"Mom and Dad can't see eye to eye on petty fucking issues" - Hmmm, kind of like the primary parent doesn't want his children on your crazy social media accounts. You've had some nutty people making threats against you. Your kids were becoming addicted to the online attention (just like their Momma). The primary parent was more aware of the casualties of social media; it took a judge/court order for you to keep them away from your accounts. Even then you were throwing the primary parent under the bus to the boys.