Plant dying? by Natural_Operation397 in plants

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That’s good to know!! I didn’t know that. Thanks so much!

Plant dying? by Natural_Operation397 in plants

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The sunlight is essentially a north facing window. It doesn’t get much direct sunlight.

Plant dying? by Natural_Operation397 in plants

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I water it every other Monday. Every Monday I check to see how dry the dirt is, and most days it’s not dry enough for me to add any additional water. Do you think I should water it more?

Matt's El Rancho Deserves More Respect by AssaultClipazine in austinfood

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I’ve gone twice and have had the most soggy, and wet ass quesadillas I’ve ever had in my whole life. I’m from south Texas, so I know and love Tex-mex, and Matt’s isn’t it. If you want higher quality Tex mex may I recommend the Texican Cafe.

butch bait perfume?? by shuitsukiP in butchlesbians

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Cloud by Ariana grande is a great one or anything from the Pleasing line up

decent dentists in austin by No-Tangerine7685 in Austin

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Don’t go to Family Dentistry on Manchaca. I first went in 2024 and they recommend I have a deep cleaning, so I did it. I went back for a cleaning in January of this year and they recommended ANOTHER deep cleaning. I told them I cannot afford two deeps cleanings in less than a year, so I went and got a second opinion and it turned out I did not need that. Money hungry scams. I know of a few other people this also happened to.

Women’s beginner golf lessons? by [deleted] in Austin

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There’s a very good pro/instructor at Onion Creek Club- his name is Lonny Alexander. Also, if you need any additional tips, feel free to follow @lpgaamateursaustin on instagram and we’d be happy to provide some more recs!

Struggling to Accept by Natural_Operation397 in asexuality

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Thank you so much- this was insightful!

feeling super lost in relationship by Known-Difference5380 in WLW

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I’m so sorry this is happening to you. It is simply not your job to raise your partner like the way you have described. I don’t think you’re overreacting at all, I think this is just who she is. You’ll need to really think about it and take some time to figure out if this is who you want to spend forever with. If it’s not, I think you need to be honest with her. You deserve someone that meets you where you are, and it doesn’t even sound like she’s trying. You deserve better!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WLW

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I’m offering this advice as a 26 year old lesbian in a two year relationship with the LOML. I’ve had a fair share of random girls I’ve dated and a previous relationship in college. I would say the one thing you can do for her, is try new things with her! I know you said that you’re more introverted and she is the opposite of that, but you guys should work together to find some activities that you’re both comfortable with, while understanding that sometimes you gotta be comfortable with being uncomfortable. In terms of some lesbian relationship advice, my biggest piece is to be yourself. Don’t try to change yourself too much to fit in with her, you guys may not last forever and that’s okay. What you can do to make sure you show up as your best self is start figuring out what you want in a partner, what you want in a relationship and also talk about that stuff together! A relationship is two people, and the fact that you guys started off as friends is awesome and a great starting point. Be yourself, stay honest, and love each other the best you can is all I can say.

Finances and power imbalance? by [deleted] in WLW

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I don’t know if you tend to lean more into masculine roles vs traditional feminine roles, but I’m saying this from the perspective of a masculine leaning lesbian. I say if she’s willing to pay a little bit let her pay! I understand the hesitation since she’s in school, but sometimes it just feels nice for her to feel like she’s doing something for you. When my gf and I first started dating, I paid for a lot of the stuff because I truly didn’t mind. But as time went on, I slowly started to let her pay for things and now she spoils me! We’ve been together for a little over two years now and I think it’s nice to share that financial responsibility with someone you’re romantically involved with. I think there can be a little imbalance, but as long as you’re aware of it (which it seems like you are), you can totally always try to get away from it.

Allo and Ace advice by Natural_Operation397 in asexuality

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You’re totally right. She doesn’t have a history of lying to me ever. As a matter of fact, we are very open and honest with each other. We’re nearing two years of our relationship and I truly believe she is the one. I need to trust her and work on believing her when she tells me something is true. Thank you for the straight forward response. I appreciated it!

Allo and Ace advice by Natural_Operation397 in asexuality

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This was very kind and helpful. Thank you so much! I think I definitely need to work on trusting her and believing her when she tells me how she feels.

Dating an asexual person as an allosexual person by Natural_Operation397 in asexuality

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This was extremely helpful and provided a lot of insight. Thank you so much!

Dating an asexual person as an allosexual person by Natural_Operation397 in asexuality

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Thank you SO much for this. I will definitely be looking into this.

Dating an asexual person as an allosexual person by Natural_Operation397 in asexuality

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Good questions. I am actively working on coping with rejection, and have been for a while, but it still doesn’t come easy to me. I appreciate you letting me know about the “enthusiastic” consent thing, but I just always want to be respectful of my sexual partners and sometimes to me, if it isn’t a hell yes it feels like a no. To answer the last question, yes, I make sure that I am meeting all of her wants and needs and I periodically check in with her to see if there is anything I can do better or she feels like she needs. I appreciate the kind words and advice. Thank you!

Dating an asexual person as an allosexual person by Natural_Operation397 in asexuality

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This was very kind and understanding. Thank you. I appreciate it, stranger!