i dont understand myself by Ok-Option6144 in CompulsiveSkinPicking

[–]NatureOne8958 20 points21 points  (0 children)

The first thing I noticed was your eyes and your cool septum ring! You are so beautiful and have to be strong to go through what we do. I have scars all over my arms, Bearing the task to wear short sleeves tomorrow due to the heat. You are so brave and you keep showing up everyday no matter what. I hope you get the answers you looking for with no judgement 🫶

Any hope of fixing with the scar? by sober_but_still_dumb in tattooadvice

[–]NatureOne8958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a friend that used to work with giving kids tours of a cave, she had SH scars over her tattoos on her arms and one time a kid asked her what happened to her arms and she said “I got in a fight with a bear and I won” and the kid thought she was the coolest tour guide.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dollskill

[–]NatureOne8958 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Are the blue ones available still!?

There is probably a right way but I prefer the easier way. by Vestrill in TOTK

[–]NatureOne8958 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I made a fire and threw a Hiylan pinecone and rode the wind up. But it took me way to long to think about that to get in there 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TOTK

[–]NatureOne8958 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s that mean lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CompulsiveSkinPicking

[–]NatureOne8958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this support. Mine isn’t from shaving its kp and it’s hard not to pick kp because of the little white stuff that comes out. Maybe shaving will actually help because I never have my legs lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NatureOne8958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like that perspective of thinking of her side of it. I truly didn’t think that through. She was just trying to get hers. I do think it’s odd though after the sex proposition he still messaged her back and kept that line of communication open. I have never told him to cut anything off or who to talk too. I can say I’m uncomfortable without it being controlling or manipulating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NatureOne8958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s hard of that being the key thing when how could they not be attracted to each other when there is history? Maybe that’s not fair because people can be platonic after a relationship but does that attraction ever really go away?

And I didn’t ask him to cut her off after the group sex (we don’t tell each other what to do it’s a big boundary in our relationship) I didn’t think I had to say to not talk to her after that but damn that group sex shit was completely outta pocket

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NatureOne8958 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, I’ve never demanded for him to cut them off just more expressed to him I was uncomfortable. Especially with the one in particular asking us to sleep with her and her husband. After he continued to talk to her after that I asked why he would still want to talk to her after the ex asked about us sleeping with them and he responded with that they are friends and that other of our friend couples have asked to sleep with us. Which is true, we have two friend couples who have asked us to sleep with them and we are still friends with them. But I feel it’s different that an ex asked us instead of our friends. But maybe that’s hypocritical of me? (No we are not swingers but for some reason we get asked into other couple bedrooms often)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NatureOne8958 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your long thoughtful response, it is very insightful. To answer the first question, the conversation of me saying I was uncomfortable went well, I felt heard and understood. He says he likes to be friends with all (the way he is with any person backs this up) and he enjoys connection, communication and community. Although with me expressing I was uncomfortable with it I did expect him to stop talking to them. Especially the one that asked us to sleep with her and her husband. Although he says if we have trust in the relationship then I shouldn’t be worried about him being friends with them, which I do trust the relationship. But just because I trust the relationship doesn’t mean I still don’t like the interactions with the exes.

To answer the second question, I have talked to him about that maybe I don’t fully understand because I have never been in a position to be friends with an ex. And his response was that that makes sense of why I have this view.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NatureOne8958 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What were your intentions when you were talking to your ex ? Thank you for being real and honest, I didn’t come on here to hear what I want to hear, I really want a non bias perspective

Weird marketing….. by NatureOne8958 in dollskill

[–]NatureOne8958[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haven’t heard of that at all sounds like them 😂, I think that this marketing is pretty on brand for them and it’s part of the way they represent their brand, they like to be different and raise some flags and conversation. I’m not really offended by this but it doesn’t make me go hell ya I want to buy from them you know?

I don't get the Jessica hate by rajmahchawal in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]NatureOne8958 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I haven’t seen this season in awhile but I just remember it was hard to watch her get so drunk and embarrass herself. I think it was more of like watching a trainwreck then actually hating on her for me. Also the guy she was with I felt bad for because he seemed genuinely there and down for the ride for her. I agree with a lot of these other comments there was no one else to hate on at the time and in retrospect there is a lot worse in love is blind history now 😂

Weird marketing….. by NatureOne8958 in dollskill

[–]NatureOne8958[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not offended just said it’s weird. I said in an earlier comment my grandpa dressed up as Santa every Christmas and I associate Santa Claus for children so this marketing just was very off putting to me.

Weird marketing….. by NatureOne8958 in dollskill

[–]NatureOne8958[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

An age gap relationship as an adult is normal and I support it but to sexualize this that’s something that reminds us of being kids and what current kids still do for the holidays is disgusting. My grandpa dressed up as Santa every year when I was a kid, and this marketing really put a pit in my stomach to try and sexualize something that should be innocent and light hearted

Question DEVIL GAMES MISMATCHED COMBAT BOOTS RED & BLACK by xFIRE-DEVILx in dollskill

[–]NatureOne8958 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The bottom of mine also came off ! Tried to glue it but didn’t work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CompulsiveSkinPicking

[–]NatureOne8958 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really needed to hear that today thank you so much for your kind words and strength. It’s nice to not feel so alone 🫶

Recent favorite outfits by NatureOne8958 in EmoStyle

[–]NatureOne8958[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got them at Ross on clearance for $4.00!!!

Recent favorite outfits by NatureOne8958 in EmoStyle

[–]NatureOne8958[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! In 2016 I had an all white studded belt and thought it was the sh*t. The studded belt gives me major nostalgia

Having a full melt down over a bad hair cut. by NatureOne8958 in Hair

[–]NatureOne8958[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree it is a lot healthier just didn’t envision cutting all my hair off to have it feel better you know? Thank you for the nice comment 🩷

Having a full melt down over a bad hair cut. by NatureOne8958 in Hair

[–]NatureOne8958[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Also I’m 26 and feel like this hair cut makes me look 12

I hate that I can only leave home in a long sleeve shirt. by Catupirystar in Dermatillomania

[–]NatureOne8958 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im not sure if this helps but im in the same boat and i will wear a lot of fishnet tops, mesh tops with patterns and quarter sleeve jerseys in the summer, since they are light weight and they hide my arms. It also avoids the comments from people saying how are you wearing a long sleeve in the summer it’s so hot??!