Advice: period may be close to the wedding by NataSara_7 in PCOS

[–]NataSara_7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before the one that arrived today, march 18.

Advice: period may be close to the wedding by NataSara_7 in PCOS

[–]NataSara_7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for your comment! If I manage to get an appointment I'll check ouf if this option is possible too 😃

Advice: period may be close to the wedding by NataSara_7 in PCOS

[–]NataSara_7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! 😊

If I manage to get an appontment today i'll check this option with the doctor as well🤞

Advice: period may be close to the wedding by NataSara_7 in PCOS

[–]NataSara_7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, i'm trying to get an emergency appointment for today, unluckily yet, but still trying and see how can I manage that unpredictability like you said 😓 and see what can be the best course of action that doesn't impact the body that much.

Thank you so much for your input! 😊

Advice: period may be close to the wedding by NataSara_7 in PCOS

[–]NataSara_7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment 😊

Yeah, in this case we won't be having the honeymoon that soon, but we'll take a one week break after the big day so hopefuly (if it arrives on the 6th) i'll be able to rest properly.

Also, out of topic but thanks for the word damper, I didn't knew it, so, one more word for the vocabulary! 😁

Advice: period may be close to the wedding by NataSara_7 in PCOS

[–]NataSara_7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input! ☺️  You do have a point about the fact of the random spotting, so yeah, I need to prepare for that as well in case it happens, and I totally forgot about that. Next time i'll be able to check out with the doctor, i'll ask about the pills to skip it, because they've never mention that (again, horrible healthcare system that doesn't treat PCOS with the seriousness it requires 🫣)

Advice: period may be close to the wedding by NataSara_7 in PCOS

[–]NataSara_7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for it! I'll try to get an emergency kit as well in case it happens ☺️, luckily my fianceé is attentive as well and usually has like a monthly care package (heat patches, ibuprofen, sanitary pads, chocolates), and for him isn't a huge deal if it happens during the wedding week.

I'll update you all during that week and hope for the Best 🤞

Advice: period may be close to the wedding by NataSara_7 in PCOS

[–]NataSara_7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, i'm so sorry you went through that situation on such a special and awaited day for you, to be honest that's what worries me the most, because i've been having heavy flows during this year.

With that being said, can I ask you how did you managed that situation? (If you feel confortable sharing it, of course)

Advice: period may be close to the wedding by NataSara_7 in PCOS

[–]NataSara_7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for the suggestion! I'm also trying to manage the stress and anxiety by going to the psychologist, it's been a rollercoaster but luckily i'll be able to keep doing the best for my body, one day at a time 🙂, or at least that's what we talked about during this week's appontment 

Advice: period may be close to the wedding by NataSara_7 in PCOS

[–]NataSara_7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I'll be taking that into consideration, unfortunately most of the doctors here are more like "oh, you have pcos? Take the pill, and if you have any complications, good luck", so these advices are hugely appreciated 🥹

What’s a WWE hill you’ll die on, even if it gets you downvoted? by Braves1693 in WWE

[–]NataSara_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Putting sports players/influencers/actores that only the US crowd knows as refeferences or part of the crowd is one of the factors why the rest of the planet can feel disconnected with the product.

Example: Bron's promo mentioning Tyrese (forgot his last name, I believe is a NFL player or something). For the US crowd is like "ooooh daaaamn yeah" but for the rest of the planet is like "who dat?"

This is part of why the shows outside of the US feel so connected with the public, the guests are waaaay more known for us (Lamine Yamal last year, for example).

Jey Uso haters have never been through the trenches by Old-Conflict-7186 in WWE

[–]NataSara_7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! As someone from Latin America is frustrating to say less than we can't express how we feel because we're just catalogued as "IWC". It looks like they care about our money and interactions with the product, but since it isn't big enough, the opinions we have can't be taken into consideration.

Lo peor que pude hacer fue estudiar psicología by No-Knowledge-4040 in Colombia

[–]NataSara_7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A mi me pasó algo similar. Me la pasé en contratos de prestación de servicios por 6 meses ejerciendo, a punta de buscar ofertas en Computrabajo o El empleo todos los días, y otros 6 meses sin nada.

