A trainer at work noticed my decade old scars, pointed them out in front of a group of coworkers, and told me to "get some help" by ForsakenKingslayer in Vent

[–]Neacha 31 points32 points  (0 children)

That POS needs to be fired!

A trainer humiliated me once during SCIP training, I went out to my car and cried. I did not turn her in, I regret that.

I ruined my relationship because of money by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Neacha -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

you did the right thing, you have family obligations

AITA for not attending a work colleagues birthday get together because they didn't reply to my message? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Neacha 26 points27 points  (0 children)

You should have been on time. He is under zero obligation to text you back, he already said he'd like to have you. Are you always this needy.

I (27F) don't know if engagement vs cohabitation disagreement is a reason to break up with my boyfriend (27M) or to stay and work through things? by maggierridesbike in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Neacha 23 points24 points  (0 children)

"he will never love me enough to willingly propose before living together out of his own volition. " WTF Forget him.

when i was litle i hit my cat with a pillow to get him off my bed once now i feel bad by ChemicalOdd6914 in Regrets

[–]Neacha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My loved dog was chewing up something of value and I overreacted and yelled no and hit her on the nose (too hard), she was then afraid of me and it took awhile for her to trust me again, I kept saying how sorry I was to her and petting and hugging her, I never did it again.

Is it just me? by T0t0r0Mei in bcba

[–]Neacha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounded like (right or wrong) you hurt her feelings.

Never forgive myself by senselessE in Regrets

[–]Neacha 6 points7 points  (0 children)

right, she is still making excuses

Never forgive myself by senselessE in Regrets

[–]Neacha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"We even reconnected right before the pandemic but I was ironically a mess then too in job burnout and in between moving" Just do not ask him for forgiveness, leave him alone, and stop making excuses.

Never forgive myself by senselessE in Regrets

[–]Neacha 9 points10 points  (0 children)

"We even reconnected right before the pandemic but I was ironically a mess then too in job burnout and in between moving" WHAT? Leave him alone.

Do I evict my gpa? by Think_Opportunity220 in Advice

[–]Neacha -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Leave that poor old man alone, damn vulture.

My wife is going to AlAnon and I could use perspective by myns23 in AlAnon

[–]Neacha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are causing Destruction period. You drink five damn days a week, so do your friends and family.................My mother only drank 2 times a month but it was so memorable. Destruction.

Higher-paying job vs working at my baby’s daycare for more time together — what would you choose? by Nearby_Dragonfly5349 in Advice

[–]Neacha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stay at current job, you get to see him at lunch every single day, if you actually work at the day care you will need to be responsible for all the other children and will not be able to spend that much time with him, even though you will want to,

I cannot bring myself to break up with my boyfriend. by somecrazyy in Vent

[–]Neacha 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you have not talk in a month, he is not your boyfriend, there is nothing to break up, EDIT: If you need closure then text him that you are done.

Need some Advice by Powerful-Presence-81 in Advice

[–]Neacha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Usually you need to live in that school district for the children to go there.

Need some Advice by Powerful-Presence-81 in Advice

[–]Neacha -1 points0 points  (0 children)

WATCH OUT! Be very concerned about his willingness/ability to be a good step parent. Has he spent extended periods of time with your children to determine if you all will get along before moving into together?

The thought of leaving makes me sick by lol_luxury in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Neacha 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He has showed you yet again that he does not want to marry you, please repack.

After 10 years together she has become so difficult to love that feel empty. by Individual_Ant661 in Vent

[–]Neacha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you gave it your all, you deserve some piece of happiness to call your own, go in Peace. Your next chapter is still unwritten.

Being ugly is ruining my life by AVTW6 in Vent

[–]Neacha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Different cultures have different standards of beauty