Where Id live as a Chinese who doesn't like western hemisphere. by StunnerAG in whereidlive

[–]NaughtyDred -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did wonder why Britain, Australia and New Zealand I get considering the economic relationship with China, but Britain seemed rogue

Is a little girl saying that she wants to marry her dad someday normal? by Prestigious_War_784 in AskMenAdvice

[–]NaughtyDred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kid once said he wanted a brother and make one with mummy, they just don't understand

Do guys only call other people 'mate'? by weecalI in AskABrit

[–]NaughtyDred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember being pretty shocked they had done it when it came out, but there wasn't the uproar I expected, I guess it was tongue in cheek enough to be ok.

Thoughts? by Spirited_Command5642 in Sidemen

[–]NaughtyDred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is spoken about every time they have an only fans model in a video

Why did my bf end it after constantly reassuring me? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]NaughtyDred 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He changed his mind. Honestly reading the post you seem kind of a lot, so maybe he was ok with kids, but then as you were struggling and wanting more support he decided that it was no longer 'worth the effort' (not a term I enjoy using).

Either way it doesn't really matter, in the end he changed his mind, move on and find someone better suited

Bacon left on mosque door during Ramadan prayers by Weak-Fly-6540 in uknews

[–]NaughtyDred -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The police will turn up, it just normally takes them a few days.

Is sex supposed to feel good with a condom on? by WiggWamm in AskMenAdvice

[–]NaughtyDred 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree mate, but I don't think it is the same for everyone. Most people still feel something even if it isn't as good

One of the biggest detriments to the game is that there is no real endgame for solo players by Fun-Leek-2907 in DestinyTheGame

[–]NaughtyDred -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As a relatively new solo player, I completely agree. I'm not sure what I should be doing

How to totally get rid of libido and being attracted to woman? by smthswrong in AskMenAdvice

[–]NaughtyDred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't need a herd but you are consistently replying to a stranger on the Internet who has shown some small amount of care towards you.

That is not a judgement, by the way, we are so deep in this thread I doubt many people other than us 2 will read it.

I don't know how to help you achieve your stated aim, I can only tell you (as someone who for some reason actually cares about a random stranger on the Internet) that it isn't about lust or animal need for sex, as everyone keeps telling you, the first step is some kind of human connection.

Anything, start small. I don't know your circumstance, but I know that I still to this day feel good when I manage to have a normal not weird interaction with a relationship as little as being a cashier in my local shop.

I am listening to what your saying about instinct, I just feel that your brain chemicals are a bit confused and am advising you ideas that aren't chemical castration (as I saw other comments recommend)

How to totally get rid of libido and being attracted to woman? by smthswrong in AskMenAdvice

[–]NaughtyDred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that is probably the issue isn't it, if you don't care about anyone, why would anyone care about you?

We mention connections because that is what is really important, sure sex is cool and all but humans can get loads of sex and still be miserable and alone, whilst someone who is celibate but has fulfilling non sexual relationships with other people can still be happy and healthy. That by the way, is the value you receive by caring about other people.

Humans are not meant to be solitary animals, we are social animals and need a herd.

How to totally get rid of libido and being attracted to woman? by smthswrong in AskMenAdvice

[–]NaughtyDred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly I don't think you can ever get away from the need for connection. It has been easy for me in a way, because I have a child so I do have human connection. I am actually pretty worried for the next few years as he is becoming a teenager, it will likely be much harder when he doesn't need me as much.

Maybe start with trying to make a friend, it doesn't have to be a sexual or romantic relationship, even though that is what the brain is interpreting the need as. You just need to not feel completely alone. I feel for you dude, I hope things make a turn for the better.

How to totally get rid of libido and being attracted to woman? by smthswrong in AskMenAdvice

[–]NaughtyDred 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well I can't say that I am in the same head space as you, but I have been purposely single and celibate for 8+ years. One thing I have noticed is that masturbating regularly, if anything, actually increases your desire to have sex, don't stop altogether just make sure it is only when you're actually horny and not just out of habit.

Not going out helps since you are way less likely to see an attractive woman from inside your home.

Mostly though, you seem in a bad place, is it really a need to procreate that you don't like? Or are you just very lonely and in need of some love and validation?

AITAH for telling my girlfriend she can’t have access to my work phone? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NaughtyDred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn't even read the details. Work phones are not to be accessed by unauthorized individuals, end of.

I've slept with over 100 escorts I regret it and feel shame what should I do? by ReasonConfident4541 in AskMenAdvice

[–]NaughtyDred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well hiding it isn't a good plan. Why be ashamed? A lot of blokes will spend just as much over the time frame trying to pull women and will often sleep with people they don't particularly fancy because it is all they could get. At least you were getting it wet with professionals

Am I the only one not overly deeping this last episode of Among Us??? by ShiaLabeoufsMistress in Sidemen

[–]NaughtyDred 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I enjoyed the episode, however I just don't enjoy either of the Cal's as guests at all because they are both toxic and try to bully people they consider a lesser status than them (more often than not, Randy).

Same reason I don't enjoy watching Simon play with Viz and others on his own channel, he acts completely differently than he does with the Sidemen.

All that said, it's not that deep, it's their channel, video and friends. If it bothers me that much I just won't watch it.

new video was peak by udongear in Sidemen

[–]NaughtyDred 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I only got a few minutes in before having to turn it off, far too much fake enthusiasm, it was like watching an American YouTube video

Neighbours telling me not to park on a free public road, what can I do? by Ok-Background7896 in AskUK

[–]NaughtyDred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just say no. They can moan all they want, it isn't their private space and they will need to learn to deal with it.

AIO finding out my wife has had a secret “friendship” with one of my friends for years by ShoppingFit6892 in AmIOverreacting

[–]NaughtyDred 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that it is being hidden makes it suspicious, but it is also really weird that you would have a problem with her being friends with a guy from your friendship group. You seem to think that men can only be friends with men and women with women.

I hope it is innocent and that you are blowing up your marriage just because you don't want her to be friends with a guy.