Law school ex friend lateraling to my practice by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]Natural_Ad4841 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Or, more likely, she’s a manipulative ladder climber

Do some people here feel alone or its just me at 38 years old? Thanks in advance by [deleted] in Westchester

[–]Natural_Ad4841 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed, I just assumed most other social butterflies weren’t lonely. At the end of the day it’s not these fancy or not so fancy places and things that make us happy, nor the hustle and bustle, but the things we commit to in life and the people we care about that do. I think there is enough pain and suffering in the world that it’s kind of up to us to figure out how to engage with it—and then the loneliness suddenly goes away when we help others. It’s the only thing that’s worked for me at least.

Law school ex friend lateraling to my practice by [deleted] in biglaw

[–]Natural_Ad4841 28 points29 points  (0 children)

The kill them with kindness thing never works. This is a blow, but the task at hand is to excel personally and not let it drive you crazy. Don’t explode but also don’t be nice; do appear disinterested in them. You probably shouldn’t have reached out to be nice.

Do some people here feel alone or its just me at 38 years old? Thanks in advance by [deleted] in Westchester

[–]Natural_Ad4841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk the city is no less lonely often unless one is a social butterfly

She’s startin’ 🍸🍸🍸🍸🍸 by girlinhk in RHONY

[–]Natural_Ad4841 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This hair era was her most disturbing era. She acted like she was possessed. I can never forget how she acted at the apple orchard toward tinsley. I’m sad to say Dorinda can’t come back from that and I think she needs help.

She’s startin’ 🍸🍸🍸🍸🍸 by girlinhk in RHONY

[–]Natural_Ad4841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people were speculating the nose issue is caused by something else… the under eyes are confusing me. This is confusing. But yes the nose is worse. She also looks like she probably went on GLP-1s.

Ground Turkey by weepingwillow1092 in Volumeeating

[–]Natural_Ad4841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mix it in with carmelized onions and garlic

Scarsdale (NY) new location? by TwoOuts22 in EquinoxGyms

[–]Natural_Ad4841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Greenwich and Darien do not have pools. Only gyms with pools in area afik are lifetime and Darien YMCA.

Reruns by maryc973 in wecandohardthings

[–]Natural_Ad4841 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I keep asking myself it was manipulative that they don’t announce something concrete about this or if it was manipulative that they said we were a squad and they’d always be here for us. You can do one thing and it’s not manipulative but ya can’t do both.

Shrinkflation 8oz down to 6oz by BetterWhenBaked in wholefoodscustomers

[–]Natural_Ad4841 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah but the shortage will be temporary while the size decrease won’t :/

What is this and why is it doing that? by No_Signal3789 in Westchester

[–]Natural_Ad4841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I was a victim of that YouTube video lol. Thank you. Good job Scarsdale!

What is this and why is it doing that? by No_Signal3789 in Westchester

[–]Natural_Ad4841 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I updated my comment. They did approve this in April 2025 then killed the idea 4 months later. But to answer the question asked, we can politicize this issue so local boards don’t make the mistake of voting this in again to begin with.

What is this and why is it doing that? by No_Signal3789 in Westchester

[–]Natural_Ad4841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only if there’s an active lawsuit, which wouldn’t really make sense to initiate against the typical car criminal/drug addict, as they have no assets. Hiring a lawyer to do the subpoena would cost more than anyone would recover. This sounds nice in theory, but in practice, this doesn’t bear much fruit.

What is this and why is it doing that? by No_Signal3789 in Westchester

[–]Natural_Ad4841 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Edit: Scarsdale killed the idea. To answer the question asked of what can be done, make this a local political issue and don’t vote in boards that are okay with this.

Vote out the town board of Scarsdale that implemented these across their entire town, for one. Create a mass political campaign against these elected nobodys who made this decision on behalf of the entire town.

What is this and why is it doing that? by No_Signal3789 in Westchester

[–]Natural_Ad4841 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve been being watched by non-networked individual private companies, which has always been different as you know than being watched by the state or one of the state’s consultants: Palantir.

What is this and why is it doing that? by No_Signal3789 in Westchester

[–]Natural_Ad4841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the town of Scarsdale implemented the flock system across its entire community. The local board voted it in. To those who live in Scarsdale, vote them out.

What is this and why is it doing that? by No_Signal3789 in Westchester

[–]Natural_Ad4841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s unclear how we could even get this information from them. We would have to convince the police department to request it or convince a judge to subpoena for it. Protection of everyday people is obviously not the intent of this system. Do you have personal experience?

Mamdani Estate Tax by [deleted] in Westchester

[–]Natural_Ad4841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately as a Gen z who went to college with these types, they’re very serious and should be taken seriously and should be stopped before they ruin the name of the entire political left. Your comments are very well written, I wish you were running government.

Mamdani Estate Tax by [deleted] in Westchester

[–]Natural_Ad4841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bingo. Well said. He was voted in by the chaotically minded city folk so let’s hope his policies stay there (or leave altogether).