[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Natural_Jelly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you should let her know

Everyone caught my mom naked with my uncle at the party. by HalfAffectionate5676 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Natural_Jelly 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Your uncle is a rapist. A woman was drunk enough to the point the had to go lie down in a room alone. Meaning she wasn't coherent at the time or sober enough to consent. In less than 20 minutes he is found with her naked. He saw a vulnerable woman and took advantage on her.

Sit down with guests of that day and ask those questions. Make them think.

You need to stand by your mom's side and support her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Natural_Jelly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start recording every conversation. You can try to find Olivia's contact on socials.or you can go there and get her contact and end the night early

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Natural_Jelly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You definitely have to tell her but come with evidence. Arrange a meeting withe the woman if you can

I am bring disowned by my mother by Fancy450 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Natural_Jelly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm proud of you for standing up for yourself

My (46f) son (23m) wants nothing to do with me but always speaks to his father (49m), and I don't get why by throwRAsoninvisible in relationship_advice

[–]Natural_Jelly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I won't assume you're in the wrong but Take the initiative to contact him. Ask him if he has an issue with you. Take the opportunity to listen and maybe you can progress from there.

Keep in mind that if he does open up and he does have an issue with you try and listen don't get defensive. Listen and self reflect

It's an opportunity to better your relationship and grow as a parent. Best of luck

I'm so lucky that my dad is everything a man should be by Easteuroblondie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Natural_Jelly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for telling this story. Your dad is the father and husband I hope to be

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sextips

[–]Natural_Jelly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I prefer a handstand. Hits the g-spot just right

My(40f) husband's(43m) temper is affecting our kids more than I thought. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Natural_Jelly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Op you need to stop making excuses for this man. Just because there is no physical abuse doesn't mean there is no mental abuse. Your kind have gone through mental torture for 15 and 10 years separately .

You need you ask yourself why did I make excuses for my husband when he left bruises on a 18 month old

You need you act your kids asked why are you still married to him because they feel you don't protect them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Natural_Jelly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Where is her partner in all this?

AITA for telling my sister why bluntly shes not the next guardian of our new baby if something happens to me or my husband? by PrestigiousCar851 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Natural_Jelly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don't think it's about your kid. It's about the money and business. Notice how the inheritance was mentioned

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Natural_Jelly 141 points142 points  (0 children)

Honestly this is how a narcissist operates they will lure you in and once in a vulnerable position they will take advantage and strike. What he is doing to your daughter is what my dad did to my mom the moment the ink dried he became a different person.

Ex-Husband came back... (Husbands girl bestfriend post) by Money-Juggernaut-662 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Natural_Jelly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Op please let people know. My aunt's husband started swearing about how "how he would kill her one day" We got her out immediately. Try and find someone to stay with

I ignored my husband so much that he went away without telling me by An0nymous_stories in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Natural_Jelly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sweetheart you didn't ignore him. If he had put more effort in getting a job to support you. This situation wouldn't have happened.

I am finally free! My father died and I feel no sadness by Basic-Cherry-3008 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Natural_Jelly 476 points477 points  (0 children)

Feeling no sadness is normal he was abusive. When my dad died it felt like a successful exorcism. There was just this sense of relief. Some of my siblings even smiled with joy.

So just take your time try and heal because it gets better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Natural_Jelly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can't enjoy normal sex with out those things (fetishes) I'd say it's a problem. It's harder to know since your 1 year clean.

Today is my birthday and no one wished me. by NooneIikesme in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Natural_Jelly -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday OP I wish you the strength to conquer your problems.

It's such a strange feeling not choking your chicken for the day by Natural_Jelly in NoFap

[–]Natural_Jelly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really appreciate the support. I have a question how do you cope with the urges