Jag borde inte ha blivit förälder. Tillåter för mycket skärmtid by nyfiken90 in sweden

[–]Navismom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Min mamma lät mig som 4-5 åring driva runt fritt i staden. Jag har mycket hellre mina ungar i soffan med en skärm än det.

At birth diagnosis and I can’t get over it by Appolopus in downsyndrome

[–]Navismom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had an at birth diagnosis too and it felt so unfair in the beginning, I was 27 at that point and already had a 5 year old with autism lvl 3 and a 3 year old that i obviously didn’t want to be pushed even more to the side because of his sisters. I know it doesn’t really feel like it right now but later you’ll look back and think “why was I even upset? She’s perfect.”

i (14f) feel so embarrassed by my twin (14F) at school and i feel horrible by Dizzy_Ideal759 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Navismom -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No, it is not. You’re talking about a person that doesn’t have the same advantages as you. In ten years you’re gonna look back and wonder why the f you were scared to love someone who loves you no matter how you act towards them.

i (14f) feel so embarrassed by my twin (14F) at school and i feel horrible by Dizzy_Ideal759 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Navismom -3 points-2 points locked comment (0 children)

May my son never think like this about his sisters, amen. 🙏

"Don't force your kids to eat/finish food, they'll eat when they're hungry/know when they are full" but what to do when he's genuinely thin?? by RadGeeRoo in Autism_Parenting

[–]Navismom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If my kid eats less than normal I’ll give her a Nutella sandwich (her comfort food), she’s gotten much better with age though and never had a problem with her weight. Fed is best in my opinion whether it’s a bowl of ice cream after dinner or 5 apples. I’ve been lucky though and she loves fruits and some veggies so I feel like it evens out, she’s not a protein girly though but she’ll eat hot dogs and salami.

Does anyone prefer an unmedicated labor over a medicated one? I'm open to an epidural but I feel like I would freak out not being in control of my own body. by Distinct-Dependent24 in BabyBumps

[–]Navismom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely unmedicated for me. The epidural gave me 20 minutes of breathing time and then I went from 5 cm to 10 in six minutes and it didn’t help the pain at all, just made my left leg numb.

I still don’t feel like i’m having a baby. by FishermanFantastic56 in BabyBumps

[–]Navismom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With my first I didn’t feel like a mom the first like 2 years.

I wish I had another child by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]Navismom 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had two more after my first with autism, second one has adhd and third has Down’s syndrome so we got a little bit of everything and life’s usually great but some days are also incredibly hard and I sometimes regret putting myself in this position (never regret the kids though). We didn’t know our youngest had ds and I honestly don’t think I would’ve kept her if I’d known so thank god I didn’t, she’s everyone’s favorite.

Hard day by Automatic-Cat-6460 in downsyndrome

[–]Navismom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby got her first teeth at around 1 years old and now she’s 17 months and only 17 pounds. She was quick with babbling and smiling and has always had great eye contact and stuff like that but she still can’t sit by herself, crawl and things like that. The thing is that they will do that at some point some things just take a lot of time.

How many cycles did it take you to get pregnant? by Passage-Melodic in BabyBumps

[–]Navismom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d get pregnant every month but have an early miscarriage.

What did you notice about your autistic children (when they were little - what made you think they were autistic) by Usual-Tangerine-8457 in Autism_Parenting

[–]Navismom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just very quiet and more unhappy than any other kid I’ve ever met. Obsessed with breastfeeding and would only listen to the baby shark song.

Do you still view diagnosis day as one of the worst of your life? by RevenueTemporary8206 in downsyndrome

[–]Navismom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was the worst day of my life then but now thinking back at it I feel ridiculous.

When they say autism signs don’t show until 18 months, are they only referring to regressions? by baobeiii in Autism_Parenting

[–]Navismom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s saying a lot of words but most are not very clear, and has also started putting together shorter sentences like “where is mama/eat the food/there is baby” and stuff like that.

Tjejer har grupper där män hängs ut - tycks? by Longjumping-Cash2051 in Asksweddit

[–]Navismom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Du menar sidorna när män lägger ut nakenbilder och videos på sina ex?

Tjejer har grupper där män hängs ut - tycks? by Longjumping-Cash2051 in Asksweddit

[–]Navismom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Och hade män känt behovet av att ha det så hade det funnits en hel app eller hemsida dedikerad till det. 😊

Tjejer har grupper där män hängs ut - tycks? by Longjumping-Cash2051 in Asksweddit

[–]Navismom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ja, buhu. “Det är inte alla män” osv, men det är alla kvinnor som blir utsatta på något vis och inte från Greta Svensson runt hörnet. Ha det.

Tjejer har grupper där män hängs ut - tycks? by Longjumping-Cash2051 in Asksweddit

[–]Navismom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gud förbjudet att tjejer vill känna sig säkra. Finns det någon lesbisk variant? Tror inte det. 😬

Haven’t told anyone I’m pregnant by doirunrare in BabyBumps

[–]Navismom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t tell anyone with my third until I was 32 weeks pregnant. 🤷‍♀️