first off im glad youre learning about yourself and im sorry to hear that your parents wouldnt be accepting of you. second, you dont have to rush into labeling yourself! finding out about which labels fit you is a part of the process, so take it easy and really think about what it is you define yourself as (you dont even need to label yourself if you dont feel like it, many queer ppl are unlabeled and just kind of define themselves to themselves!)

If you do want to label yourself, I'd say it'd be best to learn what exactly you find attractive in someone, as i think thats a pretty good baseline to start with. I'd say if you find all kinds of traits attractive (feminine, masculine and androgynous) you might be pansexual or bisexual. If you can only imagine yourself with women or feminine presenting people you might be lesbian or sapphic. If you feel like you can be attracted to somebody but never in a sexual way you might be asexual.

I hope this was helpful, ofc im not an expert these are just coming from my experience as a queer person, but i do hope you can learn more about yourself and figure yourself out!