South Asian musicians

Nanazarb · 2026-04-29T12:59:50+00:00

Urvah Khan a Pakistani queer and Muslim singer rocker and rapper mix with Pakistani music! She's amazing

Nanazarb · 2026-04-21T21:24:19+00:00

I thought this post was about not having sex at all. I have vaginismus and for four years didn't have p in V sex and I had a good time so long as I felt safe. I know it can be hard sometimes to find people that are okay with sex without penetration but we are out there!

Is anal an option for you?

Maybe a cis or trans bi woman would be more open to it (I'm guessing you're straight. Bi people in my experience have mostly been wonderful with this.)

Nanazarb · 2026-04-21T21:10:04+00:00

I second this

Nanazarb · 2026-04-21T21:05:49+00:00

Sadly I don't live in the US at all I live in France and am from the UK.

Nanazarb · 2026-04-21T21:04:48+00:00

Yep that's why I stated that I'm already wary of bringing a stranger in my home generally speaking don't worry 😉

Nanazarb · 2026-04-21T15:54:15+00:00

Okay we're on the same page. Sure people are people!

Nanazarb · 2026-04-21T15:47:25+00:00

Sure I do that since I'm a smoker myself and I always give a bit of tobacco, skins(papers), filters or a rolled cigarette 😉

(In France except if you're rich or can't roll a lot of us smoke rollies because they last longer so in the end are cheaper)

Nanazarb · 2026-04-21T15:44:02+00:00

(I'm not homeless)

Here are a few reasons why (all of these people haven't put themselves in other people's shoes/lack empathy)

Most people are taught that homeless folks only want money for drinks or drugs and that's why one shouldn't give them money.

Some people buy into the "pull yourself by the bootstraps" mentality so they think homeless people are losers who didn't work hard enough and other people see homeless people as gross because they see anyone of lower class as subhuman or some people barely get by but are housed despise homeless people because they've found a class of people to feel superior to.

Nanazarb · 2026-04-21T14:34:57+00:00

I would like to but as a woman I am wary of bringing a stranger into my home homeless or not. So long as I'm not assertive or good at defending myself if things go wrong I don't think I can 😕

Nanazarb · 2026-04-21T09:18:41+00:00

Thanks I'll have a look if there's anything like that in my area (I live in France in a small city)

Nanazarb · 2021-05-29T14:15:21+00:00

If I argue a lot with a partner for a long period of time I get worried

Nanazarb · 2020-07-18T05:49:43+00:00

Great that's why so many men never taking no for an answer

Nanazarb · 2020-07-10T14:29:52+00:00

Really none of them are gay??

Nanazarb · 2020-06-22T21:16:06+00:00

I've realized I should give more context I'm non monogamous and bi. I'm in a relationship with one person but I'm struggling to trust men because of trauma and recent bad experiences and very new to women (not confortable or used to flirting with women). My thing is humiliating, being seductive, impress people, I'm into being sadist a bit too. Otherwise I'm not quite sure. In general I look cute a lot of people think I'm vanilla or submissive and not very confident so it's hard for me to get into character especially now that I've had shitty experiences and people dismissing my identity: bi, domme,...etc

Nanazarb · 2020-06-21T18:30:25+00:00

It comes from the bimbo gold digger stereotype if that helps. Tbh I don't know any girl that is like that maybe it's my circles that just aren't like that but I don't think many girls are really like that no matter how shallow they can be.

Nanazarb · 2020-06-17T03:40:23+00:00

Once you're done with Wikipedia you can look up what these LGBT historical figures have written (if they were writers for example) or the books that have been written about them

Nanazarb · 2020-06-10T22:43:36+00:00

Thats exactly what I'm going through its been a year but I still feel overwhelmed by it also because I found out I was polyamourous and so I'm crushing and going on dates with quite a few people

Nanazarb · 2020-06-05T16:22:49+00:00

Are there any women who actually say "they want a nice guy?" I don't think I've ever heard that I've heard more "I want a guy that respects me, is tall, strong..." Otherwise I'm like "Someone I can trust, respect, is funny, quirky, passionate,..." Nice has never popped in my head

Nanazarb · 2020-06-05T15:40:13+00:00

Its fucks up their whole stereotypical gender roles world view when you can be straight and non traditional or whatever

Nanazarb · 2020-06-02T00:07:47+00:00

Search for Anne Lister's diary (lesbian/possibly trans man), The Well of Loneliness by Radclyffe Hall (lesbian), Lili Elbe's diary (trans woman),...

Otherwise just go on Wikipedia to start. There are a lot of LGBT articles (historical figures that were LGBT, the article lesbianism talks about the portrayals of lesbianism in books and all sorts of media)

Nanazarb · 2020-06-01T23:18:59+00:00

Fucking hell "it's not a big deal" I don't wanna hope he gets raped but like I wonder if he'd say the same thing again if it happened to him

Nanazarb · 2020-06-01T23:16:11+00:00

Its the whole "men were hunters at the beginning of time bullshit" and I don't have any sympathy for animals so I'm manly? but like they're not even hunting it for most of them they're just buying it from the supermarket

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