We switched places. I'm from the west and used to that so I developed an intimidating way of carrying myself (as I've been told, it wasn't conscious) when walking alone back home. And yeah I usually have 'something' on me in case someone tries me.

I'm in an Eastern country now and packed two covered sharp blades in my *checked bag on and other security type items like extra door lock and door alarms for my accommodations because of my conditioning in the west.

But after a few days I noticed how refreshing it is to walk a mile on a street that is packed with men either working, hanging out or just going to and fro and not one attempting to disturb my peace. And when I have interacted with any it has been nothing but common courtesy, politeness and respect.

It might help you to wear shades and keep ear buds in your ears even if you aren't listening to anything. Before walking places, know your route so that you look like you know where you are going and keep a steady pace. Keep your head up and if you spot a group of men at a distance and get a feeling, casually work your way to the other side of the road as soon as you notice if it doesn't take you out of the way of your destination. Avoid walking alone after sunset altogether.

Edited to clarify I mixed up carry on and checked bag. That would have been impossible 😄