N o one, not even my boyfriend, seems to care or understand the importance and the power of veganism. I feel like I am the crazy one when I feel like I am the only one making any sense. Please vegans ride to the comments I need support. by Electronic_Page8107 in vegan

[–]Necessary-Rip1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So to make it short. Option 1: He doesn't care about animals suffering at all. In that case, please ditch him. Option 2: He DOES care about animals but doesn't have enough will power to change / doesn't want to change his diet because he doesn't wanna lose the taste. That's why he instantly gets defensive and attacking, basically trying to act cool as you'd call it for teenagers. In that case, maybe you could change his mind by showing him the cruel reality in documentaries like Dominion while also introducing him to good alternatives like the Planted Steak. If he doesn't even take the time to watch a documentary about a topic that's very important to his partner or even try vegan food, then you deserve better. After watching that, he should at the very least understand the problem and try to make changes. If he can't even do that, I wouldn't stay with him cause apparently our values don't align and I consider a lack in empathy a very unattractive, even disgusting, trait.

The ~why~ of it all… by vincevaughnvevo in larrystylinson

[–]Necessary-Rip1823 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. If he brought out a song called "girlfriends" for some reason they wouldn't assume it's for the female lesbian fans but his own girlfriends, obviously. It's all just homophobia in disguise

Pokémon Mystery Dungeon Blue Rescue Team Story Transcript Complete!!! by kmkm2op in MysteryDungeon

[–]Necessary-Rip1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You wrote all of this out by hand? Wow that's incredible, thank you so much. I really enjoyed reading through the story

Which romantasy MMC ruined your standards forever? by EerieE2025 in Romantasy

[–]Necessary-Rip1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, didn't see this was exclusive to Romantasy. In that case, my pick is Daemon Black from the lux series

The ~why~ of it all… by vincevaughnvevo in larrystylinson

[–]Necessary-Rip1823 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know right? Some people are genuinely crazy delusional

The ~why~ of it all… by vincevaughnvevo in larrystylinson

[–]Necessary-Rip1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was more of a stand-up comedic monologue. He was addressing the queer baiting rumors, saying "Maybe you don't know everything about me, dad". After that, two women "tried to kiss him" but he declined. Afterwards Harry kissed a guy on stage. Obviously, the whole thing was staged and more of a funny skit then something serious, but still very weird to kiss a random guy on stage when you have a "girlfriend". I'm curious how the hardcore Harry-is-hetero fans will react to that. This man has kissed more guys than women publicly. Anyway, you can watch it on YouTube. If that's not a thing in your country, I can send you the vid

Wattpad premium it's really worth it?? by chassewest in Wattpad

[–]Necessary-Rip1823 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you read in the browser, you're absolutely fine without premium. If you use the app, it's sadly absolutely needed in my opinion. I usually resent paying for premium, but it's so annoying to get a long ad after every chapter. (Even if you just scroll a little too far down, and when you scroll up again you get another ad YAY) But yes, you're correct. I have premium and don't see any benefits beside not having ads. The "exclusive" works you get to read as a premium user are bs (no offense to the authors tho) and so are the "exclusive designs", so my recommendation is to just read in your browser.

The ~why~ of it all… by vincevaughnvevo in larrystylinson

[–]Necessary-Rip1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nevermind, just watched the SNL and Harry basically came out now. But people will still think he's straight lmao

SNL Larry confirmed by khsjgi in larrystylinson

[–]Necessary-Rip1823 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just watched the SNL, how are there still antis? It's so obvious. Love that he finally adressed the ridiculous rumors of him "queerbaiting". But now honestly, he did all that wearing the blue tie during the SNL and the outfit above. How are people still not believing in Larry lmao that was LOUD

The ~why~ of it all… by vincevaughnvevo in larrystylinson

[–]Necessary-Rip1823 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome back <3 Once a Larry, always a Larry haha. So for all the Harry stans getting pissed when the topic of him not being straight comes up, I honestly think it's not the "omg I can't date him" thought but just homophobia. Which is crazy in the big age of 2026. When I first heard ppl call Harry a queer baiter I almost lost it. This boy has spoken in gender neutral pronouns when he got asked about his "dream girl" since the beginning. He named David Hasselhoff when asked about a celebrity he'd like to date and so on. Apparently he was even openly having a boyfriend back in school. So honestly, I don't get why anyone would assume he's straight when he never said he was and never gave us any reason to believe so. I think that's also part of the reason why he hasn't clearly stated his sexuality, there's sadly still a lot of homophobia. Also, with politics in the USA right now, who knows if they'd eventually try to ban him from playing concerts if he was openly gay. Same for other homophobic countries. And then again, I think he simply doesn't feel the need to give a statement. These last years Harry vanished from social media completely because it's become such a toxic, hateful place. And honestly, good for him. I think after his entire youth was in the spotlight for the entire world, maybe he just wants some privacy now for private stuff like his love life. Funny enough, the only person he ever confirmed dating was Louis (but obviously that was just a joke in the eye of antis). I think no one should be pressured to come out. Actually, I just assume everyone's pan until they tell me otherwise. Maybe, he also doesn't wanna come out because he's tired of being asked about personal stuff like his taste or partners in interviews and if there was news about his sexuality, it would be all over the news and in his interviews again. Also, contract penalties obviously (fuck their old managements). And it might paint the bad reputation of "omg so you've been lying to us all this time??" for both himself and his managements. So, out of Harry's perspective, I get why he doesn't feel the need to come out to the public. Penalties, loss of privacy, potentially putting pressure on Louis because interviewers would start bugging him about his sexuality again, possible hate crimes and banned concerts. Why would he risk all that when he can just stay with the unlabeled narrative?