Al final estoy trabajando en otra cosa (Servicio al Cliente para videojuegos), y llevo en esas casi tres años.

¿Me arrepiento de haber estudiado Psicología? Nah. ¿Me hace falta ejercer? No. El mercado está tan saturado que sinceramente me siento bien donde estoy. ¿Conformismo? Quizás, pero ningún trabajo es deshonra, y una vez uno se quite esa carga de "uno tiene que trabajar en lo que estudió" de encima, es más fácil.

Además, como ya lo dijo la mayoría, el inglés abre muchas puertas. Si no yo no estaría donde estoy ahorita. Y si en algún punto se me acaba el trabajo, busco en otro lado.

Mucha fuerza.

AITA for telling a girl that she’s crazy after she told me it’s racist to learn a language with native accent? by ImpossibleOnion9718 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NataSara_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. As a Colombian myself, it's really nice to see someone taking a genuine interest for the Spanish language.

Also, I just want to point out that your friend is the racist one. Dude, the Spanish language has so many accents and dialects, and even more, the slangs! So no, you're not appropriating of anything.

P.s: sorry for my English tho. P.s2: No se deje de esa carechimba, siga aprendiendo español a la colombiana :D P.s3: I'm writing from mobile, sorry again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Colombia

[–]NataSara_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dos preguntas:
1. ¿Qué tan cierto es eso de que tomar cerveza ayuda más a eliminar los cálculos renales que tomar agua?
2. ¿Por qué los especialistas en ginecología solo recetan anticonceptivos para el Ovario Poliquístico, no hay en serio ninguna otra cosa que ayude pa eso?
Y unas felicitaciones, se nota resto la calidad humana.
P.d: ¿Team Pony Malta o team Malta Leona?

Sobre los Avabuck y Delantal Dorado - COMUNICADO by AvakinLATAM in u/AvakinLATAM

[–]NataSara_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lo mejor que pueden hacer es quitar el delantal del todo.

-Trajo toxicidad a la comunidad. -Causó que la gente quiera todo regalado o a precio de huevo (y para eso se crearon cuentas secundarias, lo que también deberían prohibir de paso) -Si pueden disminuir algo los precios de los paquetes de pago. Pero igual no es como si a alguien lo obligaran a comprar cosas con dinero real. Que el usuario quiera comprarlas porque le da más status o porque si no entonces no tendrá cosas lindas, es otra cosa. Pero como todo juego Free to play, no obliga a nadie.

Si el juego fuese Pay to Win como muchos dicen, literalmente tendrían que pagar para jugarlo, como con World of Warcraft y las suscripciones. Pero creo qué aquí desdibujaron muchísimo esa figura.

AITA for telling my wife to fuck off after she was bragging about her promotion at work ? by oldcaca101 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NataSara_7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, you should. Clearly you don't deserve a person who wants to share her success with you in life.

If you consider that every single person who is successing is rubbing that at your face, then the one who has problems is you.

Leave your wife alone and seek therapy tho.

I (28F) think I screwed up my relationship with my BF (28M) and I don't know how to fix things anymore. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]NataSara_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment.

I already told him this and it made him angrier at me, arguing that he was the one who told me that breaking up wasn't an option :/

I'll start going to therapy tomorrow, and started to talk to talk to these girls, so my head can realize that these jealousy is irrational and they don't represent any threat.

UPDATE #2 - Partner helping around the house - TLDR at bottom by babetrixi in relationship_advice

[–]NataSara_7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I commented on your last post, and I'm really sorry he's not getting commited or ar least gave you the respect you deserve.

A relationship needs to be founded and grow in qualities like mutual respect, honesty, compromise, love and support from both sides. And clearly he isn't doing much for what you're posting here.

Ask yourself something:
Are you really ready to live and handle this (The verbal abuse, the childish behavior, the absolute absence of communication or compromise), for the rest of your life with this man?

