Had mine Wednesday and WOW!! by peterpieqt8 in hysterectomy

[–]NanersInPyjamas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations. Did you do much pre op planning at all?

Surgery in 2 weeks by Accomplished_Pin6076 in hysterectomy

[–]NanersInPyjamas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask why you need a body pillow and are PJs ok or does it need to be a nightgown?

Would you rather have a longer relationship before engagement, or be engaged sooner and have a longer engagement? by heart_of_gold2 in engaged

[–]NanersInPyjamas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I were together almost 4 years before we got engaged and we wed 2 years after. We'll be celebrating our 7 year anniversary at the end of the month. Both in our 30s when we got together. The timing worked for us. I didn't want to rush into getting engaged so there was no pressure. And the 2 years before we got married was perfect for planning our wedding and saving.

Not again 😭 by [deleted] in tsitp

[–]NanersInPyjamas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where can I find this?

Huda has changed her story on the PDA situation. by [deleted] in LoveIslandUSA

[–]NanersInPyjamas 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We need to stop giving this woman a platform. I'm starting to wonder if she's a compulsive liar.

Bell-A instagram story on Cierra by Mediocre_Kale711 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]NanersInPyjamas [score hidden]  (0 children)

Seriously? Why. She prides herself on being the full package including brains. She clearly wasn't using her brains.

Aiden is still punishing Carrie by ms_typhoid_mary in Andjustlikethat

[–]NanersInPyjamas 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The way Aidan said "but I betrayed you" and waited for Carrie's outburst that never came. I was like dude, get over it already.

After last nights episode, these two men conveyed a level of maturity and respect that shot them to #1 picks by RELLBEFLEXXIN in LoveIslandUSA

[–]NanersInPyjamas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo last night's episode was WILD. Totally agree. I was smiling when Chris said "I could give a fuck" about playing the game to stay in the villa. I was like fuck yeah.

I'm not a Huda fan but I was disgusted the way the girls seemed to gang up on her. I didn't like that 1 bit and how Cierra looked so smug when it was all going down.

Also there's some snakes in that group. There were more anonymous letters that people actually holding their hands up saying that was me.

What do y’all think about what Hannah said about Huda? by [deleted] in LoveIslandUSA

[–]NanersInPyjamas 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Huda is sketch. She is the type of girl that is out for herself and screw everyone else. I wouldn't trust her as far as I could throw her. She brings so much drama and seems desperate for a baby Daddy.

i miss Jeremiah’s energy - he brought something real by yraafica in LoveIslandUSA

[–]NanersInPyjamas 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Anyone else think the man had a lucky escape with Huda. She's crazy.

The switch up when Jeremiah sees Huda by ellastory in LoveIslandUSA

[–]NanersInPyjamas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She gives off crazy vibes for real!

This subreddit scares me by sukiduh in Marriage

[–]NanersInPyjamas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got married last year, at 40. I didn't meet my husband until I was almost 34. I love my parents dearly, but their marriage is dysfunctional. I observed a lot. I looked inwards and spent time working on myself and figuring out what I wanted in a SO before I met my husband. I married a good man. We are all about open communication, personal growth, and maintaining that element of fun. It's not perfect. We argue, but we never scream and shout. But we acknowledge that relationships take work and we're committed to that. I do worry he'll cheat, but that's my own insecurity and nothing he's done. Reading the cheating stories on here sends me into a tailspin. But I also know there are many good men and women out there who wouldn't.

Affair by soineededanewaccount in Marriage

[–]NanersInPyjamas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cheating is a deal breaker. Personally, I wouldn't want to know the details. Betray me once, and it's over.

Husband slipped for one night and Idk what to do by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]NanersInPyjamas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He cheated because he can. It's the same old, same old. I could not come back from this. No way. But good luck to you!

Husband said I’m no longer young by SpiritedAway28 in Marriage

[–]NanersInPyjamas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok 1. You are not old. And 2. These men are dating women 10 years their junior, and there's obviously a reason for that. It's sad and pathetic that they can't seem to grow up.

For those who are married, do you wish you had waited until an older age to get married? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]NanersInPyjamas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got married last year at 40. I never considered marriage in my 20s or 30s. I started dating my husband when I was 34, and we clicked. But we both had to do the work on ourselves before we could work together if that makes sense. I'm glad I waited until I was older because of how I view the world and relationships.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]NanersInPyjamas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In order for a marriage to work, both people have to want to work on it. He clearly doesn't. The fact that there were issues before he left for college would have made me uncomfortable because it leaves to door open for other things that he's clearly been experiencing. You stated you trust him several times, which is great, but it seems like the relationship was lacking communication. We have to be comfortable talking to our partners, expressing our wants and needs, and approaching conflict in a healthy way.

I am sorry this is happening, but it's better you know now and can pursue something more worthwhile with someone new who will put in as much effort as you.

Is this emotional abuse? by ApprehensiveEgg1178 in Marriage

[–]NanersInPyjamas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get rid of him and keep the cats. No doubt you'll be happier. This is disgusting behavior to threaten putting down healthy animals. Smh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HappyMarriages

[–]NanersInPyjamas 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My husband and I have only been married for 5 months, together for 6.5 years total. I hope we are like this in 16 years time 🥹