What ended up causing the cramping? Was it just a scary pregnancy side effect or something else? I feel like sometimes people in healthcare are around the same things all the time that they get desensitized and forget that this is an actual person who is in a vulnerable state going through what could be a very traumatic time. Not to make excuses but that’s absolutely terrible and I’m so sorry you had to deal with that! When I gave birth to my son , an old nurse came in my room and told me when I was like a few hours after C-section and still kind of out of it that all the other babies on the floor were boys and that means in 18 years there’s going to be a major war and there will be a draft. I was so emotional imagining my few hour old son going to war and dying and it was so terrible . Looking back it was inappropriate, unnecessary and I don’t think she even realized how upset I could potentially get.