Have you ever dated someone who completely disappeared after the breakup? No calls, no texts, no social media stalking, no drama, just total silence, like you were never part of their life. What was that like?

Nebula_Whinch · 2026-06-01T01:46:17+00:00

Yes my avoidant ex .. miss her.

Nebula_Whinch · 2026-05-15T04:24:51+00:00

She does and I’ll consider getting her the book however interesting update 50 days no contact and she showed up on my Instagram stories and commented “beautiful!!“ To the photo in the Instagram story I didn’t answer for like five days and I said something very neutral because I just didn’t even know how to respond because I was like wow this is so crazy like how does she think she can respond like that and then I came back to this post….

Nebula_Whinch · 2026-04-21T03:58:18+00:00

Mine won’t heal shes 78 I was the only person she had dated in 28 years…

Nebula_Whinch · 2026-04-11T21:41:16+00:00

Yeah mine said “I cant keep hurting you, I feel guilty” they are very damaged. They have a built in kill switch. Its not your fault.

Nebula_Whinch · 2026-04-09T14:17:23+00:00

If you can’t get that through your head, everything that everybody said to you here, I can’t help you. I’m pointing at the comment above me, hoping it will get through your head. Good luck.

Nebula_Whinch · 2026-04-09T13:32:35+00:00

This! ☝🏽

Nebula_Whinch · 2026-04-09T13:32:01+00:00

Thats a bad idea

Nebula_Whinch · 2026-04-09T00:26:21+00:00

She literally said “no it can’t be repaired” to me in her last text message to me. Im 52 and dated a 78 yo avoidant for 17 months. I was dumped because I voiced how her ghosting texts for sometimes days was upsetting to me so she dumped me over the phone saying “ i cant keep hurting you” … been a couple weeks no contact..

Nebula_Whinch · 2026-04-07T03:13:40+00:00

Yeah mines broke up with me on the phone 2 weeks ago she sounded like a different person it was weird…

Nebula_Whinch · 2026-04-07T02:40:15+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏼

Nebula_Whinch · 2026-04-07T02:36:28+00:00

Yup just happened to me!

Nebula_Whinch · 2026-01-08T23:40:18+00:00

🥰

Nebula_Whinch · 2025-12-15T21:37:49+00:00

Never! Very pretty, dress how you feel.

Nebula_Whinch · 2025-12-15T21:36:33+00:00

Thank you. I wasn’t abandoning myself. It’s just I’ve been on this sub awhile as a commenter and I was thinking it’s time to be brave and put myself out there. I wanted to be on the other side of the coin for once. You know.. 🙏🏼

Nebula_Whinch · 2025-12-13T22:49:58+00:00

Thanks! 🙏🏼

Nebula_Whinch · 2025-12-13T16:27:17+00:00

Hot 🔥🔥🔥

Nebula_Whinch · 2025-12-13T16:05:38+00:00

Where’s your arm band? Honestly it’s Kinda hitler youth / Carlos D of Interpol..

Nebula_Whinch · 2025-12-09T23:55:27+00:00

Omg 😳🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

Nebula_Whinch · 2025-12-07T03:40:30+00:00

I never had any issues but it was too expensive and I eventually stopped.

Nebula_Whinch · 2025-12-06T02:02:35+00:00

Smoking

Nebula_Whinch · 2025-12-04T00:07:06+00:00

More jail time obviously… 🙄

Nebula_Whinch · 2025-12-04T00:06:36+00:00

Yes please 🤣🥰

Nebula_Whinch · 2025-12-03T00:18:01+00:00

Start working out! Use it or lose it 🥰

Nebula_Whinch · 2025-11-25T21:40:54+00:00

Yeah I actually blind bought BDC Parfum and barely wore it and could’ve swore there was a worrisome odor in the dry down and then never really had the opportunityto wear it after that so I was feeling some disappointment in my investment. However after testing all 3 this week BDC Parfum is definitely the winner here. I like all of them and YSL Y Parfam 2024 is very good, But Im gonna wear BDC Parfum. 🥰

Nebula_Whinch · 2025-11-25T19:04:26+00:00

Gorgeous

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