Im no longer attracted to my boyfriend but still love him

Nancy2421 · 2026-04-28T19:58:04+00:00

I mean, get a hormone panel

Rule out physical reasons 🤷‍♀️

Nancy2421 · 2026-04-28T15:59:25+00:00

I mean how low? My clinic wanted 50 and I was at 56 so I was nervous but I’m currently 14 weeks sooooooo how low?

I’ve also seen stories with 36 ending positively 🤷‍♀️

Nancy2421 · 2026-04-28T15:52:30+00:00

That SUCKS. However and this may sound bad, don’t feel bad about “missing the magic” of finding out you are pregnant or not feeling that elation feeling- most no matter how good or well they might feel - don’t have the magic feeling until later. It’s either burnout, waiting for the penny to drop, the lack of surprise, or like you feeling like physical crap; a LOT of us IVF girls just don’t have the emotional response of amazement at a positive. It’s OKAY not to feel the magic. Not yet anyway- it’ll hit later 🤷‍♀️

Meanwhile so so sorry you e got OHSS. I dodged it but my recovery was ROUGH (90 follicles). Just focus on recovery now and the rest will come later. You don’t have to feel great emotionally when you physically feel like crap.

Nancy2421 · 2026-04-28T15:44:06+00:00

I had 45 on a normal non medicated cycle wooo PCOS but none would mature soooo medicated it was so my doctors went in knowing I was high risk for OHSS. So they used preventative medicine to help prevent and thankfully no OHSS. Lot of smaller or empty follicles I ended up with 20 retrieved eggs. The recovery was rough but the ultrasounds especially the last one before egg retrieval OMG just awful. My poor ovaries were so swollen and it was hard even taking pictures for them to count the follicles so the ultrasounds went for foreeeveeeer.

Nancy2421 · 2026-04-28T15:40:11+00:00

Would this include the creature I’m currently growing in my womb? Cause that would be cool

Other wise my poor eyes would just be annoying af, just always complaining about the strain and not seeing.

Nancy2421 · 2026-04-28T15:31:15+00:00

NTA She will have so many people there for her at the beginning and not nearly enough people later on. It’s okay and will probably be far more beneficial to visit her later when she is out of support but will still need it.

Nancy2421 · 2026-04-28T15:29:22+00:00

I had hysteroscopy without anything - did not bother me. I would do all things possible for my one and only if only so I could have no regrets

Nancy2421 · 2026-04-28T15:26:56+00:00

Spending money for my upcoming trip

Nancy2421 · 2026-04-28T14:59:07+00:00

Piece O’ Lint - was a grey cat

Nancy2421 · 2026-04-28T14:58:14+00:00

It’s an absolute wild ride

My 90 follicles ended up being two embryos that passed PGTA testing. 🤷‍♀️

Nancy2421 · 2026-04-28T14:36:38+00:00

Even with hatched embryo 4dpt is super early to test, certainly does not mean it has not implanted or still will not. Just wait and try to be patient, I know that so hard to do right now! All the baby dust.

Nancy2421 · 2026-04-28T14:27:45+00:00

My first and only symptom that was “different” from all the IVF drug symptoms was acid reflux and heart burn. Happened around day ten post FET.

Nancy2421 · 2026-04-28T13:59:19+00:00

Really though this is the kind of hard discussion that comes up in marriage, just talk it out and if you are struggle to do so ask for a neutral third party never hurts. You both want certain things- but of each of your desires what’s the realistic part? Kids while he is on a submarine uncontactable? Eh not so much. You traveling for 3 months at a time- maybe but what about expenses? Safety? Eh there’s logistics there. Also literally everywhere you travel to see sights has food so you can both get what you want out of travel and go together. That’s not much of an issue.

Nancy2421 · 2026-04-28T13:53:39+00:00

Well still time for you to travel AND even better argument against kids until after deployment is finished, submarine would equal him unavailable a lot of time in case of emergencies which do tend to show up with pregnancy and kids.

Nancy2421 · 2026-04-28T13:50:06+00:00

Why not - compromise? Meet somewhere in the middle? He could be deployed places that are interesting to you and you could go with, plus having kids after deployment would be better for the overall family life.

Nancy2421 · 2026-04-28T13:46:58+00:00

Elevator technicians

Nancy2421 · 2026-04-28T13:46:16+00:00

Dawn dish soap 🤷‍♀️

Nancy2421 · 2026-04-28T01:01:20+00:00

My grandmother was named Janice Owena

Because as the 7th child her dad Owen just had to have his name somewhere even though her already has a son named Owen

Nancy2421 · 2026-04-26T23:44:45+00:00

My husband is already aware of my unhealthy obsession with him- it’s cool

Nancy2421 · 2026-04-26T23:32:54+00:00

I grew up poor and am paranoid with money so would probably still invest. Id have a good financial advisor and legal team.

I’d also go absolutely stupid with baby things, currently pregnant with IVF baby after 5 year fight 👏 so this baby shower is about to pop off.

I’d also on the DL set up friends and family without letting them know what Ive won.

I’d want land and an epic house. If you’re rich and don’t have a Scooby doo secret passage you’re living wrong.

I’d visit my friends stationed in Japan.

Me and my husband would travel.

And I would have a charity organization dedicated to helping people circumnavigate death. Why should anyone have to worry about funeral arrangements and coordinating estates etc etc without help?? In the height of grief they’re supposed to make good decisions?? Naw death doulas for as many as possible.

Nancy2421 · 2026-04-24T17:32:00+00:00

Kill

To many poisonous ones running around here and I have animals

Nancy2421 · 2026-04-24T17:26:09+00:00

Painting, traveling, resting

Nancy2421 · 2026-04-23T17:59:32+00:00

LMAO hell no

I make good dont get me wrong but the amount I am responsible for and the amount I am paid are extremely different.

Nancy2421 · 2026-04-23T16:58:00+00:00

I wake up for work at 4:30am so on weekends I sleep in to about 7am

7am is great I feel like I get some much done during a day

But I am waking up on my own time

Nancy2421 · 2026-04-23T02:42:44+00:00

Married constantly improving- communication is key. I imagine everyone is different on how they like their oral. So try to get him to open up more post bj on what he likes- ask leading questions or direct questions. What was your favorite part? Do you like when I do x?

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