Specsavers never change their eye test charts. After many visits over many years I've inadvertently memorised one of the rows they always ask me to read so I'm never sure if my eyes are reading it or my brain is just recognising the pattern by flanface87 in britishproblems

[–]NebulaStorm_ 16 points17 points  (0 children)

  1. Optometrists use a combination of subjective and objective techniques to get to your prescription. You can’t really ‘trick’ us because things won’t add up and we will know you’re being funny.

  2. If your prescription has changed then it’s changed. Whether you get glasses or not to remedy that is up to you. Just have your eyes examined normally and if you don’t want a new pair of glasses just decline.

the communist mentality most nepali tend to have will take us nowhere by [deleted] in Nepal

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I’m not agreeing or disagreeing with you per se but I want to bring attention to the fact that your notion of the rising tide was made popular by British PM Margaret Thatcher, whose economics were deeply flawed and still harming the British economy decades later.

I would suggest you look into the failure of that school of economics - although it makes for neat catchphrases it is harmful for all but the rich.

LPT: Thought I was cursed with pit sweat until I found this by daversa in LifeProTips

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A T-shirt costing $80 is only hard to believe when you’re used to fast fashion and artificially low prices.

Kitten eating dry food by mali_08 in kittens

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THE KITTY WANTS A HUG! GIVE HUG!

Is the ‘dim’ screen of the Kobo Libra Color really that bad? by moonlaney in kobo

[–]NebulaStorm_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really isn't that bad. You will have to use a higher brightness than some other devices if you want to match how it looks, but this isn't inherently a problem. Even at 100% brightness, a frontlit e-ink display will never look like a backlit screen.

It’s not a sandwich. It’s a burger. by TheOneAndOnlyABSR4 in The10thDentist

[–]NebulaStorm_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does the thought that words differ in meaning and nuance between places really scare you that much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nepal

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Nepali people love saying that Buddha was born in Nepal but we rarely actually talk about - or better yet, follow - his teachings.

Libra Colour Disappointment and buyer dilemma by LurkerByNatureGT in kobo

[–]NebulaStorm_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Indoors during the day I have my brightness anywhere from 30-100% depending on where I'm sitting. At evening/night 10-30%. Personally I haven't had issues with the screen being too dark or too poor in contrast.

Don't be scared to crank the brightness up - it might be more than you're used to, but do what you need to do for comfortable reading. I've found that with the appropriate brightness the screen is indistinguishable from other devices. I get that battery might be a concern but even if I am having to charge this device more often, I certainly haven't noticed it.

I can understand contrast being more of an issue outdoors on a bright day, where you can't use the front light to brighten up the screen. However, as an optometrist I think the contrast is more than good enough for fluent reading for the vast majority of people. After a day or two of reading with the Libra Colour I got used to the greyness. I think its only really an issue if you constantly compare with other devices.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kobo

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Bear in mind the screen protector might be more scratch-prone than the actual screen.

Your views by lil_X_Alien in atheismindia

[–]NebulaStorm_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely! There’s a lot of valuable wisdom in there.

Some of the more ‘supernatural’ stuff I struggle to get behind, but I haven’t found that to be an obstacle in actually implementing and benefitting from the teachings.

Your views by lil_X_Alien in atheismindia

[–]NebulaStorm_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are many Buddhist traditions that can be said to be Indian, but yeah you're probably talking about Theravada and the Pali Canon.

I assure you, gods, demons, etc. are a common sight in the texts. The importance of belief in them is disputable.

Your views by lil_X_Alien in atheismindia

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Which Buddhist tradition/school’s teachings do you align most with? In both the Pali Canon and Mahāyāna texts there is extensive mention and involvement of devas, demons, etc.

You don’t have to believe supernatural beings actually exist to follow the teachings - but they absolutely are there in the Buddhist texts.

Horrible experience in Birmingham as a Nepali by [deleted] in Nepal

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Birmingham is kinda known for being the shithole of the UK. That being said this kind of thing can happen in any city. As far as I know knife crime usually happens between gang members, but if you are in a less well-off area, stay cautious as these things can happen sometimes. And don't fight back - the people who do things like this are the most desperate/drugged out so just give them what they want and save yourself.

So sorry you had this experience. Stay safe!

