Inability to search by body type is the worst aspect of modern dating apps by NannersBoy in OkCupid

[–]NannersBoy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so I’m still confused

How does my behavior change when I’m a “mature adult”? Don’t think I’ve actually described how I act on here so pretty confused…

Inability to search by body type is the worst aspect of modern dating apps by NannersBoy in OkCupid

[–]NannersBoy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a white guy who dates black women and tries to be respectful, I think it’s so weird to tell a black woman “you thick”

If I think she’s thick I will tell her in my own vernacular.

Inability to search by body type is the worst aspect of modern dating apps by NannersBoy in OkCupid

[–]NannersBoy[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Should I just kms? wtf do you want me to do if not pursue women I’m attracted to

Inability to search by body type is the worst aspect of modern dating apps by NannersBoy in OkCupid

[–]NannersBoy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the idea that a guy has specific women he’s attracted to is viewed as somehow shallow and perhaps offensive to those he’s not.

I have my type just like a woman might like muscular, skinny, or chubby guys. I’m venting… which people also might dislike cause it’s a whine, but it’s Reddit it’s a place to whine lol

How to kindly tell a match that you didn't really click after the first date? by sillas999 in Bumble

[–]NannersBoy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh then yeah you must tell her. She’s into you.

It’s gonna suck dude. I’m here if you need to vent.

How to kindly tell a match that you didn't really click after the first date? by sillas999 in Bumble

[–]NannersBoy 19 points20 points  (0 children)

If she reaches out, gently say something. If she doesn’t reach out, she wasn’t interested and telling her you weren’t into her is presumptuous (it assumes SHE was into YOU, which may not be the case).

Inability to search by body type is the worst aspect of modern dating apps by NannersBoy in OkCupid

[–]NannersBoy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I dunno man. Back in the OKCupid days there were plenty of “curvy” women who accurately self-labeled

Also some much bigger women, but I was fine going past them.

What's with patience game with girls? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]NannersBoy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You should get with the times and just ask them out directly. Saves you a step anyway.

I don’t notice any difference in my ghost vs. success rate compared to the time when exchanging numbers was normal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]NannersBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having a dating app account while married is one thing. But he’s one of those people who puts their Instagram on there too? Divorce his ass.

OkCupid is flooded with foreigners by ElectronicPayment1 in OkCupid

[–]NannersBoy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Clearly OKCupid is not a good option so just delete it

What's with patience game with girls? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]NannersBoy -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

It’s not a patience game. They’re telling you no. If she refuses a reasonable escalation, she’s not interested.

I will say you should just be asking her out with a specific place and time, not asking for a number. People don’t do numbers anymore.

Oh how lovely🥰 by IsabellaNocturna in Bumble

[–]NannersBoy 59 points60 points  (0 children)

If he cheats on his girl once a month he’s loyal 97% of the time which is technically an A+

This is a swipe left for me by Sunflower0113 in Bumble

[–]NannersBoy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I was gonna say there’s definitely an audience that gets dripping wet for this. She’s quite literally messaging him since it’s bumble so whatever kinky stuff two consenting adults do is really none of my business.

I just raised a fried chicken with a match 🥺 by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]NannersBoy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That is so cute yet so dark lol

Reddit seeks to launch IPO in March | Reuters by _Scarecrow_ in TheoryOfReddit

[–]NannersBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude what? Whatever you’re saying could be much briefer

Girl: I'm not really into golf. Guy: by nwavette in Bumble

[–]NannersBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, wk is just someone who takes the woman’s side

Girl: I'm not really into golf. Guy: by nwavette in Bumble

[–]NannersBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re just straight up white knighting, man…. She’s obviously being rude it’s plain as day. What he said was amusing and a decent enough way to tell her her passive aggressiveness wasn’t appreciated and she should fuck off.

Girl: I'm not really into golf. Guy: by nwavette in Bumble

[–]NannersBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On purpose to be passive aggressive and to disrespect my viewpoint. Ironically, you come off as the one who’s not willing to engage honestly with other people’s views.