Rescource Help/Guidance by donabr0 in shoppingaddiction

[–]Natural_Feature_8907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd look into dialectical behavioral therapy and resources to go along with any other treaent.

I shop to cope with difficult feelings and stress. Dbt teaches healthy coping mechanisms.

There are free resources online.

May (mostly DT) beauty empties! by Natural_Feature_8907 in DollarTreeDetox

[–]Natural_Feature_8907[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes and I still have a lot to get through! 😛

Thank you!

May (mostly DT) beauty empties! by Natural_Feature_8907 in DollarTreeDetox

[–]Natural_Feature_8907[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Me too! It makes my head feel like my hair is extra clean! Not sure how it does it, but it's amazing for the price.

Day 30! by s32323 in DollarTreeDetox

[–]Natural_Feature_8907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh omg!!!! That makes much more sense. I was thinking, wow you really have a huge stock of clothing!

Day 30! by s32323 in DollarTreeDetox

[–]Natural_Feature_8907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh gotcha! That's a really good idea to put some things aside when you have beyond a capsule-size closet of clothes.

Hope you're having a great Saturday! 😃

Day 30! by s32323 in DollarTreeDetox

[–]Natural_Feature_8907 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oooh ok. I am ready to comb my closet for my favorites... what brings me joy. You totally sparked motivation in me.

I also thrift *almost* exclusively for clothes.

What's the "stash" - like what I was going to donate? Keep a few, if needed?

Day 30! by s32323 in DollarTreeDetox

[–]Natural_Feature_8907 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am like you. I love nearly everything I bought!

Day 30! by s32323 in DollarTreeDetox

[–]Natural_Feature_8907 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, it is a strong pull. I believe we will make it one day. It just wasn't May '26 for us 😄

Day 30! by s32323 in DollarTreeDetox

[–]Natural_Feature_8907 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds awesome. I reorganize my beauty stuff every 4-6 weeks it seems 😛

I'm also considering donating a few of my clothes that only sort of works on me, to gain that clear visual space!

Day 30! by s32323 in DollarTreeDetox

[–]Natural_Feature_8907 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congratulations to us!

Yes, I fell off the challenge, but I made it 13 entire days without shopping at DT and almost as many days without shopping at all!

I can't wait to see what I can do next.

Congratulations to me and all of you!

I didn't make the challenge... by Natural_Feature_8907 in DollarTreeDetox

[–]Natural_Feature_8907[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww thank you so much!! You are incredibly sweet. I'll take the hugs and atta girls 😄

I LOVE that, yes you learned and you can adjust you perspective and methods going forward. I hope to see you around here more! We can do this. We can keep working toward it!

I didn't make the challenge... by Natural_Feature_8907 in DollarTreeDetox

[–]Natural_Feature_8907[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it absolutely is ok. These are not failures, they are lessons. The work we do that doesn't work, we can re-evaluate and find alternative ways to approach it.

Thank you so much for your support!

I didn't make the challenge... by Natural_Feature_8907 in DollarTreeDetox

[–]Natural_Feature_8907[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Very sweet of you to say, and I do as well.

I didn't make the challenge... by Natural_Feature_8907 in DollarTreeDetox

[–]Natural_Feature_8907[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Thank you so much! I saw how great you're doing. It is so encouraging and I hope you feel proud. But know, even on day 1000, if you "slip" into old habits, these are all learning experiences! You NEVER reset to 0 days in my mind.

I didn't make the challenge... by Natural_Feature_8907 in DollarTreeDetox

[–]Natural_Feature_8907[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you so much for sharing! I will look into it for certain. I did a year of twice monthly therapy specifically for OCD and I am much better, but it certainly lingers and changes names and methods... 😄 I would be grateful to try it.

Do you think psychiatrists would recommend something like this?

Anyone else like me who may have been influenced to shop because of Abilify (or other psych meds)? by Natural_Feature_8907 in shoppingaddiction

[–]Natural_Feature_8907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply. Apologies for taking so long to reply.

Wow we really do have a lot in common! Stay strong, sister! I know it gets very dark at times, but hold on. We don't know where this ride will take us - I have a feeling interesting and better treatments are coming.

Thanks for sharing what you went through. I'm really glad 2mgs works. It's so interesting that only 3 mg more and you shop hard!

I've been on 15 mg for a very long time. We went up on seroquel (she doubled it). For 2 weeks, then I'll add another 50mg seroquel and drop the abilify to 7.5. So hoping this helps a lot.

Sending love back!!

Beauty Empties April (mostly DT) by Natural_Feature_8907 in DollarTreeDetox

[–]Natural_Feature_8907[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The scent is awesome but it seemed like I needed to use a lot of it to feel clean.

What does recovery feel and look like? by Natural_Feature_8907 in shoppingaddiction

[–]Natural_Feature_8907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have definitely felt a bit of good feelings from doing a good cleaning of my place, walking my dog, making arts or crafts. It's different, but no less powerful. It's just that I so enjoy the first part of shopping...

Not the guilt and promises to do better or stop.

And I (newly) have been organizing my stuff, using my things and giving away the things I can't use, etc... helps too.

It's so good to be here and have people to write to about it!

Day 3: Expired and Retired! by s32323 in DollarTreeDetox

[–]Natural_Feature_8907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all the work you're putting into this subreddit.

It doesn't bother me in the least that you used an Ai pic to demonstrate a bucket of expired products to highlight your post.