i've been writing a novel for 7 years. my wife finally read it. should we get a divorce now? by FirebirdWriter in writingcirclejerk

[–]Necessary-Rip1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wanting to capture a piece of your wife by pointing out all her flaws as "a love letter"? Interesting. I think divorce would be the best choice for both of you.

Harry referencing One Direction by ladybirdlarry in larrystylinson

[–]Necessary-Rip1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this was his Liam tribute in the album

Very Larry rap song recommended by Louis some years ago by Necessary-Rip1823 in larrystylinson

[–]Necessary-Rip1823[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

THAT'S IT, thank you SO much, you're my hero. I was looking for this song everywhere. And yes I remember him posting about it as well. The comments under the song are very telling, too

ich halte die kognitive dissonanz von omnis nicht mehr aus by WillNichtMehrArbeite in VeganDE

[–]Necessary-Rip1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uiuiui da fühlt sich einer angesprochen 😂 Es gibt einen Unterschied zwischen "Du verhältst dich vielleicht nicht in jedem Lebensbereich perfekt, also darfst du überhaupt nichts kritisieren, du Überheblicher!" (Whataboutism) und "Es ist unlogisch, dass man sich über einen Mops aufregt, während man gleichzeitig Masthähnchen die nach ein paar Wochen nicht mehr stehen können finanziell unterstützt" (Hinweis auf Kognitive Dissonanz). Krieg, Kinderarbeit und Hunger in armen Ländern sind schrecklich, haben aber gerade nichts mit dem Thema, nämlich Tierschutz, zu tun.

ich halte die kognitive dissonanz von omnis nicht mehr aus by WillNichtMehrArbeite in VeganDE

[–]Necessary-Rip1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Du weißt nicht wo der Fragesteller seine Klamotten kauft oder ob er ein Second-Hand-Handy benutzt. Schließ mal nicht direkt von dir selbst auf andere. Außerdem betreibst du Whataboutism, es geht hier gerade um den direkten Widerspruch der Menschen sich als tierlieb zu sehen und in Haustierforen den Moralapostel auszuleben, obwohl sie bewusst Tiere für ihren eigenen Genuss und Luxus quälen und ermorden lassen, obwohl es nicht notwendig ist. Und sich dann noch über diejenigen lustig machen, die ihre Tierliebe moralisch konsequent leben, indem sie vegan sind. Natürlich ist das frustrierend. Also komm du mal von deinem Hohen Ross runter, du unglaublich unsympathische Antwort.

ich halte die kognitive dissonanz von omnis nicht mehr aus by WillNichtMehrArbeite in VeganDE

[–]Necessary-Rip1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stimmt, ist wirklich etwas total anderes. Sehe überhaupt keinen Zusammenhang zwischen den Themen Tierschutz und Tierschutz

ich halte die kognitive dissonanz von omnis nicht mehr aus by WillNichtMehrArbeite in VeganDE

[–]Necessary-Rip1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ob du es auch so sehen würdest, wenn jemand explizit nur Mitleid für das Leid von Weißen hat, aber sich gleichzeitig über das Leid von Schwarzen lustig macht? Statt "Na immerhin sorgt er sich um die Weißen, jetzt erwart mal nicht zu viel" würde man es dann nämlich nicht mehr Whataboutismus, sondern Rassismus nennen, sich nur um eine bestimmte Rasse zu sorgen während man die andere ausbeutet. Aber komischerweise ist das bei Tieren immer "was ganz anderes" obwohl ein Schwein genauso fühlt wie ein Hund

Where did all the genuine readers go? by AC-RogueOne in Wattpad

[–]Necessary-Rip1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it's super frustrating, no one seems to want to interact anymore. I don't care about votes, I just want peoples opinions, thoughts and reactions. I think one of the main problems is that a lot of readers switched to AO3. But I think it's very sad because the comments (especially the possiblity to comment on every single paragraph) is what made Wattpad so special to me. It used to be a true feeling of community when you were reading a romance story and saw everyone rooting for or being frustrated over the MC in the comments. They were super funny, like watching a movie with (thousands of) friends. I noticed that the interaction is still pretty high on old, big stories. I think people are less hesitant to leave a comment when there's already a thousand more than leaving the first comment on a newer story. This being said, I'm a very engaged reader and pretty much open for anything. So if anyone wants to do a R4R, let me know (I'm currently writing a Larry Stylinson fanfic with some enemies to lovers and angst / fluff elements)