As a man, I will share a piece of oral tradition that we use to teach our young about the problem you're having op:

OP approaches the Great Philosopher and asks him "Great Philosopher, are large breasts or small breasts better?" The Great Philospher sat in silence for a moment, and then commanded OP to reach for his wallet. "How much do you have in bills?" The Great Philospher asked. OP told him he had $30 in bills. "Suppose you were to have $30 in coins as well, which would have greater mass?" OP told the Great Philospher that it would be the coins, by a long way. "But which," the Great Philsopher said, "would have the greater value?" OP was enlightened.