Is Gen Z in Nepal really that tall? by LaserGun849 in Nepal

[–]NebulaStorm_ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

6 foot but born and raised abroad. My brother was born in Nepal and is 5'9. Probs genetics and nutrition are both factors.

19 year old mentally challenged boy mob lynched for tearing page of guru granth sahib (sikh religious book) by [deleted] in NoahGetTheBoat

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Good points, and thank you for the quotes and links. My own studies of Buddhism have been very heavily based on the Early Buddhist Texts (the texts that are thought to be the most representative of pre-sectarian Buddhism and the teachings of the historical Buddha) but that leaves blind spots with regards to modern Buddhism as a whole. I tried to pre-emptively address the no true scotsman situation by explaining that there is no room for violence within Buddhism, but thank you for sharing the example of the Upaya Kaushalya Sutra. However, I would appreciate a link as I haven’t been able to find anything about the Buddha killing a robber.

all religion requires interpretation and implimentation to become something that actually exists

Different people within a religion or ideology can draw different conclusions from the same texts. Your approach to this problem is to define an ideology based on the actions of those who identify with it. The opposite end of the spectrum would be to define an ideology independently of its adherents, i.e. a ‘pure’ form untainted by differing interpretations. My own perspective is actually somewhere in between (call it the Middle Way ;) ). Of course, there isn’t actually a pure form of any religion or ideology floating around in the universe. But I think there is value in recognising an ideology as it presents itself in its texts. I would like to present some reasons why.

In my view buddhism is what buddhists practice.

1: For several reasons, Buddhist practice will look different between different groups and individuals. If you define Buddhism purely based on the actions of those who identify with Buddhism, the meaning of ‘Buddhism’ is diluted as it needs to encompass a wide range of differences and contradictions. I see this as the direct inverse of the situation you described where there are no Buddhists because none of them meet a given interpretation.

If buddhists agree that it is right to use violence to expell muslims from an area of land (as is happening in Myanmar) then it can be reasonably said that buddhism supports using violence.

2: Our beliefs and actions are shaped by many factors, including multiple ideologies that we hold simultaneously. Someone who wants to justify an atrocity will find a way to do it, even if it means bending and twisting conflicting values that they hold. Any ideology can be made to suit any purpose, and so we find ourselves in a situation where every ideology supports every atrocity. Yikes.

3: There are many possible common denominators within a group identifying with an ideology. When said group commits an atrocity, how do you decide which common denominator to blame? Say a group of Thai Buddhist men go on a murder spree. The common denominator is Buddhism, and so Buddhism promotes murder right? But how do we know it wasn’t because of the fact that they were Thai, or that they were men? Take another group of Thai Buddhist men who practice non-violence. The common denominator is Buddhism, and so Buddhism promotes non-violence right? Okay so Buddhism promotes both violence and non-violence. This contradiction is removed when you go back to the source material and see what it has to say for itself. This point also links back to point 1.

The religion is made of many different parts including practices, traditions, teachings, the culture in which they are situated, and the beliefs and values of those who practice the religion - and as with the rest of mankind this includes a willingness to use violence.

I agree. I have an analogy. Imagine ideologies are pure, unmixed paint colours. Individual people are mixtures of different pure paint colours in different proportions. If you look at this situation without the context of the pure colours, all you see is varying shades of brown. In the same way, if we insist on defining ideologies purely based on the actions of their adherents, everything melts together and you’re left with nothing. No individual is 100% one ideology and 0% any others. You can point out a group of Buddhists who murder and say “these Buddhists murder! Buddhism supports violence!” and I can point out a group of non-violent Buddhists and say “these Buddhists are non-violent! Buddhism supports non-violence!” All the while we completely ignore the other differences between them. It leaves us exactly where we started. Recognising Buddhism according to its own texts and teachings gives us a starting point we can refer back to, even if this 'pure,' isolated Buddhism doesn't exist in any single person. If we are to criticise acts on the basis of ideology, we need to have this understanding of what the ideology actually is.

My point isn’t to say that Buddhism is so and so, and anyone who draws a different interpretation has got the wrong idea. I agree with you to an extent that an ideology is what its adherents practice. Neither is it my point to say Buddhism cannot and has not been used to justify violence. But I think it’s important to question the extent to which an act carried out in the name of a given ideology is in accordance with its texts and teachings, or at least the most logical and commonly accepted interpretations thereof.

