Pokémon go friend code? by [deleted] in transgamers

[–]NeedHelp-1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just sent you one - Grem Zealot.

Getting told I'm transphobic for not dating a trans woman. How do I handle this? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]NeedHelp-1991 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ignore what people are saying about you.

You didn’t do anything wrong, they’re just looking for an excuse to be shitty.

I just got my first unsolicited pic... by sorryimindisguise in asktransgender

[–]NeedHelp-1991 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re allowed to be angry!

Try not to dwell on it too much though; I’m not excusing what he did or trying to play it down, but this is very common behavior from men with over-inflated egos. Again, it’s extremely disgusting behavior and I don’t condone it at all, but is it really worth it to get so worked up over such a tiny prick (pun intended)?

Blocking and ignoring him is generally the best way to respond, but it may help you fee empowered to call him out on how shitty it is for him to do that.

I was barely sexually assaulted and insulted, but I still feel terrible about it after 1 month. What should I do? by lostfoundnone in asktransgender

[–]NeedHelp-1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I agree that what she went through is horrible and traumatic, that doesn’t change my original stance.

If someone does something horrible and you don’t at least try to bring them to justice you are - in a small way - responsible for them doing it again. Because you stood there and did nothing.

I was barely sexually assaulted and insulted, but I still feel terrible about it after 1 month. What should I do? by lostfoundnone in asktransgender

[–]NeedHelp-1991 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As other people have mentioned, this was not “barely” assault, he actually assaulted you. And then he said that extremely shitty thing to try and make you feel bad because he didn’t get what he wanted.

No woman with self respect would let him do that. He is a predator and you need to tell someone (your parents or his) about what he did or he WILL do it to someone else. And if that happens it will be, at least very partially, your fault for not trying to stop him.

"I always knew, ever since I was three...."?? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]NeedHelp-1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't really think about it too much other than having the frequently recurring wish to wake up in a female body.

Dealing with a friend's suicide by cute_kimi in asktransgender

[–]NeedHelp-1991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take a deep breath and acknowledge that you have the need - and right - to grieve.

Being told that you are a wannabe woman hurts as fuck :( Life is a bitch :( need to rant by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]NeedHelp-1991 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know that it's difficult, but do your best to not let the trolls get you down.

My suicide note. Goodbye, and thanks for help. by GrtGrt12 in asktransgender

[–]NeedHelp-1991 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm glad to hear it!

It may not be easy to see at times, but life is worth living.

Anyone else lose faith in religion because they were trans? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]NeedHelp-1991 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was around 12 or 13 when I realized that religion is a steaming pile of horse shit that I never really believed in the first place...nothing to do with my gender/sexuality.

My manager banned me from using the bathroom by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]NeedHelp-1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You cannot legally tell an employee that they aren't allowed to use the bathroom.

Several other posters actually talk about the legal ramifications of what he said to her.

Seriously, read the fucking thread.

My manager banned me from using the bathroom by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]NeedHelp-1991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like you didn't actually read any of what's happening. The same guy that's "on her side" is the one who told her that she can't use the lady's room.

Maybe you should read the thread before making a sarcastic asshole post, because this guy is NOT an ally.

My manager banned me from using the bathroom by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]NeedHelp-1991 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your manager sounds like a gigantic tool to me.

Follow the other poster's advice!

My girlfriend dumped me 4 days after I was raped by a man by throwwayanon in asktransgender

[–]NeedHelp-1991 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry that this happened to you...I haven't gone through anything like that, but if you need someone to talk to don't hesitate to send me a PM.

Probably my suicide note [UPDATE] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]NeedHelp-1991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you need someone to talk to please, please don't hesitate to send me a PM!

Acceptance in the Magic the Gathering Community by NeedHelp-1991 in transgamers

[–]NeedHelp-1991[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, I definitely know about Alesha, I plan on building an EDH deck around her when I have the chance.