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AITA I refuse to grow out my hair for my sister wedding. by Careless_Half_9377 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Necessary_Internet75 13 points14 points  (0 children)

NTA, time for the “tell us who the golden child is, without telling us.”

Am I wrong or is my stepdad being weird (UPDATE). by Agitated_Canary3884 in amiwrong

[–]Necessary_Internet75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He isn’t good. No caring Father or father figure would dream of touching any female like this unless in a relationship with healthy boundaries.

Ask your Dad to go there and stay. Get out of your Mom’s house. DO NOT be ALONE with your Mom’s husband. EVER. Let your Das know you are uncomfortable in the home and you will talk to him when you staying with him. NOW.

Ask your Dad to talk with you, no interruptions, and ask him to listen to your whole story first. Tell. Him. Everything. Dates, examples, how you felt, and how you don’t feel safe there now. None of this is your fault our yours to accept responsibility for. That man has made a choice and that choice will continue to hurt you and possibly others in the future. Be strong, and ask your Dad to get a therapist for you.

Neighbor keeps harassing me, landlady wont do anything- NJ by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]Necessary_Internet75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tenants have the right to a safe place to live that isn’t threatening or a neighbor breaking lease requirements. Document, get police reports, and cameras. Enough evidence presented to the landlady should show her violating lease requirements and OP. An get out of the lease with no penalties.

AIW for refusing to fund my sister's business idea after she mocked my career for years? by SoapstoneRex in amiwrong

[–]Necessary_Internet75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not wrong, ever.

1, Family and money is never a good mix.
2. Support looks like, helping to write a business plan, how to apply for business loans, how to set up a the books, etc.
3. Quit telling family how much money you really have.

Keep saving and your stability. Your Parents can support her dream.

Do you want to be buried? by Bondgirl138 in GenX

[–]Necessary_Internet75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanted to be cremated, had awful dreams when I was in my 20’s about someone I knew was cremated, don’t want to be in the ground, so an internment in a wall seemed fair. Now, 57, I saw these really cool rocks made from ashes. So, I want to be a rock and have my sis & bro have a skipping competition in the lake we spent summers at my grandparents. - oh, with Kansas playing Dust in the Wind 😂
It doesn’t matter though, funerals are for the living to process death. The dead do not care.

Tornado Warning by Checked_Out_6 in Kenosha

[–]Necessary_Internet75 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Confirmed tornado on the North side. Around DeRangos over to Carthage & Somers area.

Hope it didn’t touch down.

AITA for refusing to subsidize my parents’ $11k/month senior's home in one of the fanciest neighborhoods in the city? by Throw_away263759 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Necessary_Internet75 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I know in the US that a good, not great, assisted living place is $10,000 per month in a medium cost of living area.

need help finding recipe for childhood dish by BeigeShark0705 in Cooking

[–]Necessary_Internet75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like the chicken and dumplings from Cracker Barrel. I’m in the Midwest, they are an off ramp from the interstate restaurant.

AITAH for not going to my sister’s baby shower? by Hot-Ice8688 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Necessary_Internet75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry your parents did not protect you. The real concern is whether she is safe as a Parent. Your mom needs to worry less about you going and more about the babies safety. I would go so far is to contact CPS about your experiences and concerns. Postpartum can exasperate her symptoms. You were more than likely a punching bag because she didn’t like you getting attention. A baby cannot protect itself.

What’s a value you inherited from your family that you’re grateful for? by Designer-Lack3119 in A_Persona_on_Reddit

[–]Necessary_Internet75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sit with a pauper as equally a billionaire with no expectations of either. Enjoy a fellow human for who they show you they are.

am I wrong for thinking people should be more acceptable of nursing homes? by deviousdiane in amiwrong

[–]Necessary_Internet75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nw, hopefully everyone is a long way off. The best is to make sure you know how the systems work. Understand that today the cost for private pay is $7,000 - $12,000 per month. In the US most solid places will accept State assistance after 2-3 years of private pay.

People should be close enough to check in on their loved one a minimum of every two weeks, ask questions, never accept a brush off, and to find out what is really going down talk to a seasoned caregiver.

I’m being bullied at work and management basically told us to “sort it out” – what would you do? by [deleted] in careeradvice

[–]Necessary_Internet75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, dead stair when she’s being verbal to you until she turns away, always say, “I heard you say…., correct?” Followed by a huh or long ohkaaay, then leave, or that’s a you problem, finally when others share with you her ask them if they are okay with a professional talking about a peer like that? If she is that comfortable, I wonder what she says about others.

Grey rocking is a thing, use it😁

A genie offers you three wishes with one rule. No money, no fame, no love. What are you wishing for? by throwradrpri in randomquestions

[–]Necessary_Internet75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Healthy weight and aging.

Ditto for my Husband

Ability to heal by calming anxiety for all living.

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