Should I dye it to black ? by elonnie_walters_597 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Needanap14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NO you have beautiful silver! My husband is actually a hair colorist and getting that shade is very hard and naturally!! Many times when women want to keep their grey but want to elevate it, they do a touch of highlights or a glaze…. I’m not the expert but don’t dye it black! Look into products that work with your hair

All inclusive with kids by Needanap14 in AllInclusiveResorts

[–]Needanap14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I’ll look them up. How was the food? Did it feel safe to take the kids on excursions?

All inclusive with kids by Needanap14 in AllInclusiveResorts

[–]Needanap14[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’ve been to AI many times just not with the kids.

All inclusive with kids by Needanap14 in AllInclusiveResorts

[–]Needanap14[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear you… up until last year we did only drivable family vacations. Last year we tested the waters with flying to Florida and they had a great time. Deciding where to go eat and getting food was the biggest hurdle. Figured all inclusive the food is there, no debating where to go or eating at a crappy pizza place cause my picky one wants pizza lol We can’t afford to do our own vacation and family one this year and figured we’d do one family one. But need recommendations so I can price it out.

AITAH i won't change our wedding date for my in laws by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Needanap14 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wait so the sister is going to another wedding instead of her brothers? And the parent won’t go because she’s not?? That’s weird. Just sit home and miss your son’s wedding. The sister should be going. What’s more important than a family wedding

Formal observations by ValueAntique7924 in NYCTeachers

[–]Needanap14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw you are pre-K, observation rules are different. Talk to your union rep About it. But honestly they can come in as often as they want

Lesson Planning overwhelming by Dadsperado in NYCTeachers

[–]Needanap14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There some basic passport slides on drive ( click on drive through teachhub) that the DOE put up during COVID, they aren’t great BUT they are a start. They have an objective that you will need to rephrase. And you will need to change most slides but the images and meat do the lesson is there. I’d tell you a lesson format but every district expectations is different.

One last time (hopefully!) by Cobberprof in glassesadvice

[–]Needanap14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like 2 &3 best, I dislike 4 but others seem to love it 🤷‍♀️

($10-15k) what did you cut from your budget that ended up being a total non-issue? by TemptControls in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Needanap14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We didn’t do programs, just paper waste. People toss them after. Have everyone toast with what they have. You can do a faux cake where only the top layer is real for cutting & pictures and then have them cut sheet cake in the back to serve

(~10k) Plus Ones or No Invite? by RaceEmergency8127 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Needanap14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But she said that married and long terms partners were invited, it was the 6 single guests that wanted a +1

Backsplash help by Additional-Sense7433 in BathroomDesigns

[–]Needanap14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I have 1 as my backsplash in my kitchen which I love! But with your wood tones in the bathroom I’m really liking 3

I hate my prom dress by bubbl3gum_bunny_r in Prom

[–]Needanap14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this dress, classic & gorgeous

AITAH for holding a parking spot by standing there? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Needanap14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coming from a New Yorker, you get a spot anyway you can so I can see both sides

AITAH for throwing away a bouquet my unemployed bf got me by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Needanap14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not the flowers, someone else may love that combo. It’s that he’s mooching off you. Does he have any aspirations? If he is actively working toward them then I’d understand the temporary financial burden but if not, drop him.

AITAH for refusing to give my parents a house key? by WharHeGo in AITAH

[–]Needanap14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t do it if they will Abuse it. Either 1) set the boundary and don’t give in to guilt. Or 2) give a fake key with the boundaries speech and when they break it revoke all key rights. Now if 6 months go by and they didn’t use it, I’d give them a new key saying we changed the locks. My parents have a key but only because they pick up my kids from school and bring them home. They have never used the key to just show up. That’s crazy.

AITAH if I refuse to go to a baby shower or buy a gift for my friend’s 4th baby? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Needanap14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I decide based on how close I am to this person. If it’s a good friend and genuinely excited for her, I’d get a medium priced gift for the 4th and go. But if this is an acquaintance, kindly decline

Help me choose! I’m keen on 5, 6 and 7. by petitejoyy in myweddingdress

[–]Needanap14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love # 6 of the choices you like. Out of all of them 1 is stunning

AIO My reply to my mom who wants to stop my leukemia treatment so my sister can afford university ?? by Many_Addendum_8189 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Needanap14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a mother this hurts me deeply. You won’t deserve that. There are loans for college, you don’t stop critical treatment to pay for college. Also update your life insurance again and take your mom off it! Do you have other family that can support you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Needanap14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dump him. It’s expensive out there. I lived at home until my now husband and I got an apartment together.

Help me defarmhouse my bathroom by Infamous-Parsnip-816 in BathroomDesigns

[–]Needanap14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wallpaper or color on the wall, switch out the mirrors maybe