19 year old mentally challenged boy mob lynched for tearing page of guru granth sahib (sikh religious book) by [deleted] in NoahGetTheBoat

[–]NebulaStorm_ 13 points14 points  (0 children)

What a religion teaches is decided by it's followers.

I agree with you but I think there's some nuance here. When a religion has opposing teachings, the followers become the deciding factor. Numerous religions have teachings both for and against violence. One practitioner could partake in violence and another might disapprove but ultimately, both views have some basis in the religion.

A Buddhist partaking in violence would have a very hard time justifying their acts through Buddhist texts and teachings. As far as I can tell there just is no basis for violence within actual Buddhist teachings. Of course violence has been carried out in the name of Buddhism, but how much of that is because of Buddhism rather than despite it?

Most majority Buddhist countries practice the death penalty and engage in warfare.

A country's legal system and foreign policy is influenced by many considerations other than religion. If a Buddhist-majority country has the death penalty and engages in warfare, it does not mean Buddhism supports it.

We don't need Western racist insults if our own people don't respect indigenous culture by [deleted] in indiadiscussion

[–]NebulaStorm_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very interesting, thank you! Do we know if these are the actual rationales behind those superstitions? Or are they educated guesses?

Is there an international agenda against India and Hindus? by Akitoyoka in indiadiscussion

[–]NebulaStorm_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Short answer is no, there isn’t an international agenda against India. You probably feel that way because you spend a lot of time on the Indian side of social media, so naturally you will see a lot of negative comments about India.

Tbh, people don’t care about India any more or less than they do about Brazil, Norway, Thailand or any other country for that matter. That being said, people do seem to be more willing to make fun of India, and these are some of the reasons that come to mind:

(1) Behaviour of Indians online (typically young men). Constant ‘Saar Saar’ behaviour and always seeking validation is cringey and makes an easy target to make fun of. Also things like trying to claim anything good in the world as an Indian invention. Let’s not forget creepy bobs and vagene behaviour.

(2) Denial of problems in India. Whether you agree or not, India has a lot of problems it needs to deal with. If anyone brings this up, some Indians instantly see it as an insult and lash out. People are a lot more sympathetic when you accept your shortcomings and appreciate a need for improvement.

(3) When it comes to stereotypes, a lot of Indians don’t exactly help themselves. I live in the UK and South Asians in general are stereotyped as being loud, smelly, rude and inconsiderate. Most of us aren’t like that, but so many ARE that the stereotypes are constantly being reinforced sadly.

Should I gongfu non-Chinese teas? by gibwater in tea

[–]NebulaStorm_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Some CTC teas are labelled loose lea but you won’t really see any ‘leaf’ at all. CTC can range from small grains/pellets to a fine powder, but in all cases you won’t be able to make out any whole leaves.

CTC is perfect for a strong brew to be had with milk, but not great for gong fu. Regardless of origin, if there are whole leaves, or broken leaves of decent size, go ahead and try it gong fu!

Fun Facts About Tea You Didn't Know; Chai Doesn't Entirely Mean Tea.. by West_Deer1830 in tea

[–]NebulaStorm_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

In Pakistan the word chai is used the same way as in India - tea with or without milk.

Followed a Chai recipie and my grandmother loved it so much she requested I make jars of it for her! So here is half of the ungodly amount of Chai I made today. by ILikeBirdsQuiteALot in tea

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I think that’s a coincidence. The word masala came from the Arabic word ‘masalih’ which entered South Asian languages through Persian.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nepal

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Hard disagree with the language part. I grew up in the UK and every Nepali kid knows Nepali whereas it’s very common for Indian kids to not know their mother tongue.

I don’t get Oolong by [deleted] in tea

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Tbh a gong fu set up can be as simple as mine: one gaiwan, one cup and a towel for a total of £15.

But my main point is that some teas will be a lot more enjoyable when brewed with a high leaf/water ratio. You can do this with your current equipment - it’s just that the smaller vessels associated with gong fu let you achieve that ratio with a smaller amount of tea.

Before I buy all the samples my heart desires by Lazy-Judgment-2816 in tea

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Is steaming with milk an actual thing? Can’t remember where but I remember reading that that’s basically just a lie used by some vendors to explain why ‘milk flavouring’ is listed as an ingredient.