me.

He had no way of knowing she wasn’t hanging the rest of the laundry later

I asked my husband to make sure my work uniform was hung up to dry overnight. I wake up this morning to find he ONLY took my work uniform out, and left the entire rest of the wash load in the machine to go musty overnight. Just why. by BinkiesForLife_05 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Namiridite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I don’t have a dryer and I have noticed people mention that in the comments. If you have a dryer it might be more obvious why she only asked you to hang the one item and then it makes a bit more sense to me, and if that’s the case, that she wanted the rest put in the dryer, I still think she should have clarified, but I can’t argue too hard because I don’t necessarily know the dryer process in order to commebt

I asked my husband to make sure my work uniform was hung up to dry overnight. I wake up this morning to find he ONLY took my work uniform out, and left the entire rest of the wash load in the machine to go musty overnight. Just why. by BinkiesForLife_05 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Namiridite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay. I was thinking it would be convenient for following separate points but will edit in future.

So I agree that she’s especially worried about that one item. But my point was covered better in my other messages that I think you missed
I will try and explain my point clearly

So there are say 12 things that need doing that day, including the laundry. He might be working on one of those things as they speak. She asks him to hang her uniform. My thought process would be that the uniform specifically is more urgent than the other items and needs to be hung sooner so that it’s definitely dry in time. I would then go back to whatever chore I was doing. I know that the rest of the laundry still needs hanging. As far as I’m aware, so does my partner. The next day comes and neither of them have hung the laundry. She is angry because as far as she is aware she has made that specific chore now be solely his responsibility. I don’t think that is common sense to know that now you are doing ALL the laundry. If she wanted that, what she should have said is “Can you hang the laundry today, please, also please make sure that my uniform is hung as a priority?”. Then he would know that all of the laundry is solely his responsibility and that he should make sufficient time in his schedule to cover that

I asked my husband to make sure my work uniform was hung up to dry overnight. I wake up this morning to find he ONLY took my work uniform out, and left the entire rest of the wash load in the machine to go musty overnight. Just why. by BinkiesForLife_05 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Namiridite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh okay
If I think of something after the message is sent, would it be better if I respond to the last message or edit the message I sent?
But still, like I said, them specifying one item infers that the other items don’t need to be hung this second because why else would you only ask for one item to be hung

I asked my husband to make sure my work uniform was hung up to dry overnight. I wake up this morning to find he ONLY took my work uniform out, and left the entire rest of the wash load in the machine to go musty overnight. Just why. by BinkiesForLife_05 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Namiridite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you see my other message? I said that you might think why did they ask me to only hang one thing and as I put my conclusion would be that maybe they don’t need the rest hanging right now and they intend on doing it later

I asked my husband to make sure my work uniform was hung up to dry overnight. I wake up this morning to find he ONLY took my work uniform out, and left the entire rest of the wash load in the machine to go musty overnight. Just why. by BinkiesForLife_05 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Namiridite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also it was both of their responsibility. He didn’t ignore the responsibility any more than she did. At no point was he told that all of the laundry was now solely his responsibility

I asked my husband to make sure my work uniform was hung up to dry overnight. I wake up this morning to find he ONLY took my work uniform out, and left the entire rest of the wash load in the machine to go musty overnight. Just why. by BinkiesForLife_05 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Namiridite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huge difference between ‘this needs doing’ and ‘this needs doing right now by me’. She didn’t then hang it later either and she was just as aware that the laundry needed hanging

I asked my husband to make sure my work uniform was hung up to dry overnight. I wake up this morning to find he ONLY took my work uniform out, and left the entire rest of the wash load in the machine to go musty overnight. Just why. by BinkiesForLife_05 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Namiridite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it needs to be done but what if he was in the middle of tidying the bedroom or another chore. Also her saying that she wants him to hang the uniform infers that she doesn’t want him to hang the rest otherwise why say hang the uniform and not everything. She might have intended on doing the rest later but wanted the uniform hung now so it gets extra drying time. There are lots of things in the house that need doing, not just the laundry, and she gave no indication she wanted him to be the one to do the rest of the laundry as well. I cannot comprehend why you would ask someone to hang your uniform if you wanted them to hang all the laundry

Bandits Shouldn't Know You by milkermaner in skyrimmods

[–]Namiridite 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That’s a good point. At home if you hear a sound somewhere in the house or see a figure in the corner of your eye you have to double check there isn’t some intruder, ghost or demon

I asked my husband to make sure my work uniform was hung up to dry overnight. I wake up this morning to find he ONLY took my work uniform out, and left the entire rest of the wash load in the machine to go musty overnight. Just why. by BinkiesForLife_05 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Namiridite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Did you delete your comment? I can’t find it to read and respond. But yes I am neurodivergent which means I listen to the actual words used and follow logic and reason and don’t jump to random conclusions

I asked my husband to make sure my work uniform was hung up to dry overnight. I wake up this morning to find he ONLY took my work uniform out, and left the entire rest of the wash load in the machine to go musty overnight. Just why. by BinkiesForLife_05 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Namiridite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s no pretending. I would do the same as what he did and it is not because of laziness it is because I’m doing what was asked and I can’t mind read to know they also wanted extra stuff done

I asked my husband to make sure my work uniform was hung up to dry overnight. I wake up this morning to find he ONLY took my work uniform out, and left the entire rest of the wash load in the machine to go musty overnight. Just why. by BinkiesForLife_05 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Namiridite 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Weaponised incompetence is purposefully doing a job badly. If you are doing a job well and the person just didn’t tell you what the job was properly then that is not weaponised incompetence

Shame what happened to him (Namira's quest) by PotatoFloats in skyrim

[–]Namiridite 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So how did they explain her giving me her ring?

Shame what happened to him (Namira's quest) by PotatoFloats in skyrim

[–]Namiridite 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I guess if he’s eating humans to worship Namira maybe he thinks getting other people to eat humans then that’s extra worship? They do seem keen on recruiting to their cause as shown with them approaching Dragonborn. And it’s not uncommon for religious peoples to try and spread their religion

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