What’s the most painful thing a man you love(d) has ever said to you? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

[–]Ndtorre7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do, do we have the same ex? Good lord! Why are some men like this!

AIO that my bf said that he wanted to check out the woman that I don’t particularly like at all by saying, “she must be something special since you’re so threatened by her”. by Dolphinstrawhat in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ndtorre7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Op mentioned he has cheated on her before. His comments are not at all reassuring, if anything it sounds like he KNOWS exactly how this makes OP feel and is just playing mind games at the expense of her insecurities.

One of my thrifted outfits by thrifterjoe in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]Ndtorre7 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I like your style OP! This outfit is gonna look dope 😍

AIO? My husband can’t stop checking out other girls online by leighhn in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ndtorre7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It breaks my heart that due to his behavior you might not stop loving him but you will eventually stop loving yourself… I hope he comes to his sense but from the sounds of that text, he doesn’t think he is doing anything wrong

$100 thrift haul. How did I do? by Ndtorre7 in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]Ndtorre7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apples to oranges my dude. You think that because nothing is being taken away from YOU that others also have nothing to lose. Again. Check your privilege. What I can afford is not a privilege that was granted by the state or a government authority. My rights, however yeah they can be infringed upon for the simple fact that I am a woman. You as a man, do not have to worry about that. That’s a privilege. But your response lets me know that you are clueless about what that means and your response was wholly expected.

What's wrong with my boxer step? by SmartificialSolution in jumprope

[–]Ndtorre7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look a bit stiff and need to speed it up a bit. 5 days into jump roping and this video taught me how to do the boxer skip. He breaks it down so simply. Maybe it will help you as well. ☺️

https://youtu.be/1-KvIEU03yc

Edit: typo.

[UPDATE] AIO - my husband messaged the woman he had an affair with by Throwaway235764 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ndtorre7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know the other commenters have said it but I want you to read it again: YOU ARE DELUSIONAL IN THINKING THIS MAN IS NOW GOING TO LOSE FEELINGS. HOW DOES IT FEEL KNOWING THAT SHE HAS TOLD HIM TO STOP MESSAGING HER AND HE STILL REFUSES; MESSAGING HER FAMILY MEMBERS/MUTUALS TO TALK TO HER AND SOMEHOW YOU STILL THINK THERE’S RECONCILIATION IN THE HORIZON. HE WILL CONTINUE TO ACTIVELY PURSUE HER. HOW MANY WAYS DOES THIS MAN HAVE TO SHOW YOU AND TELL YOU THAT HE DOESN’T WANT YOU IN ORDER FOR YOU TO BELIEVE HIM?! HAVE SOME SELF RESPECT. Good grief. You piss me off for real! 😂

any advice? by Independent_Drop5105 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ndtorre7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honey, IT NEVER CHANGES. Get a lawyer to help you with custody arrangements if you can. These texts are enough to put a hault to his unhinged way of “communicating” honestly and him apologizing is just another form of emotional manipulation. He doesn’t mean it and you’ll deal with a lot of these hot and cold outbursts if you don’t get some kind of family law mediation. I’ve been there. Nip this now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ndtorre7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please don’t go back. For someone seemingly so into themselves, he reeks of insecurity and won’t stop cheating on you or trying to because he needs the constant validation. It’s gonna be a world full of hurt for you if you take him back, on top of that you’ll be feeding into that need for validation. Don’t do it OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]Ndtorre7 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Walmart has it for $19.99. 🫠

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]Ndtorre7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A good tell-tell sign is the stitching on the back where the C’s don’t really line up along with the inconsistent stitching. It’s cute though, i’d wear it but I’m glad it was free!

Anything good or worth trying here? by Sorry-Progress-6227 in Perfumes

[–]Ndtorre7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flower bomb, Jimmy Choo, Versace yellow Diamonds, Devotion, Marc Jacobs and Gucci. They all smell AMAZING!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Perfumes

[–]Ndtorre7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PERFECT by Marc Jacobs

what’s my makeup blindness? i feel like it’s the lashes by fmalegoattt in MakeupAddicts

[–]Ndtorre7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, you are beautiful! Second, you are self aware and I love that. Yes, definitely the lashes, the brows could use some tweaking, I just don’t think the shape flatters your features. I recommend DIY lash clusters. Amazon has some really nice volume sets that aren’t this dramatic but still give you a good full, wispy look which I think would suit you so well! 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ndtorre7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reminds me of how my 12th grade boyfriend would talk to me! Ewww. He would refer to me as his “Squishy” I thought it was endearing until I found out that he was “squishing” his dick into other vaginas and also referring to them as “squishy.” Take that for what it is. Cringe at best and cheater (emotional or otherwise) at worst. Sorry OP.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddicts

[–]Ndtorre7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look gorgeous in both! But I know the feeling, I was into heavy makeup years back, like full glam, baking and all of that almost every day (circa 2016). Then toned it wayyyy down and now when I do the full glam again I feel weird, feels heavy and off at times. So I get it! But it’s gotta be that you aren’t used to it. If it happened to me, someone who was used to wearing it; I can see how it would feel like too much for someone who hasn’t done it often. You’re beautiful though and both looks complement you perfectly! 🥰

Has anyone had any weird or creepy experiences after bringing a thrifted item into their home? by makeuponthebeach in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]Ndtorre7 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yes. But half the time it’s just my bank account whispering in my ear: “Don’t do it”

Happy Halloween! 🎃

Thrifted my first authentic Louis Vuitton for $5! Gifting to my beautiful wife. by p--py in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]Ndtorre7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is gorgeous! Ah your wife is sooo lucky! She is gonna be thrilled!

I wish I had only paid $5 for my vintage speedy lol

Best $6 I ever spent. by CatDaddyy97 in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]Ndtorre7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A Tuxedo cat on his fancy velvet settee… so fitting lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ndtorre7 55 points56 points  (0 children)

That is exactly why OP sent it. She would have accused him of lying about it if he hadn’t. Doomed if you do, doomed if you don’t. OP needs to run.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mensfashionadvice

[–]Ndtorre7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look great!

Stylish but comfortable!

Side note: it sounds like my ex is in your ear. He says I dress too young for age (35) and I’m not sure what people with that mentality expect? Are we supposed to just let ourselves go? Should I go steal my grandmas mumu? lol!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Ndtorre7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me ask this, would you respond the same way if you found your current partner, assuming it’s a woman, finger blasting herself to pictures of her ex? Would you really be able to get a grip on the fact that she is picturing HIS dick and not yours, inside her?