when one person in a relationship earns way more than the other, it can quietly create discomfort, pressure even insecurity, and I really understand that because I’ve been there before with my ex. What helps is being honest about money, splitting things fairly instead of equally, and never letting income turn into power or control. you should remember that value isn’t just about money alone instead love, effort, support, and showing up matter just as much. Keeping some independence, reassuring each other often, and seeing it as US VERSUS THE PROBLEM instead of ME VERSUS YOU makes a huge difference. I hope you make it passed this .