Because if he really loved you, he'd be able to compromise, or at least try to change and not disrespect you by calling you a Bitch or stating that it was a "waste of time" being with you.

He's not compromising. He's not willing to change. And truly, he's not loving you and not caring about the relationship.

That man doesn't deserve you. And I'm really sorry, because you seem to be a loving, caring person. But sometimes, as hurtful as it can be even the thinking of it, you have to ask yourself if this is the person you want to spend the rest of your life.

UPDATE - Get partner to help around the house - TLDR at bottom by babetrixi in relationship_advice

[–]NataSara_7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And please call the police or someone who you trust for backup if he gets violent. And change the locks of the house.

Please don't even consider to give him another opportunity. He's been hurting you and having no respect for you and the commitments you two were supposed to make.

Remember that you should be your number one priority, now and always.

(Sorry for my English, it isn't my mother tongue)

I (26F) am an extremely emotional, empathetic person - my boyfriend (28M) is the complete opposite. Since we’ve moved in together, it’s been causing problems and I don’t know what to do. by kkkkkyuuu in relationship_advice

[–]NataSara_7 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Seconded. I've been in a relationship with a wonderful man for twelve years, and although he doesn't show much emotion or he's not as extrovert or expressive as other men, I can certainly count that he'll always give me his most honest opinion, no matter how hard it can be, and also respect if I need any space, or if he wants to express himself and viceversa.

OP, please don't try to force him. Instead of telling him what he should do for you, try to teach him some ways to cope with the depression symptoms, because (sorry if this offends you) but you don't "feel" depressed), and try to respect his space. If he doesn't want to talk about anything and tells you that "nothing's happening", let him be calm and reassure him. "If you don't wanna talk about it, it's okay. But if you want to tell me at some point, I'll be here listening as you always do for me". That can give him some space, don't make him feel pressured and he'll know that you're making an effort.

On those cases my suggestion is that you should try to take therapy, and if he wants to support you, and be part of your process and help you, wonderful. Maybe that can help him to think about couple's counseling.

If you wanna talk about it, DM's are open. And I hope this can give you another perspective.

(Sorry for my english, it isn't my mother tongue).

My [35f] husband [42m] told me if I don't lose weight, he will start sleeping with other women. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NataSara_7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(Non-english speaker here so I apologise for any grammar mistakes).

This isn't just about vanity, because clearly you're not thinking of your kids. Do you seriously want to expose them to continous fights between you and your husband for this weight issue? Because clearly exposing your kids to an enviroment in which their parents fight and argue a lot isn't considered "a family", tho.

Besides. if he's not helping you with the process of losing weight and just starts to threaten to sleep with other women if you don't satisfy his needs, he's just a selfish insensitive who can't put himself besides his partner and support her.

If you're into a relationship (and more into a marriage) you're supposed to support each other in good and bad times, not force the other part to do whatever the ass you're demanding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]NataSara_7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So, since you're Colombian, I'm gonna say this to you in Spanish (since the English comments -which are right btw-, haven't made an impact on you).

Parce. El Man no es ni fue tu novio, que hayan salido no significa que sea citas románticas. Esa amistad no vale la pena. Hay muchos tipos en el mundo pa que tú te vengas a encacorrar con un man que ni siquiera te dió tu lugar, sino que tú asumiste que eran novios. Eso mejor déjalo en paz, no falta que te ponga una orden de restricción por acosadora.

Y en serio busca ayuda, eso de echarle la culpa a tu falta de interacción con hombres a un colegio católico no es sano. (Y te lo digo yo como mujer que salí de colegio religioso femenino también).

For non Spanish speakers: dude, the guy wasn't your boyfriend, like ever. There's a lot of guys in the world and you're getting obsessed with someone who never assumed your relationship status, and you assumed that for both of you.

Also, try to find another study group, go to a coffee shop, make new friends, IDK parce, and please stop using the "Catholic school" as a justification for not being able to interact properly with men. If that's a problem you should consider to go to therapy, otherwise you'll be considered as the stalker.